India is possibly one of the most curious countries in the world due to their particular culture, their traditions or their perception of reality. The most spiritual nation in the world brings together these curiosities about culture India Among which we delve into their wardrobe, their parties or even their marital rites.
Do you want learn more about Indian culture before traveling to curry country? Here we explain key aspects such as their religion, food, heritage and more. Do not miss it.
India religion
In India they agglutinate four major religions arising in the subcontinent such as Hinduism (80% of the population), Sikhism (1.7%), Buddhism (0.7%) or Jainism (0.4%). This last religion, in particular, concentrates on the state of Gujarat, northwest of India, and is characterized by a diet based on food fallen from trees. Other religions such as Islam (14%) or Christianity (2.3%) also have a great influence in India.
Indian food
La Indian gastronomy It includes hundreds of dishes defined according to the geographical region of the country, with spices such as ginger, pepper, kardamom or combinations of massala and curry being a recurring dressing in most dishes. In the north, for example, the dhal fry, a rice and lentil stew, the rice pulau, made with beef, or loaves of bread naan (made with yogurt) and the paratha (with potato and onion, my favorite).
In southern India, more tropical flavors prevail, such as shadya, a mixture of pickles and breads served in banana leaf, its coconut and mango chutneys or the presence of lassi, a yogurt-based drink with tropical fruits whose most curious version, the bhang lassi, is prepared with marijuana and is used to heal diseases according to the cultures of the Ghats. Or so they say.
India and its heritages
India is the sixth country in the world with the highest number of Unesco heritages, Being the Taj Mahal, in the city of Agra, the most famous of them all and the image that best sold India to the rest of the world. The mausoleum was ordered to be built in 1631 by Prince Shah Jahan after the death of his wife, Mumtaz Mahal, who died after giving birth to their fourteenth child. Built over 22 years, Jahan is believed to have cut off the hands of all the craftsmen who worked on the creation of the Taj Mahal so that they could not help build such a monument again.
The dowry, typical of Indian culture
Although it was abolished years ago, the so-called dowry is one of the cruelest aspects of Indian culture and yes, it is still carried out, especially in rural areas and the states of South India.
The dowry consists of an amount of money that parents must pay together with their daughter once they give her to her husband and his family. If the family wants more money, the bride's parents must give it to her, which is why being born a woman in India is often seen as a symbol of bad fortune in certain social classes, conditioning the future daughter's life based on an arranged marriage. for which their parents must save throughout their lives.
Yes but no
One of the most curious customs of India it resides in the way the locals agree. When we ask someone and they tilt their head in denial, they really want to say yes. Enchanting although somewhat unsettling at times.
Indian Fashion
La indian clothing They are divided into various garments depending on the state or region, although the one known as Shari, a seamless fabric with which women cover their bodies, and the dhoti for men, a piece of cotton fabric that can reach up to 5 meters used as pants around the waist, are the most famous of this culture India.
Then again, have you ever heard the word rakhi? If you are interested in hindu fashion You should know that it is a traditional bracelet that symbolizes love, something like the wedding ring. This bracelet is made with red cotton, although if you want to buy it as a souvenir, you can find it in silver, gold and even inlaid with precious stones.
El bindi, the famous mole made with sandalwood that Indian women wear especially on their foreheads is used as a decorative element and a sign of social status, being the red one used by married women and the yellow one by businessmen to achieve good fortune.
Curious customs
All the customs of India are some of the most peculiar in the world, including the sati, a ritual abolished by the government that is still practiced even so and that consists of the delivery of the widowed wife to the stake where her husband is cremated. The marriages of children with animals (and trees) to heal the evil eye or the Carnival of the Cows (or gopastami) in which all the Indian cattle are washed and decorated as a sign of respect are other picturesque examples.
Remember that the cow is the sacred animal of India for her condition of mother of the universe when conceiving milk as an element closely linked to Indian culture. The presence of the cow also serves to remember the vegetarianism, current followed by 500 million Indians.
What did you think of the Indian culture?
Of course they are the most beautiful people that inhabit this planet, their internal beauty is incredible, they just have to love them a lot, and never hurt them, they are very sensitive, I have a Hindu boyfriend and his sweetness is the best I LOVE YOU GAU
It is a culture that draws my attention a lot and because I would not like to marry that style with all its music of course and other typical dishes, it would be a nice memory that would last forever
the Hindus are very cute, with those big eyes they have….
I am rahs, Indu and I live in Argentina, I am 32 years old and I left India after a marriage that I have arranged for me ... which I could never assimilate and in a certain way I left ... losing my brahman caste just for be in love with a dhali..cro that we all deserve to be happy with the people we love ... you cannot love someone without knowing the future ... today I am in a wonderful country with such people ... I regret with my soul to be stripped by me family..but I decided to throw my luck to the wind ...... congratulations to all
hello what a pity your case sincerely rahs how do you say how one person can live without love that does not happen touching or kissing someone you do not know wau must be horrible God is love and therefore if someone does not love the other person then there is no nothing that simple
And where are you shots rash?
hi rahs my name is isabel. Well. I applaud your bravery as a man for having decided for you and not for a family that always thinks about interests ... you also know I would like to see a boy who is completely in love with him ... and that he feels the same for me, since we had a very beautiful romance ... he would also have made a decision as wise as you ... his parents also married him and now my life together with his is a disaster ... since he married a girl by arrangement .. it's sad to know now in the 21st century continue to do this kind of thing, well I hope you find a girl who you really love, and that you are reciprocated. Luck.
Hello, it's true ... I also lost a great love, a boy from India married me several years ago, we loved each other very much, he has the most beautiful and expansive eyes I've ever seen, but he had to leave, out of fear, he had to get married with the woman they had ready for him… I suffered a lot… today I understand what I am seeing from so many years, reading and learning about so many things. that they owe obedience to their parents so as not to be thrown out of the family womb..it is a very strong custom, that culture is harsh, even if it is mysterious and charming .. done what RASH..well, they say out there that the best thing is what happens ... good luck to g.
Hello. well I also had something like that. A boy from India fell in love with me after seeing me every day pass in front of his store. When I got to know him, I also fell in love with him and we were together for 7 months. But one day he told me that he had to go to India on vacation just to see his family and I believed it. He did not return until after 4 months and he returned married to his wife and now he already has a son :( but now I have a very handsome Hindu boyfriend I have never seen a boy like that in my life and he is 17 years old and he has promised me that if his family calls him to go to india and marry him..that he will not go..he wants to always be with me and wants to marry me when we are old..we will get married in india :) we must do everything possible to that your love does not leave you
I think this wave is very good and I would like to know if someone can pass me the information, especially regarding bindis
nothing more bye-bye
My father says that my name is Indu, and well, I am struck by everything that refers to India, I would like to be part of it, I like their songs, their clothes, I would like to know where their headquarters are in Lima
Yes. I think your name is Hindi..and if it isn't then it's Pakistani..but I think it's Hindu..I don't know
if you are right. In a Bollywood movie I saw ... an Indian girl said: why don't our parents educate so much and make us work so that later they make a big decision like this x us? They decide who we are going to spend the rest of our lives with! and he was right
Maybe we all say that this arranged marriage is something silly ... but who changes the mind or the decision of the family. they want to do with their children as they did with the family. it is something silly ... at least show some affection for those who come and do not impose anything since they earn the resentment of their children ... bye
Rash seems to me to be a person with a lot of internal strength, having thrown your luck to the wind as you say, because you are very close to his family ... he has a very strong bond ... but I really admire you that, very lucky in this long way and I do not worry you will see that later on your family will understand the reasons why you did ... you followed your thoughts and heart, rash success ... in terms of culture it is truly a country fortune, you know it is the largest consumer of gold ... we just have to look further , ... its culture, roots, history are surprising ... I am making plans to travel to India I would love to meet you ... thank you all
it is not to speak badly…. It's just that maybe a lot of people think this about the obligation. We must obey yes, of course we do, but if you put your destiny to luck, you don't think that at least you would feel uncomfortable. it's just that…. I admire everything Indu but that of arranged marriages. nunk I am going to perish because as much as you and I suffer for it. I wish that you, at least, have the happiness of marrying your boyfriend.
CLARO ANDREA AND SARA; they are girls right ?? They do not have the slightest idea of what the word culture means, how unfortunate and what a shame they cause me, Indu culture, like any other, is interesting for the intelligent and those who have criteria, you nooooooooooooo are for that now, you only think about it mother with friends ... be on the right pathooooo heeeeeeeeeeee congratulate your parents
I really love Hindus, I would like to be like the women on that side, they are very pretty and they dance beautifully.
It is really very nice to hear about them because they have an interesting culture, and the truth is, I would like to marry an indu and be only for him, and that he also be only for me, I would not want to share my dear Indu love with anyone.
I love the indus, their eyes attract me, their sympathy and especially their stature, is that I like tall people, and they are. I would like to be part of that beautiful city by the way …………. I love them I love them
well dora. your wishes can be fulfilled. I also really like the indus and india. Now I have a really handsome Hindu boyfriend. her big, long eyes and beautiful white teeth. and that smile. He is very good and I will marry him. and be like a Hindu woman? well you can. Just dress like them, there are very beautiful hinsu clothes and you paint like them and that's it :) and if you marry Hindu you should be only for him and not cheat on him with anyone else. You would become a Hindu and his family would love you very much. You would go with him and you would be one more Hindu in the family :) Be good luck!
hello aide. sight. I also have a Hindu boyfriend, and he has also proposed to me to marry him in India. He has told you to take you to India to marry him. that means that his parents have nothing arranged for him. do not worry. I am half Hindu half Spanish. He loves you and wants to marry you in India. go with him. your parents will like you very much. Just have respect for his religion and be loving with his mother 🙂 good luck!
look don't be afraid. I'd better get married now, already, before he leaves. Because it may be that when he goes to India his parents arrange a marriage for him with an Indian girl and he cannot say no, that if he has the same courage as rash. Talk to him. and with your parents. hope everything goes well friend 😉
Well, in India, marriage is very important, it is very beautiful too, it is like a blessing to the Hindu gods, and so your family will love you more. in india they will make sure that you are their wife for your whole life until death. and in Mexico it would be normal. but I think his family would like more to see you in India with them :)
your calm. look, talk seriously to him. Make him promise that he will come back in December for you and that he will come even single to marry you. If he promises you and really loves you, he will come for you :) Better get married in December. You have more time to think and talk about it with your family :)
Sure, do not worry. you make me marry :) he will come back for you. If he is forced to marry, he will tell you. they don't hide that :) good luck
Hello everyone, I have a cyber boyfriend and he is the most wonderful person I have ever met in my life I am a 27 year old woman and I met him online in a language course, I am beginning to fall in love with him, and he of me, but the most terrible thing is that his family will fix his marriage next 2011, I don't know what to do? If I keep talking to him, because the truth is that I think I feel love for him ...
Why can't Indian women say their husband's name in public? And what does it mean that the daughter-in-law has the key to the pantry? hehee! I see the novel Camino de Indias and those are my two doubts.
I have no idea Silvana ... I see that you really liked the telenovela ... well I had to watch it to learn more about that culture and be more down to earth, well a hug bye ..
I find that country very beautiful, its culture, its people, its customs and beliefs; I would like to have the opportunity to know the meaning in Spanish of the term (naja), I have read a lot about this country and it is charming that men and women are so beautiful, I consider that everything is a dream.
Hello my name is Mayan I am Indu and I live in La Plata (Argentina) I am 30 years old, I was deprived of my family for having fallen in love with a dhali. Because my caste was Brahmin, I left my native country and seemed to be thanks to my best friend! who helped me in the most difficult moments, I was never happy with that man. a marriage chosen by my family. I believe that we all have to be and choose who we want to live with! THANK YOU
Zharick Dulfay, I think the term naja refers to a snake ... for example when someone treats you badly; 'That's a cobra, or a snake ...' that word and 'tic' (as Rash does in the Brazilian novel) has hit me ...
Hello friends, I also had a bad experience with a Hindu… .. I met him on the internet, I fell in love and everything, I was deluded that he would take me to India and that he wanted me to meet his whole family, etc and that later when he already had all prepared to travel he told me that he excused himself that he did not want to keep me with a hope of nothing but that he was married and had 2 children ……. how's it going?
I never thought that he was playing with me because he said things so real he even called me on the phone….
I think that these kinds of people do not distinguish culture or religion, if they do it is because they do not have principles or morals, because with all the teaching that this culture has in one way or another they bring out how they are. , it depends a lot on the upbringing they have. you have to be very careful with those people who camouflage themselves in the network to take advantage and play with people. most of them lie without limits so you have to be very distrustful .. take it as a advice…
Maya I think you did well ... why be born if you know that you will spend the rest of your life with a man that you do not know and that you do not really love? it's a very bad time like that ... it's true that everyone deserves to be free and happy in their life ..
Hello Josselyn my humble advice is that you do not leave him alone because you do not speak his language I am sure that if he goes to visit your country you will be able to communicate easily that this is not an impediment you try to. Learning a little English with the basics will be fine but if you love him do not leave him alone for that reason fight for what you love that a language is learned in months but the opportunity to be with the love of your life rarely takes care of kisses from The savior here is my Gmail: krissiapleytezita@gmail.com
hello maya. you know I admire what you did, because you being a woman ... you made your own decision to take the bull by the horns. believe me I'm surprised, very lucky in what you do ... kisses, you have already too girls, saby jess and laura, bye
hello rhode. you know I was in shock when I read your experience ... that guy if that happened ... how could he have done that to you .. well, there are worse, I hope you forget quickly because guys like him are not worth it. lucky.
No dawn is not that I am against them, they fascinate me, and because I am trusting, a rest of negative things have happened to me for trusting too much in people, any way ... I met a Hindu on the internet and not super cute and everything told me things very beautiful, I try not to trust the words or what they write .. in the same way that is not worth, what are worth are the facts that is worth it !!! in the same way I found out that he is not a sincere boy…. I clarify !! I'm not saying they are all like that !! bye
Gisela, thank you for answering me, if I have heard the term in the Brazilian soap opera, I really like watching it and although I have read a lot about this country, believe me it never ceases to amaze me. Thank you again.
I have carefully read each of the comments that are here ... I think that the roots of each culture are wonderful, here we have many customs, values as strong as the Indian ones, only that the globalized world is erasing almost everything; It is up to each one of us to pass these customs on by word of mouth .. I do not agree with arranged marriages .. but what is built is more solid in the long run .. I think that deep down that is the basis of this agreement between families, it is true that when the heart sends the lamps of judgment go out .. it is true .. and passion often does not let us think what is right for our life ... I live in Mexico .. Mexicans do not They will let you lie .. in Oaxaca there is something very similar, in Chiapas… in Tabasco itself there is this…. Anyway .. what I do love is the strength that is in the family .. I call it a clan .. and I really enjoy mine .. I have many years investigating the culture of India and it is something that every day I like it better ... they told me about the Brazilian novel ... incidentally, it's very good ... and they handle the customs and values of this extraordinary culture very respectfully ... thank you for sharing your stories and making me love my customs and my values more ... and long live Mexico and its traditions .. and namaste for my Hindi friends .. a fraternal hug for everyone in Latin America… thank you for this space
I love this culture because despite the times it is still a country that believes in its cultures I love the way they arrive at the marriage process in ancient times as an innocence in love that you have one would like to try again .One of my life projects is to travel to India to know and deepen more of this beautiful country my country I love Colombia it is delicious but India is plotting me and makes me want to know more about it every time
hello friends… I tell you I really like to know about the Indian culture. I am very interested in their clothes and customs that have above all the cremonia of marriage that even fixed sometimes if they work and they are happy and sometimes they don't… and it's a shame… I would like very much to meet a boy from India .. I really like a novel that is being shown on Ecuavisa, a channel from here Ecuador called Camino de Indias, it is very beautiful and you can see love and marriage arrangements and others who fight for their love when they fall in love with a dalhi ..., the music is beautiful and I would like to learn to dance like the girls, and they like indu names like priynka, lizzie, a thousand thanks to indu guy who gave us the page so that we are well informed regarding their culture .. well friends I say goodbye ... kisses to all and good luck.
Ana do you have skype? send me your nik or hotmail or yahho ID thanks you take care
It will seem strange to them I am from Costa Rica, and I am very much interested in India because here they are giving a novel that is called INDIA A LOVE STORY and you see things that at that time were very strange for me and I wanted to know if in the Nowadays we still live like this and apparently yes, I personally due to my traditions and way of living in my country, I would not be able to live there but it does call my attention to how people walk on the street freely and how they do marriages stop lying ...
Hello to everyone s.
I just want to leave my opinion in this forum.
I have been seeing India for 9 months, I have traveled many cities here, from north to south ... and in my opinion it is a shame and a pity for the country, I will say why:
The dirt, they throw away the garbage, plastic bags, cigarettes, they urinate in the middle of the street where the barefoot children then pass by, the monuments take care of us nothing. They spill out anywhere, the chaos of the animals the sheep the cows the rats they walk among the people giving rise to the transmission of any disease.
The food for me the first weeks made me laugh since it is very different and with a lot of flavor but now that I have been here for a while ... I hate it I do not like it at all, spicy already in the morning, no please !!
People do not find it as happy as many say since they argue a lot and do not have any respect, I say it because I work here and I see it every day.
The pollution that there is the noise of the cars the smell that the exhaust pipes give off is crazy, the lack of traffic regulations means that every day there are many many accidents, they do not respect anything or anyone driving. School buses go to in a hurry, endangering the lives of 100th children ... I don't understand!
There are women and men who are very wapos, that is true but the lack of hygiene they have makes them unattractive
I would like to leave with another opinion of this country really but I think I will never return.
It is also true that it is one thing to come to India as a tourist and another to live here as is my case and that is what I see every day
Anyway, this is my opinion I would like it to be different and if someone can make me see different things to leave here with a good taste in my mouth I will be delighted, I do not intend to hurt anyone with my comments.
I have to say that there are people who are really very kind and wonderful, yes, but like everywhere on this planet
India, culture or ignorance?
regards
Hello to everyone s.
I just want to leave my opinion in this forum.
I have been seeing India for 9 months, I have traveled many cities here, from north to south ... and in my opinion it is a shame and a pity for the country, I will say why:
The dirt, they throw away the garbage, plastic bags, cigarettes, they urinate in the middle of the street where the barefoot children then pass by, the monuments take care of us nothing. They spill out anywhere, the chaos of the animals the sheep the cows the rats they walk among the people giving rise to the transmission of any disease.
The food for me the first weeks made me laugh since it is very different and with a lot of flavor but now that I have been here for a while ... I hate it I do not like it at all, spicy already in the morning, no please !!
People do not find it as happy as many say since they argue a lot and do not have any respect, I say it because I work here and I see it every day.
The pollution that there is the noise of the cars the smell that the exhaust pipes give off is crazy, the lack of traffic regulations means that every day there are many many accidents, they do not respect anything or anyone driving. School buses go to in a hurry, endangering the lives of 100th children ... I don't understand!
There are women and men who are very wapos, that is true but the lack of hygiene they have makes them unattractive
I would like to leave with another opinion of this country really but I think I will never return.
It is also true that it is one thing to come to India as a tourist and another to live here as is my case and that is what I see every day
Anyway, this is my opinion I would like it to be different and if someone can make me see different things to leave here with a good taste in my mouth I will be delighted, I do not intend to hurt anyone with my comments.
I have to say that there are people who are really very kind and wonderful, yes, but like everywhere on this planet
India, culture or ignorance?
regards
Hello Jordi,
I am from Costa Rica, I have visited India twice and I have been married to an Indu for 2 year. I really understand your point of view and at some point (even though I have been there for a couple of months) I feel that they do not take care of the country as one would expect. I only give you as advice that as much as possible you find to see the beautiful or positive side of each place you go so that you do not get frustrated anymore ... I felt the same strong smell of their condiments when you enter a restaurant. or the annoying noise of the whistle of the "cars" whistling for no reason at all. Just keep the good experiences in your heart and learn the good of each culture (whether in India, the USA or a Latin country) they have less than 1% crime - that's good and you have to learn from them, as well as the balance of the spiritual, emotional and mental ... Yoga or Pranic Healing exercises.
I do not know where you are from, but if you are from the western continent - everything in the east will seem strange and even uncomfortable, but you also have to understand that they are the 2nd most populated country in the world and more we must give them an example in how to keep your country clean (for example).
They are very intelligent and educated, learn from the good things they have to enrich you as a human being, because you will not know at what point in your life all those 9 months of experience in India will help you to better understand certain things that Westerners sometimes we ignore.
Regards,
Hi Catalina!
You are very right in what you say and I must also stay with the good things (there are also many) that India offers me. I will try to do it for real from now on !!
Thank you for your comment, you have made me reflect!
regards
Jordi ... I assure you as Catalina says, keep the best, now you do not see it but when you least expect it, some memory will assail your memory that makes you understand some things that right now you do not understand and do not share, I assure you.
Ana, 10 years old with a Hindu, I am Spanish and we have 1 daughter in common. Take care, greetings.
hello I like it a lot
At this time I have a relationship with a Hindu, I did not like him physically, but he is a wonderful man, he is loving, tender, attentive, affectionate, they had never treated me as he does, we have been several months, and although I do not feel in love I do not I wish this would end, I love it and I miss it when traveling on business, I am simply letting this dream flow.
Hello Jordi !! I very much agree with what you say, every year I travel to India since I married an Indian, and you really have to be very prepared to step on that land ... Pollution, vehicular chaos, lack of hygiene are some items that you have to face daily. The first time I went, I didn't stop crying. A lot of poverty and it really affected me, it just gave me strength my spiritual part and the unconditional support of my love, and the biggest reason was the birth of our little boy. A hug..
HELLO, I'M SPANISH AND I WAS DATING A BEAUTIFUL GIRL, SPANISH TOO, BUT FROM HINDUS PARENTS. I SAY I WAS BECAUSE AFTER A FEW MONTHS OF RELATIONSHIP, THE MOTHER DECIDED THAT WE COULD NO LONGER SEE OR TALK TO EACH OTHER, FOR NO APPARENT REASON.
YOU CAN IMAGINE THE BIG PAIN PASSED BY BOTH, TWO ADULT PEOPLE WHO SHOULD LEAVE THEMSELVES, WITH MANY HIGHLIGHTS FOR THE FUTURE AND OTHER THINGS THAT DO NOT TIRED BY WRITING BECAUSE WE HAVE ALL BEEN IN LOVE.
BECAUSE WHEN I COULD TALK TO MY GIRL, HIDDEN OF COURSE, IT TURNED OUT THAT THE REASON IS THAT I WAS NOT HINDU, NOTHING MORE AND NOTHING LESS.
I LOVE HINDU CULTURE, BUT PLEASE, SOMEONE TRY TO CONVINCE ME THAT THIS IS NORMAL, BECAUSE THE PAST PAIN IS UNDESCRIPTIBLE .... THANK YOU ALL
Hello Ann. I am glad to know that you also have a child with a Hindu, but what surprises me even more is that you have been able to marry him, that is, that he has been so brave as to break traditions and not respect the will of His parents. I really have to tell you, my hat is off. A hug.
Thank you very much for your comment Ana, I needed to read something that would put some sanity in my situation, even if nothing would change it. I want to understand the whole subject of culture and others, but being in Spain, they should perhaps open a little the "fence" that they have created, because on a daily basis they interact with non-Hindu people, with all that that entails. Many eat beef, drink alcohol, women work, etc., so if they are not Hindu for some things, why be for others? I have also realized that most of the environment that surrounds them is pure appearance, always being well, having money, a good family, everything ... but in appearance. Anyway, I know I don't get anything out of it, but it helps me vent something and have a better time with this bad drink that "I had to live", as they say ... Thanks again
Don't thank me Samuel, I'm here for whatever you need, for your questions or just to listen to you if you want to vent. My email address is attached to my name. If you want, we can comment on things that concern you or that you want to know. At your disposal…
A-N-A,
Let's see if Ana can tell me your email because I don't understand what is attached to your name, forgive my ignorance, I'm not very smart with computer science.
Hi, I'm Mexican and I'm going to get married in Mexico with a guy who is Hindu, by chance do you know or know someone who is dedicated to making henna tattoos for the menhi ritual before the wedding, I urgently need to locate someone in Mexico.
Thank you
Thank you very much everyone for the comments of encouragement, they are appreciated in moments like this. I keep telling them something, and incidentally I "vent." Well, yesterday I saw her, we were very careful that no one saw us, of course, and she told me that the family was already looking for a candidate for her, imagine for a moment the body that you have when they tell you that the person you want is being "raffled." Of course, she has no voice or vote, she should only listen to her family, because it would be a disgrace to do otherwise, making her parents suffer, to which she is not willing, no matter how much the situation hurts. I see comments that Hindus can be with other girls outside the community, proof of the great difference between being a girl or a boy. She also told me that they do not even let her cry at home, no one should know that she is wrong, not even that she has been with a Spanish boy. The suffering that reflects on his face is indescribable, having that moment with me as the only outlet. Are parents capable of creating such a great suffering in their own daughter for not dirtying her image? Well yes ... I have checked and the truth is that it is the saddest thing I have ever experienced ... Greetings ....
Saby, the same to you too, well whoever you want, as long as you know how to contact by mail we will talk, even if it is with similar stories we do a kind of group therapy, I say that it will come in handy. Thanks
Ana, it's not that I don't want to, but leaving my phone hanging here I think is not a good matter, I'm not saying it for you, you know that there is everything on the net. If you want you can explain it to me here, if not, nothing happens, I do not intend to bother you more than necessary, I really appreciate your interest
Hello. I am also in love with an indu
He says he loves me I wish we could get married.
eliz ... I wish you the best, that he returns. I don't want to steal your illusion, but is the brother really getting married? Make sure, I speak from my own experience. All the best for you.
A greeting.
Hello Eliz, how good we have almost similar stories, as Ana says, are you sure that your boyfriend's brother is going to get married ... you should find out well, because the same thing happened to me, my Indu love told me that he was going to India because his brother was getting married, but it turns out that his brother, his sister, and he got married ... I don't want to remove the illusion but it is better that you find out now and not wait for him to return with a woman in hand, good luck.
Rash. I am writing a story in India (I am Argentine and I was never there) and I want to talk to you, see if I can interview you. if you want anonymously, without giving me your name, but it would help me a lot to chat with you.
If there is in the forum any other Indian / Indian, living in Argentina that you could meet me for an hour to have a coffee and tell me some things about their country, it would be of great help.
Thank you very much for any collaboration. later in private I explain to them what the story is about.
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youtube.com/CineHindi
Indu music in Spanish
Here
more than 2000 songs
youtube.com/CineHindi
what barbarians ana and samuel they have made a forum here
Hi Dilwale.
Thanks for your Hindi Cinema link.
On the other hand samuel and I have not created a blog…. no, on the contrary, from our own experience, we try to prevent other people from falling into the same thing as us, although we must recognize that not all people are the same. All the best.
Hi Dilwale, sorry if I bothered you, I just wanted to publicize a personal situation. Ana is not to blame, she is a very good person and she only responded to my comments because she has experienced a similar situation, although mine is insignificant next to hers. But nothing beyond reality. We hope that everyone does well with their relationships with Hindu people, really, but that they take into account things that have happened, so that they do not get any unpleasant surprises. Greetings, Thank you
Thanks Samuel. A hug.
These stories are incredible, that I also dwarfed by a Hindu and is like a prince
Hello everyone I am delighted to have discovered this site .. I am Spanish and I have been a girlfriend with my boy, he is Hindu. As you say, Indian boys are sooo romantic, when they fall in love they give everything and yes, they are very sentimental and affectionate, which we love of course haha. We love each other and we love each other with madness and although our relationship has gone through very difficult times, we have always come out ahead. they say dil diwana hai, the heart is crazy. love can do everything, if you really love the universe will conspire to bring you luck. be positive, live and love always. My boy also goes to India for a few weeks to see the family (haha they already scared me with the marriages ...) I will wait for him as I always did .. there are stronger and more intense ties that are unbreakable in time and space.
comment of a girl in love
Congratulations Gina, you have a treasure, take good care of it, believe me, those boys are worth gold, and although sometimes relationships are not easy because we are very different cultures (I am Mexican) it is worth it, a lot !!!
I want to see the name of the mole on the forehead
Hello!! A coordinated greeting to all =) It is nice to know that there are people from different parts of the world who recognize that the culture of India is one of the most beautiful, I especially want to be able to have the joy of visiting this beautiful country, =) I am from Campeche Mexico. I hope to be at your service and be in contact if you allow me. Thanks. =) See you soon =)
Hi Catalina! You said you are from Costa Rica. Well, I am writing to you because I have a friend on the internet who is Hindu and he has asked me to help him find a job, I understand that he wants to leave India, I do not know why, since as they wrote above, English is how we understand each other and I'm not very good at it. I tried to find an Indian community here, in Costa Rica, to at least make it easier for them to contact them, but I didn't find anything. Maybe since your husband is Hindu you may know something. I must tell you that all my life I loved the Indian culture and yes, they are very smart, sweet and educated. Greetings.
Hello, I'm Kata, I had 2 Hindu boyfriends, with the first one we talked about getting married and everything then he had to travel to India and he never came back because the parents married him to a Hindu then he met another Hindu boy we ended up because the parents found him his wife and if they are very pretty… ..for me, ism one falls in love with them so much that when they leave, it hurts the soul not to be able to overcome all those traditions and that they can marry one ……. and I congratulate the people who have had the real courage …… I would like to know something about what religion they are? because I think it all depends on their region.
Hello Rash, I am very interested in that you say, excuse me, a question from which part of India you are and if you can know your religion ………. You know I asked my ex about the dhali and he doesn't know …………
Hi, Leticia:
I don't think I know him, we don't have relationships with people from Miami. But my advice is not to be discouraged, know him well before entering the relationship, and I do not know about religions, for example my boyfriend is a Christian like me, so we have no problems with that. Look, what is going to happen will happen, only if you are very careful not to hurt the boy's feelings, much less yours, because as Indians are so sweet and in love if you stay very involved in the relationship.
Think about it, and if you have decided that it is for you, stay firm in your words and you will see that you will achieve it.
I hope I've helped. Greetings!
Hello, my name is ximena and I tell you that I like things from India, her music, her songs, her traditions, her clothes, everything, but unfortunately I am from Bolivia and until now I have not met any indu haha I've been more than 5 years old that I like music indu and everything related to her I am 17 years old and I would like to meet someone from India, thank you.
Hello
I am Prabhu from India.
I like this website very much. Thanks for praising our culture. i really happy to hear that everybody likes our India. i came to mexico for work purpose and i found a girl in mexico with spiritual, nice character, very polite, respect everyone. i really impressed on her. i like her very much. i really scared to fall in love because i believe in True Love and i believe in only one love for me in the whole life. According to me, There is only one God Jesus Christ. After i got her friendship, i come know more about her and finally, i come to know she is interested on me. Now, we are loving each other very much and i am able to see the true love from both of us.
»Love never see Country, Culture, Language, color and it only see the hearts between guy and girl»
For me, she is my soul, heart and she is my Everything. i want her to be my Life Partner. I cannot think beyond her and i believe in God and also i believe in True love. True Love never dies.
Thanks . Merry Chrismas and Happy New year to All
Hello prabbu, well what you say is very nice, I really admire what your feelings come out and your heart speaks for itself. It's great how you express yourself about your girlfriend, you know if you love her so much, fight for that love and don't let anyone interfere in it since life is yours, defend your love for her with claws and teeth, your girlfriend will thank you infinitely. Greetings Merry Christmas and thank you because all your faith is in the Lord my God, many blessings Isabel.
Hello everyone!
I also fell in love with a great boy from India, as I mentioned above, in all my life I had never met a man as educated, spiritual and sweet as him, he is a true prince.
I really like the culture of India, I wish I had been born there, its music and food are very good.
I do not know what to say to people who were also in love with people from India and their relationships ended, believe me it is not easy, but if you can get ahead.
Thank you Prabhu for always being with me, you know that I love you and carry you in my heart always, I like the way you live love, just one love for life, and once married you learn to love your partner. The only thing that worries me is that we are from different cultures, but still I love you.
Greetings to all, and a very merry Christmas and New Year 2011.
Bye!
HELLO AS I ALREADY TOLD YOU I AM VERY IN LOVE WITH A PUNJABI A MUCH SWEETER WITH A SO BEAUTIFUL SOUL ALWAYS WITH HIS LAUGH WITH HIS HAPPINESS A PERSON SO HAPPY AMI I ALSO LOVE IT; THE INDIAN CULTURE AND ALSO ALEJERACIDO ALWAYS HAVE HAD ME ALSO ALEJERACID. THEIR CUSTOMS THEIR CLOTHING THE RESPECT THEY HAVE FOR THEIR WOMEN THE WAY THEY BUILD LOVE IS SO CUTE »» »» »'BUT HE IS MARRIED IN A MONTH MY LOVE IS MARRIED IN A MONTH ////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////// ////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////lest ... // THE ONE WHO HAS THE OPPORTUNITY TO FIND A HINDU TAKE CARE OF THEM BECAUSE THEY ARE SUCH BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE GOOD THE PERSON I KNOW IS SO …………………………
NAMASTE !!! I am Mexican and I love Indu culture always dreamed of finding myself a prince of Poraya because my heart has been hurt a lot and it resents an Indu but I do not lose the hope of my true love Yegara:) I would like to have friends and friends from india my MSN is (apartada2010@live.com)
I LOVE INDU CULTURE AND MY BIGGEST DREAM IS TO BE ABLE TO GO ON VACATION TO THAT BEAUTIFUL PLACE.
I want to say that I am simply the number one admirer of this culture. I love everything about it even more than that of my country. Ecuador is my favorite culture and everything I know about it, I love it and investigated everything about this culture and it is simply wonderful every day I hear her music that is wonderful as now that I write I am listening to her religion is very interesting I know everything about her her dance is really fascinating as well as her food and I want to go to see there some day and maybe I will stay my whole life because that The country is wonderful and I love it especially for its typical costumes that are exeletes, everything from there is better than Ecuador
I am interested in learning about Indu culture. I love an Indu boy, he is cute and handsome, he has a very tender way of being and he is very sensitive but I am afraid that he is only playing with me, because from what I have read and they have told me about their culture they marry girls of their caste, marriages that their parents arrange for them and some are forbidden to hang out with girls from other countries.
I met him here in California and I love it, I hope everything goes well .. I think it is something that cannot be = (
hello everyone… .. hey here another in love with an indu…. we met through a page .. and the result is that we are very in love .. he is just as the ladies describe here as his indu man… and I dared to write here because now I have the fear of everything that is said here with respect to part of their culture in the love aspect….
I need the email of someone who is married to a Hindu since soon I will marry one and I will live aahiiiiii thankssssssss
Hello srinan: You are not India, are you? I congratulate you for this but at the same time I say CARE OF YOU. There are no roses without thorns and life there is very difficult, I tell you. I wish you all the luck in the world, you will need it, do not forget my words. A hug.
my mail nancytasamen25@hotmail.com
Hello, you know, a very curious pot passes me, on a social page I found an Indue who lives in my country and we wrote and when I found out that he is from India but apart from that he is a priest and is currently on vacation in his country he says that when he returns He wants to know me but the truth is that I would feel uncomfortable at least that he is a priest but he is very beautiful….
I have a hard cock, someone wants me to put it on
Kalashait should not be part of this post. People like you are what is left in the world so I ask you please never again to write in such a rude way, this is not the place for you.
Respectfully for you even if you have had zero respect for all of us who will write in this post. If you are a Hindu it would hurt me a lot to know, do not write more here, I ask you please, with those forms NO. I hope that the rest of the people will agree with me. Out of here.
It is true and I share that culture is totally interesting, but what do you think of women when they get involved? They even get their hair on end when they know the fate of women after the death of their husbands.
Oh chikas, the truth is, I'm glad to know that I am not the unik that is in love with a Hindu ... they are so cute, I have a few friends from there x fby to the truth, their tenderness, kindness. They come out x loos pores ... I really would like to get married with one of them some day ... they are guys who are worth it ... 🙂
HOW TO BEGIN A STORY THAT HAD AN END AND A POINT AND FOLLOWED ...
SAMUEL, IF YOU STILL READ THIS BLOG, I WANT TO TELL YOU THAT EVEN WHEN I DON'T KNOW YOUR SITUATION, I CAN UNDERSTAND YOU… ANA YOU, I DON'T KNOW WHETHER TO ADMIT YOU, TO SAY THAT I FEEL A LITTLE ENVY OR SO SIMPLE THAT I AM sorry about your SITUATION AS MUCH.
I AM VENEZUELAN, LIKE MOST PEOPLE WHO HAVE WRITTEN, I HAVE A SIMILAR BRIEF OVERVIEW. ONLY GOD KNOWS WHY IT HAPPENED. I KNEW HIM AND IT WAS IMPOSSIBLE NOT TO FALL IN LOVE, MY SOUL WAS WEAK AND BEFORE SO MUCH AFFECTION I GOT PEACE, COMFORT AND LOVE. HOWEVER I HAVE TO ADMIT THAT IT ALL STARTED BECAUSE HE LIED TO ME, HE TOLD ME THAT HE HAD NO COMMITMENT AT ALL, TODAY I PARTICULARLY REMEMBER THE PHOTOGRAPH OF A BEAUTIFUL BABY IN THE SCREENSAVER OF HIS LAPTOP, HE TOLD ME THAT HE WAS HIS REAL NEPHEW TALKING TO ME. . THE TRUTH IS THAT SHORTLY AFTER I KNEW THE TRUTH, BUT IT WAS LATE, THEN I ALREADY LOVED HIM, I LIVED LONGING TO SEE HIM EVERY DAY, I BRIBED THE CLOCK NEEDS TO GET TO HIM, BECAUSE I MADE THE BIGGEST CRAZY OF MY LIFE UNTIL NOW. IT HAS BEEN LITTLE MORE THAN TWO YEARS AND THOUGH I KNOW THAT WAITING FOR IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE, I RECOGNIZE THAT THAT IS WHAT I DO WE HAVE BEEN IN CONTACT BY INTERNET AND BY TELEPHONE, HE STILL COMES TO AMERICA AND ALTHOUGH I DO NOT UNDERSTAND BECAUSE I HAVE ALWAYS HAVE REASONABLE GOOD EXCUSE FOR NOT MEETING WITH HIM. HE STILL TELLS ME HE LOVES ME, BUT HOW TO LOVE TWO PEOPLE? I'M TOO UNBELIEVABLE MAYBE. I JUST KNOW THAT I LOVE HIM, THAT I HAVE CRYED EVERY DAY FOR HIS ABSENCE, I HAVE SURVIVED, BUT MY LIFE SINCE HIS FAREWELL IS NOT THE SAME, I LOST THE PASSION FOR TRULY LIVING I LOST IT ... THAT'S WHY EVERY ONE OF THOSE GIRLS WHO READ THIS MESSAGE TAKE INTO ACCOUNT THAT NOBODY WILL DO ANYTHING TO BUILD YOUR HAPPINESS, IF YOU STILL HAVE IT NEARBY DO NOT ALLOW IT TO LEAVE YOUR SIDE, DO WHAT IS INSIDE THE GOOD, IT SHOULD STAND OUT FOR BEING HAPPY ... BELIEVE ME, ONCE IT IS NOT THIS, YOU WILL BE DEAD YOU WILL CONTINUE BREATHING BY LIVING AND WITHOUT GIVING YOU ANYTHING. IF SOMEONE WANTS TO KNOW WHAT IT IS TO DIE WHILE ALIVE THAT YOU LOVE AND CROSS YOUR ARMS LETTING YOUR LOVE ESCAPE, THAT IS ENOUGH TO KNOW THAT YOU HAVE NOTHING EVEN HAVING EVERYTHING
I understand you..massss than anyone ..
Hello everyone, I want to tell you my story, since I just got married 5 months ago with a Punjabi boy who is what I love most in this world. I have to say first that although he is from Delhi, he has spent many years studying and working in England, since he has a large part of his family there, so he is totally westernized, despite loving his culture and religion.
It is true that at first I was afraid, because my family accepted it well (I have had foreign boyfriends before, and my family adores my boy), but I did not know what would happen when I met his people ... well, a little more than a month ago And half that we have returned from visiting India, and everyone has treated me very well, partly because he told everyone (then he told me) that I was the woman with whom he would spend the rest of his life, that If it seemed good to them, then nothing, but if they did not like it, it would be the last time they saw him, because they had to respect his decision ... of course they have accepted it and treated me with respect, darling, and like one more ... but Yes, I have seen first-hand how their traditions are, since we went there among other things to attend his cousin's wedding, that he was getting married by an arranged marriage ... it is something that I, with my culture and being Spanish, I do not finish understand, although I know that a large part of their relatives, have married for convenience, even their younger cousins and who live in England, have agreed to marry someone who they don't love ..
It seems a lie, but they are their traditions and I personally am glad that my husband has things so clear, because he is a boy who knows what he wants, affectionate, sweet, and as you say, for them marriage is something for everyone life ... I have never met someone as honest, transparent and simple as him and I am very happy, because despite the difficulties, he is always by my side ... so I'm sorry, but I still think that who allows himself to be done by others, And let them decide how to live their life, they will never be happy, no matter how much they want to respect their family ...
kisses and greetings to all those like me who have learned to love the Indian culture and its people
Good evening Sofia I just wanted to thank you for your message. You don't know but reading your message has made my night happy. I am also Spanish and I have been going out with my Indian boy for about two years and the truth is that he is half Indian half European as he says, since he has been here for 6 years. I'm so afraid of what might happen to his family that I can't even think ... reading your message has given me positive energy and hope 🙂 thank you and a hug
The Indians, in addition to being handsome, affectionate, intelligent, are very sensual and experts in love. Young people may your wishes come true. Although you can find a bit of everything as in all parts of the world. (Physically I look like the Indians and I always caught his attention when he traveled the world)
Hello Alinna, I hope you are very well, let me tell you that if I were in your place I would love him, (actually deep inside me, perhaps wrongly I believe because of your way of writing that you love him already) Alinna, I yearn for so many things and I long Also now ... don't let the same thing happen to you, persevere you are a Venezuelan, that means being a winner and I want to tell you with this that I have regained my strength but I do not intend to talk about me, this time it is about your love, your own story. I tell you that, it is true in New Delhi they are more liberal, but keep in mind that the roots are never lost, it seems crazy what I felt when reading your situation, it could not be very specific here, that is why I include my Not so personal mail, I mean to be able to be published without running any risk, (you know how the Internet is). In addition to that, he thinks that his family will always be his family but you can be his wife, sometimes the age between them seems to be a symbol of marital commitments, the pink or red bracelet with knots, the wedding or engagement ring on the finger index I believe that in the right hand (I suppose that I am right, the Hindus always seal everything with this hand) ... and your son, if he knows it does not seem limiting, if he accepts you it is because he loves you above all thing ... cheer up! you can do it! your child will grow up full of values, spirituality ... may God, source of all power, bless you, cover you with many blessings, give you strength and lead you on the exact path to your happiness. remember that if you don't do it, nobody will do it for you ... my email: t25rrhdu@hotmail.com. if you like write me
Hello everyone,
Tell you that I am dating a Hindu very recently and the truth is that falling in love is inevitable, I feel that he is the man I have always dreamed of, but I think this will not last long because he has been very sincere with me and made it clear that for His constant travels could not be more serious. I have read everything that you have put in this forum and it really scares me to think that your family fixes your marriage. I am divorced and I have a son and I think that my situation would not be accepted. Anyway I will continue fighting, I have felt very identified with all the comments.
Greetings to all
Answer for: sofia hello I read your comment and I want to tell you that I started like this ... enter this page and read all the comments ... I want to tell you that I have 3 girls, I am divorced and I have a boyfriend from India, it is very difficult to avoid falling in love with them. so special that I have no words to describe everything I feel…. Any relationship depends on the two and the sincerity of him. You have to make sure that his family thinks or if he practices his culture ... I was afraid too and I always wanted our relationship to be transparent and I asked him and thank God he does not practice his culture and his failure cares about his happiness and accepts our relationship .. do not be afraid dare to fight for your love as I am fighting for mine ... but before asking if his constant travels is because he already has an arranged marriage ... good luck sofia and in you is all fight dear
Hello Madeleine, how nice to know that I am not alone. I tell you that he practices the Radha Soami religion and that his mother always asks him if he has found someone and the constant trips are for the business that he has in Spain and he has told me that he will marry whoever he wants, I do not have very afraid of everything.
Greetings and I congratulate you on your relationship, that you are very happy.
I have met a boy from India on the internet and he is really very cute, with beautiful cinnamon skin eyes, very handsome! He is very cute too, but I have my boyfriend here, but I can't stop thinking about his beautiful words towards his country, his family, God, I love my boyfriend but he is very cute and I can't get him out of my mind! Maybe we never met in person, but I like to have your friendship and advice… I want to cry !!!
ammmmmmm naaaaaaa k say
I think I shouldn't leave this page without sharing my experience with all the Hindu-loving girls ... I'm Dominican, and the truth is that there isn't a more romantic man on the face of the earth LOL
My boyfriend is Hindu, and believe me I have never seen more beautiful and expressive eyes, nor such delicate skin and such a beautiful color, and what to say about his artistic personality ... and the best of all is when he writes poems to me (obviously in English, that is the language that unites us) ... or when he composes a song for me ... or when he makes efforts on humans to say phrases to me in Spanish such as: «I love you my girl»
he is eucado, tender and SUUUUUPER sensitive ...
recently he asked me to marry him ... and believe me I love that child ...
girls I think there is no better option than a Hindu ... I love you Gautam !!!
by the way I have dedicated myself to reading some of the coomets ...
I love my Indian boy very much ... but sometimes I am a little scared to think that maybe his parents will arrange a marriage ... the other night he was talking about me with his parents, and he almost told them that he proposed to me ... but by then I still had not given the "yes". We still don't have a week to be engaged ... he pampers me a lot ... and I feel like I die when he's not ... sometimes he cries with me when I'm sad .. LOL until he makes me laugh ..
We are not thinking of getting married now, as I am a medical student, he is part of the Brahmin caste, if putting his economic situation on a scale of 1 to 10 the number would be 9 ... (if not 10)
It is therefore that before we get married I want to be at least a general practitioner, (to be a professional when I get married) become independent and produce on my own ... well I would not like to be a "maintained" although he only lives for me .. well .. you understand
he studies engineering…
He is in India right now but we keep in touch all the time (blessed be FB), sometimes he even falls asleep at 5 in the morning to be able to talk to me (same to me)
I have a mind that in this period of waiting time something happens there ... ahhhh
SOMEONE TO COMFORT ME….
Hello Naomi .. I am very happy to read this comment, to know that you feel loved, dear, but be careful, many times when they come from a wealthy family, they take great care of their caste, I can assure you that 90% think so Same as me, I suppose you have read the previous comments ... they are real, there are some of mine, read them ok, take care of yourself. and that your love value you and take care of how you really want bye
Thank you very much Isabel for your advice, it is very thoughtful of you ...
I have read the stories of other people, even before reading it there was no doubt about the future between Gautam and me, and the truth is that seeing what happened to the others scared me, and I couldn't help asking the question. The same day that I left my comments about arranged marriages in India, he told me that in fact 5 days ago a girl of the same caste (of the Brahmins) asked him to marry him, and that even the mother of the young woman spoke with her parents for the wedding, Isabel, when he told me this I became pale, there is no child in the world who loves more than Gomzy (so I say) and I do not know what my life would be without him. He realized my horror, and reminded me that the marriage between his parents is for love (not to maintain the caste although they are of the same caste), that his brother has a girlfriend and that this relationship is also for love, and that ours was not the exception ... he finally explained to everyone of our commitment, his parents took it very well, and have provided all the support. He told me that his parents would not be able to award him a partner, because they live true love in their own flesh ... anyway (I do not accept that girl's response, LOL) I have actually witnessed the relationship of his parents, it is lovely, they treat each other as if they just started dating yesterday.
Gomzy is aware of my concern as to the distance that separates us at this moment, and we both know that it will not be for a short time, a few months ago he made me promise that I would wait for him ... that we would not lose contact.
and he said something that until today I have not forgotten: "it does not matter how far we are but how close to my heart you are, and if the circumstances want to separate us now, love will be in charge of reuniting us"
right now, in fact, I'm talking to him, I repeat: "blessed be FB"
haha he is in class (it is 11:40 am in India) and I am almost asleep but happy to talk to him (1:11 am in Rep. Sun.)
blessings isabel and others too <3 🙂
Hello everyone, I have an Indian boyfriend for 6 months, he has been in Spain for 10 years, he is a wonderful man I love him very much, but we do not think about getting married soon, he has asked me when I want to get married but I have not found an answer In the same way, he tells me that he still does not want to get married that he wants to wait a little longer, it seems sensible to me because I think it is very soon. What worries me is his family, and just yesterday he traveled to India to take his mother, he says that he will only be there for 20 days but I am very afraid ...
VANE in the bible 1 Corinthians 13: 4-8
… “Love is patient, it is kind; love does not envy; love is not boastful, it is not arrogant; does not behave indecently; he does not seek his own, does not get irritated, does not take into account the bad received; he does not rejoice at injustice, but rejoices in the truth; he suffers everything, believes everything, hopes everything, supports everything "...
If you really love him and trust him, your anxieties and fears will calm down, if he is for you, know that he will return ... what is yours is yours and that's it ..
I think the way you think about marriage is very good, it is a decisive step that marks and changes your life completely ... before everything prepares financially, intellectually and spiritually ...
and if they are made for each other you will see that everything will be fine .. blessings 🙂
Thank you Nahomy for your words you are right ... I am still calm because yesterday when I arrived in India the first thing he did was call me and today we talk almost all day so I think everything is going well .. I just hope these 20 days go by rapid…
Although I have read a pogo about the Sikhists and according to what I have read I think there are many marriages for love, in fact yesterday his cousin told me that his brother was about to marry a Spanish woman, and her parents accepted everything very well but What happened was that the boy went to India and when he returned he found her with another and that is why he married one of India ... and also he has told me that his parents only tell them to be careful because we are from a culture where We can get married and separate when we want to, but in any case they do not oppose their decisions ...
Well that says his cousin in the same way I distrust a little although I know that my boyfriend loves me, although there are aspects in which I still cannot understand him well
GO, I am very happy that you speak like that, and yes, you really must tread fine, because they are people who give themselves forever, do not give yourself the luxury of failing them like the girl you mentioned did, according to what you said the love between you two is great, don't lose it. the greatest blessing that you two have is the love you feel ... maybe if you read my case above you will feel identified, believe me that it is your case but with an even longer waiting time ... let me know what you think, many blessings for you and you boyfriend, you will see that time passes quickly ... and they will be together again ..
read my case, that will be your consolation LOL
Nahomy I have read your case, I am actually very happy ... I wish you good luck, and if you were right I identify a lot because my boyfriend is also too sweet although sometimes he is very shy and thinks a lot about working, but I must admit that for me a changed many things, and well I am studying administration, and then I want to do my economics degree and then get a good job, because he also has a good economic situation and I do not want to be a maintained ... although it is still too early to think about those things but I love him so much that it is inevitable to think about my future with him ... again nahomi, thanks for your words they have served me a lot, because I was really worried ... and I wish you the best with your boy ...
haha ay vane anyway tell me when I get LOL .. and if you have FB please find me .. LOL
you're cool LOL XD
Linda18_03_1@hotmail.com
Hello. For work reasons I met a boy who lives in the USA but he was born in India. I began to treat him since only I in the office speaks English and I communicated with him. I tried him several times and I really liked him, apparently he also likes me, I have a partner and I love him very much but this guy invited me to have a coffee and he told me about everything he does, he travels to many places for business reasons. of his family, his fiancée and his culture. He told me that he would write to me and talk to me when he could but it has been a week since he left Mexico and until now I have not heard from him. I don't know what to do because I can't stop thinking about him, he's a very nice person and I really don't want to let anyone know about him, I wrote to him but he still doesn't answer me, I really don't know whether to forget about him and continue or have some hope to know about him. What I do?
Hi angie17
It's good that you met that guy with such a good vibe. You know, my advice is that you remember it as a beautiful experience in your life, because if he already has his promotion and is traveling for work reasons, it will not be so easy for you to be with him. Because if you look for it, believe me that you will truly fall in love, and it will be very painful for both of you. If he talks to you, you can tell him that you appreciate your friendship, only that, if you really don't want to be hurt.
I hope you are well friend, I wish you the best!
girls are you still around here ???
HELLO I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW MORE ABOUT HINDU MEN.
Some Latino or Latina in India ????????????????????
Hello, they are very cute, I am Asian and he is Hindu, we have maintained our relationship for almost 6 years, and this week he just married a woman that his parents found him of the same religion, I feel a lot of pain and I recommend that the truth, do not fall in love with this guys, because in the end we will be the ones who are going to suffer. I recommend it. They are very nice attentive but they will always listen to their parents. for more money you have they will not accept. This has been the worst thing that has happened to me in my life.
Hello dear, the truth is very sad what you write. Do not think that I do not feel your pain, I also went through the same thing, my boyfriend got married because he obeyed his parents and you know the pain is infinite, also let me tell you that there is no evil that lasts 100 years. you are strong and brave just by writing on this portal and it is a way to let off steam. The truth is that there are many cases similar to you, just read the comments and you will notice that several girls and also boys who suffer until now but that time does everything… and little by little it makes us stronger. have a lot of will to be able to forget my little friend because if you will live from the memory and it is bad. I say it from experience. take care of yourself. a new friend.
Hello, I am from Mexico, for me the culture of India seems beautiful, its music, traditions, dances, etc. but the truth is that it is very difficult to have to marry someone you do not love and even more loving another person.
Rash you were very brave to face your family for love, a tough decision because you knew what would happen and you don't mind facing everyone for love, I believe that for your beloved it was the most beautiful proof of love you could give her, I hope that It was worth it and you are with your beloved and if it is not, I wish you with all my heart that you fall in love.
For the girls that unfortunately their love is interrupted I hope they find someone who loves them above all things, who are capable of giving everything for you and leaving everything for love.
Sometimes I do not understand people who do not understand that love goes beyond everything and everyone, of cultures, races, religions or languages and that love is what makes us full, free, human, beautifully happy and without He wouldn't be worth living for.
I say goodbye wishing you all enough love, enough wisdom, enough peace, I wish you enough.
Hello, I had already commented on my case, really if they are a bit of liars since this boy told me that he would talk to me and write but he never did so I wrote him he answered me a little late since he told me that he was traveling and just got to House communicated about that a month has passed and he has not spoken or written to me, I really do not want to write it because I know it is not worth it, I only live from the memory and I will keep it as a very cool experience in my life. Greetings
Hello girls, I am from Mexico ... I did not read all the comments because there are many, but if I read several, I met a boy from India on the internet, I met him on a language exchange page, from the first week I met him he began to Tell me nice things, it has been very nice with me, we are dating, he has told me that he will come to Mexico to meet us and why he wants to marry me, but he does not know how to obtain the VISA to come, I have also had doubts about him, why before we spoke Every day and we talk a lot, but there are times when he is absent and does not talk to me, even so he keeps telling me that he loves me a lot .. I think he loves me but I don't know why sometimes he is a little indifferent and sometimes very cute.
I'm not sure if I will leave everything for him, because after we get married here in the presence of my parents, he wants me to go to India with him.
Hi Isabel, thanks for your advice
The truth is I am very worried, he has told me that he can choose who to marry, but I don't know what to believe now, he is from Delhi, I don't know how things are there ..
but hey, I hope that all the love that he shows me is true, and that one day we will be together, without fear, thanks for answering, I needed to vent, I have already read all the comments, I no longer know what to think, he seems very honest: s and I think I love him.
hello leti, thanks for your comment
My boyfriend also looks like the one you describe, only that his job and his name is different, but just like you, we met on the internet and after a week he asked me to be his girlfriend, it was so nice that after a few months he accepted, I He called my cell phone, he sent me messages daily, we talked every day, but lately he doesn't connect so much he told me that his computer is not working and he connects on his phone but very little time, we hardly speak because he says that the chat is Slow on the phone, he hasn't asked me to find a job for him, but he told me that he has asked a friend for it, he wants to live in India but wants to come and meet me, that's why he needs the job to get a visa, I seem sincere, but it puzzles me that we hardly speak anymore, even though when we do talk he always tells me that he loves me.
I really don't know what to do anymore: yes
Hello Mexicanita, because in truth your story and mine are similar, so tsl cusl psso with me about the boyfriend request about the calls but all of a sudden the change no longer so many connections and not so many messages or calls that I can tell you according to He did not connect but it was not true rather he blocked me from msn and obviously he did not see it but I learned from a friend that if he connected the technology is good and to lie more now think about which friend he asked for a job has told you more than The friend now that he wants to see you is good but why does he need a work visa if he can have a tourist visa sometimes we are blinded to many things out of love for me it cost me my tears to lose friends because of him because they told me look at this look at this in what it says and I did not pay attention after a year and a half here I am recovering from this because everything that happens to us in life marks us good or bad forever, but the bad thing is what hurts us obviously and I only now I tell you that you put your head before What a difficult heart, look who tells you, only now I do not want anyone else to go through the pain that I go through, how many people do I know who are in a situation similar to mine, I commented on my experience for me it is like therapy and at the same time It is a way of helping we are women and we must always help each other. regards
Thank you girls, thank you very much for your advice, I assure you that I will take it into account, you have been very helpful and I thank you very much ...
I wish the best for you, thank you for everything
hello girls, me again
I tell them to talk to my Indian boyfriend, press him to tell me what was happening, because he did not speak to me as before, and you know he told me that he had spoken with his spiritual guide and that he told him everything about us and that after thinking about it already He did not love me, he told me I no longer feel what I felt before, we cannot be together ... take care
I felt devastated, a day before he had sent me a message on my cell phone saying "I still love you like at the beginning" and after talking with his spiritual guide, everything changed ..
girls do not fall in love with the Indians ... their love seems real, they make you feel things you have never felt, they seem honest sincere, but then they change drastically, I don't know if it's their culture, the social pressure they have, I don't know ... and I do not know if all Indians are like that, I speak from my experience ..
Maybe it's love for the internet that doesn't work, he delighted me, he even planned our children, everything was wonderful, then in just one week he left me, with a broken heart, crying every night ...
Do not fall in love with an Indian, it is not worth it, you are always influenced by your parents or your spiritual guide as in my case ...
do not fall in love on the internet, even if you really love them, they never know what happens on the other side.
I will now live with this experience, which took almost a year from my life, but which completely destroyed my life.
You cannot imagine the pain I feel, I do not wish this on anyone. 🙁
Mexicanita it hurts me to know that, believe me because I go through all that sometimes as a joke I tell my friends that I think that the Indians are taught at school on how to lie on the internet because everyone I have met and what I have read Not only here but on other pages they have the same way of acting to say things and to cheat, it is as if it were a single person, friend, because I tell you in my humble opinion that you cry that you take everything out believe me that it helps me cry, me I got angry with myself, I complained, I got sick because in the end we are more guilty than they because we should not believe in these people, whatever country it is, remember that I told you that if in person people come to deceive us with more reason online I recommend that you leave the internet for a while, it is hard work, I know because I connected daily to see if he sent me a message, my phone had it all the time next to me, I slept with him, in case he called me, in the end you live only to that person po r that now don't use the pages where you talked with him let time pass believe me that if it helps I did that I started to exercise, enter yoga and after a while believe me that if you heal now I personally remember it and laugh and I say one more experience to my life, I no longer hate him, I no longer love him, it does not hurt, I have healed, it is difficult, I do not lie to you, but if you can, just remember that in the end who is more alone, him or you, as it is you and I live in Another type of society where you can choose a partner, you can meet them, see if it is convenient for you to talk with more people and they do not and if they do all that it is because deep down they do not agree with their way of life but they cannot say it for they see how to get rid of their frustration the bad thing is that they hurt other people you are worth a lot of respect and love yourself that is the key to get ahead I could because you do not hurt and it costs but you can greetings. If you have a face tell me and I'll add you
letytony5@gmail.com add me please thank you
please help me to know more about indian men. I want to know more about them, in case someone has passed him by I am very confused every time I make love with him he always gives me a box of chocolates ????????????? What has some meaning for them or is it just a detail please if someone has happened please help me thank you very much
Hello Kitty
Notice that I am with the same curiosity as you, but after reading so much about love affairs with induoes, I don't even know what to think because they have something very strange, it is as if when you open their hearts, things happen and you commit the biggest craziness of your life, I feel that because of their religion or their culture they come to dominate you totally and it goes against your will as if it were a spell, I don't know but all the stories that I read none of them I saw that speak ill of them on the contrary their enigmatic life that it enchants and turns you into its slave, I think that is why they can have more than one woman and they share without saying anything because they say in India women are not jealous, according to them they have a lot of school preparation that overcomes feelings but I feel that if they suffer but they overcome it with spiritual help, but although it is true those enigmatic men steal your heart and not even a few days, and the truth is I do not know what to recommend whether to give you the opportunity to meet someone and I saw go through that experience or walk away from the beginning so as not to suffer.
My advice continues to read more about other relationships here there are many but I tell you that I live something very strange I am married to a Mexican for more than 20 years I have two children and I had never cheated on my husband we had differences in our marriage and distance but never I planned a hoax until I met an indu and now I am trapped, he drives me crazy as I have never lived it in my life, but on the other hand this is my life I am a respectable person with values, he says he loves me, but he is discreet, he does not pressure me , but he tells me I would like to see freely that we do not hide, but I am so afraid as if I were a young girl this I feel like soap opera love and I was about to separate but that life a little hidden from them makes you doubt, I still do not know What I am going to do but my relationship is already going on for 3 years imagine and he says it is for life but what I am going to do, my confusion is terrible. I talk about this because I want to contribute more about them for other Hispanic women.
Rocio you are absolutely right they are so special not because they are unique but because of the way they see things because of the way they take them especially and when you least imagine it you are already lost by them, my story is similar to yours. I've been browsing this on the internet for years and I have profiles on many pages to make friends and it never happened, sometimes a talk at most 2 months of talk with someone but nothing beyond comments without a joke but I met a guy on the face from there and it totally captivated me, it made me think if my life was good I was about to leave everything for him but in the end he only played with me today it is almost 2 years of being in contact with him and it is difficult for me to separate, it sounds bad but I He has at his feet I can't, no matter how hard I fight, I have done everything good, I think that by getting out of this game, now he has found another and this has finished me, in the end I told you all this because it is done to me as therapy and so that you know that It is a risk that one runs at a time. onocer guys from there greetings.
Hello everybody!!! The truth is I feel sooo sad because about 1 month ago my indu boyfriend ignores me, I feel devastated because I love him! And what he did to me hurts me, despite everything I miss him a lot because I shared so many beautiful things with him on the Internet! And now I feel a great emptiness inside me, the two of us plan our future together, he insisted a lot on getting married, on forming a family in short, sharing the rest of his life with me, and what angers me the most is that he started to look for me, to write to me, he even called me and told me that he had a beautiful voice, which was very sweet and in short a thousand and one pathetic words !!! 🙁
Now I come to realize that it is not worth it that it is an invalid like all of its generOoo !!!! 🙁 🙁
Hello Nanu, as you will see unfortunately here many of us have gone through that through disappointment if not the greatest of our lives but finally a disappointment I tell you do not get discouraged it hurts and you feel lost and alone but you are not alone here we have many girls that we can hear you and understand why we have lived it with 2 years of relationship believe me that I am just getting up from this but if you can remember that we have to love first, please, there will be good days and bad days but you always smile that no may more what that guy did to you is not worth a tear or a sad day for him because he is in his country very happy and calm and sorry if I tell you this but surely he is even in a new conquest because that's how many are Regards.
thank you lety !!! but I do not understand why they do this if in the end they are going to have to choose their customs and religion !!!! I do not see the joke !!!! but really friend !!! I was delusional about why, in everything we agreed, I also told him that I would teach him many things about my country and he even said that he would gladly come to meet him and talk to my parents to get married and many other lies that I believed them to me !!!! 🙁 🙁 🙁 Even the SOUL hurts me just by remembering it !!! I really feel maaaaaaaaalll !!!! just in case they do not know of someone who lives there who is from our continent ??? because I am interested in knowing how they are in person because on the Internet they are reverend cowardsssss !!!! 🙁 🙁
NANU
your story is so much like mine ... I also fell in love with a Hindu ...
Now we write to each other as friends, even so he keeps telling me that he loves me that he will always love me, but that we cannot be together, that it is fate or God, I do not know everyone's fault, I no longer know whether to believe him, but I still speak with why I still love him, even though I no longer tell him.
I only advise you to try to continue your life, talk more with real people, on the internet people say things that in real life they would never do.
live your life and try to forget
They say time heals wounds
I wish you the best
My name is Cindy .... I am a Mexican girl but I have lived in the USA for a long time, since I met my husband who is Indu and I love him and I am so happy with him, because even though his family rejected me because I am Mexican He is with me and he adores me and I love him ……….
and I will tell you that I was always a girl that I was going to marry a man from India and Diosito give me it, this culture is beautiful and full of color ... I weigh for the sari that is the traditional clothing of women ...... and his music I recommend the song sohni lagdhi by jassi sidhu which means pretty lady I hope you like it… .baey
hello I am glad to read your comments greetings to all and I love the indu cinema and its music bye
Bullshit! the only god of the Hindus is money, they are cheats, macho, regressed, smelly and filthy, close the door in Latin America to this filthy culture.
Hey CINDY, why don't you tell us more about your marriage with the Hindu boy, here in Mexico I know about 3 girls who married guys from there and they have done well, you will not believe me but one of them, his Her 3-year-old daughter is already arranging her marriage for her grandparents from India for when she grows up !!!! Hehehe what things, she accepted.
The moment you get married, everything is illusion and joy. But, in the long run, there are no problems due to cultural differences and that ??? Excuse my ignorance, but if I would like to know 🙂
FOR ALEJANDRA:
BECAUSE LOOK ALEJANDRA, I HAVE WORKED WITH 5 FOR THREE YEARS AND I SPEAK WITH KNOWLEDGE OF CAUSE, IT IS NOT LACK OF RESPECT FOR TELLING THE TRUTH, AND IF I THINK THAT THE DOORS NEED TO BE CLOSED IN LATIN AMERICA IT IS BECAUSE FOR EXAMPLE IN THE THE COMPANY IN WHICH WORK WANTS TO PUT US TO WORK 12 HOURS FROM MONDAY TO SATURDAY AND WITHOUT LABOR BENEFITS, THESE TYPES SAIL WITH THE FLAG OF "SPIRITUALS" AND THEY ONLY WANT TO SHAKE THEIR 200 YEARS OF ENGLISH COLONIZATION FROM MÉXICO CONOLIZING "MÉXICO CONOLIZATION"
Hello Alejandra, I will tell you about my experience with my now husband, for me it is like a fairy tale pork, it all started when I went to buy your store, he was in his office and when he left I was already to pay for my things and he left and stared at me Months went by and I kept going shopping until one day her worker told me that her boss liked me and I stayed in panicopork, I loved it, but since I knew that they took great care of their traditions and they couldn't get married since they were kids. Their parents fix their marriage because they didn't even give me illusions ... and until one day I did go out with him and there began our whole story at the same time we got married and if you have, we fight like any marriage but we love each other and we make our own arrangements. Differences and I will tell you that the tube that renounces to his pork family does not accept me because of my origin and they will not accept me but he is happy with me and I with him and our baby….
Hello Girls, I read your stories and it is INCREDIBLE they all coincide with my story ... it is as if we were talking about the same person .. I also have a Hindu boyfriend whom I met online and the characteristics that you describe in your respective boyfriends are identical to those of my boyfriend especially the famous and trite I LOVE U AND I MISS YOU ahh another is the SWEET HEART… THEY DO NOT BELIEVE ANYTHING THEY ARE BIPOLAR… I have not finished my relationship with him yet but I am waiting for the right moment to do it…. We are worth a lot and we deserve someone physically someone real ...
And thank you very much Mexicanita, Lety, Silvia, Rocio and all of you for sharing your stories, you don't know how helpful it has been for me… .Kisses
Well, the truth is that these guys lie without impudence, I had previously posted that I was "in love" with a boy from there, I am from Peru, well as I am distrustful I asked a friend to add it to her fb and as we say to him I got a plan (she flirted with him), she did it and well, he denied that she was in love and apart from adding it to fb she could see that in her FB she did not have a relationship with anyone, that is, I only configured so that I could see on my wall that YES He had a relationship with me but how do you say this moron did not have my ability so now he writes telling me that I am the bad one, that I was the one who ended up, I mean, A TOTAL BASE, I pretend to be the victim and tell him that he is If you don't understand me, I want to see how far it goes but obviously I can't have something with a guy like that ... if you have doubts, do that and see if they are faithful or not. Kisses to all and watch out for these sharks!
Thanks Sylvia, the truth was I had already thought about doing that .. but I backed off for fear of disappointing myself…. but now I will ... I'll tell you how I'm doing ... Greetings
Come on Monse 26, do it and then if you are disappointed the pain passes, as the saying goes, the truth hurts, the lie kills but THE DOUBT TORTURE! Luck 🙂
Monse 26 I am glad that my story has served you something .. I hope it does not go through what I go through, this boy still writes to me and even tells me that he loves me, that he will come to Mexico for me and all those things, with the difference that I already learned ...
There are many doubts about him in my mind, and as I read in a previous comment, doubt kills, in a relationship there should be no doubts, I decided that if he comes and stays here, only then could I trust him again. Everything he says seems so true, I don't know what to believe anymore, but I'm not so naive either
greetings girls ...
I hope none of them get too excited about these guys from India ... except on the internet
Take care
Hello girls I want to make my opinion clear without making someone feel bad… .for my point of view it is very difficult to maintain a relationship on the internet if it is difficult when you have your partner close …… .and we women are more dedicated more in love than men , and another much more difficult thing from another country, another language, and nothing but another kind of life, another custom, very different from us, and the truth is that many of the Indians just like Latinas to hang out with them but they are very aware that they will never marry with them… .but 1 out of 1000 better if it happened to me but it cost my husband the family, which does not make me happy for him at all but his family is so hard that they do not want to understand that we love each other and that there is already a baby around It is very difficult to understand why they are made …… .I wish them the best for all and that all their wishes are fulfilled luck ……
Hello guys I met a Hindu man through the chat I loved it in such a way that I saw myself giving him my phone number and he called me instantly, we spoke two days in a row and he ended his vacation today we communicate by mail since my schedules At work they collide with his but I swear to you that every day that passes brings me more and more crazy. I don't know what he did to me but I'm beginning to believe that there are forces outside this world. God!! Spell I can't stop thinking about him !!
Hello Beautiful..
What can I tell you, read the previous stories, that's how they are, they enchant us with their charms, with their chivalry, with their beautiful words, but only God knows if what they say is true
I only advise you to be careful, and not so trusting .. you never know, less online
take care and much success
Thank you very much for answering me, Mexican, I really feel confused, my head asks me to be rational and I am sure of what I should do but in practice I lose myself. I just talked to him and everything seems so unreal so… mmm what to say !! I am from Argentina and he is from Spain. We have been here for a week today since we met and I call to say hello for it, isn't it sweet?
I am full of doubts and talking about this reassures me, he tells me that my doubts are unfounded and that if what I want is time, it is worth giving it to me but I ... I am all confused and full of thousands of intrigues !!!!!! Thanks again pretty.
If I understand you, I had an Indian boyfriend online, a relationship of a year, he broke up with me for no reason, you can read me getting married in the previous comments, but now ... after 2 months of having finished, he asked me again to be his girlfriend, I never let myself be sent messages and called, I even cried .. it's very cute, very cute and whatever you want, but it's as if it were bipolar, I no longer know what to do like you confuses me a lot and I still love him very much. .! You don't know the lots of doubts in my head, he seems sincere, but he behaves strange sometimes
I can't tell you not to trust him, because it would be illogical for me to say that if I don't even know him, but if I advise you to be careful, if you give yourself the opportunity to have something with him, just be careful
I wish you the best, for me Indian boys are still the most romantic there is, and at the end of the day every experience in life makes us grow, and you can get something good out of everything.
good luck baby take care
HELLO TO ALL THE TRUTH AND I READ HISTORY BY HISTORY ,,, I TELL YOU I AM COLOMBIAN AND I LIVE IN CHILE WHAT HAPPENED TO ME IS AS IF IT WAS PLANNED. I MEET A VERY HAPPY MAN IN A TAXI WHEN GOING TO AN OFFICE TO DO MY VISA PROCEDURES OK, AFTER I DOWN I WENT TO THAT OFFICE AND I FOUND HIM THERE, BUT NOTHING HAPPENED, THEN I HAVE TO GO TO A NOTARY AND I FIND HIM AGAIN ALLA OSEA I FOUND HIM EVERYWHERE THAT DAY ... UNTIL HE HE APPROACHED ME AND WONDERED WHAT HE CALLED ME, WHERE WAS I WORKED IN THE END ... SO WE EXCHANGED FB NICS AND SO HE ADDED ME BUT THEY KNOW THAT HE WAS VERY FRESH IN HIS FACE I SAW THAT HE HAD PICTURES WITH HIS WIFE TOO HAD CHILDREN AND I GET PLASMED ,, GOOD ONE DAY IN A FACE CONVERSATION I TOLD HIM THAT I WANTED NOTHING MORE THAN A FRIENDSHIP WITH HIM OUT OF RESPECT FOR HIS MARRIAGE… AND NDA HE TOLD ME THAT HE DIDN'T WANT TO PRESS ME THAT HE LIKED ME AND THAT HIS WIFE WAS GONE AND WAS GONE. I HAD LEFT ... IN THE END I KEPT INSISTING AND I BELIEVED IN THE END I ENDED ENTANGED UP TO THE NECK M E VOLVIA LOCA WAS BEAUTIFUL, HE ALWAYS SENT ME MESSAGES HE COOKED ME NOT WITHOUT WORDS… AND I'M HOOKED SO MUCH THAT READING THESE STORIES I THOUGHT AND I TOLD HIM THAT NO MORE THAN I COULDN'T FOLLOW ILLUSTRATING WITH HIM I DIDN'T SEE HIS MESSAGE AT ALL. I DIE FOR HIM… THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR STORIES I LOVE INDIA AND ALL OF IT… YOU NEEDED…
There is what I can tell you, each story made me remember more and more a boy from INDIA Jeee BUT THE TRUTH that almost all of us agree that something supernatural they enclose in their words, messages because to me sincerely so far I move the mat as I know He says and that we rarely write to each other since we are 9 hours apart jaaa but this Indu spells me, every day I feel that I love him and much !!!!! But if I start to think with a cool head I realize that it is an ILLUSION that nothing that I lived with him can really come to fruition even though he tells me that he is going to come with me next year, there is something that I do not Close, no matter how much you call me and tell me that you love me, I feel that it cannot be truly true, but even reading all the stories, it hurts me to say it but I have to FORGET IT and get someone truly MEAT AND BONE jaaa who is with me in reality and not for the INTERNET !!! 🙁 🙁
AH TRUE !!! Hello Cindy, how are you? and I agree with Alejandra, tell us how is your life with your husband Indu? How is the treatment and in terms of customs, do they follow his or yours or do they share how is living together ??? jeee THANKS !!!!
Hello Alejandra… ..thanks for your comments my baby was born a few months old and no they didn't want to meet her they miss it because she is the same as my father-in-law and her name is Ruby, as my mother-in-law has incredible big eyes and even her little eyes, and I I tell my husband to look for them because he is also his family, but he cannot forgive them for not wanting to meet his daughter ... but we are still happy, and my mother always tells me there is a daughter where you went to put yourself because I am the Hunica from my family who is in the United States and married to someone from India but I already get used to it and I always sound even though I did not think it would happen to marry an Indu and the truth is I am happy and I love this beautiful culture
Hi Alejandra, I'm married to a man from India and I'm happy, he even speaks Spanish better than I learned it… the only problem is his family that doesn't accept me but we're happy… I wish you good luck
I got my name wrong, the message was for you Elizabeth
hello mexican:
What you say you had a boyfriend by chat, and as I already mentioned tbn is happening to me. Do you know something??? He treats me super well, but lately every time he talks to me he behaves like this, as you say bipolar, it even seems to me that he is delirious. Every moment he tells me that Indians commit suicide for love, that this always happens in India. wow, it really scares me. He only talks about that and sends me many songs with romantic content, about the possibility of love between a Christian (that is, me) and a Hindu, that his parents would gladly accept me and I would go live with him. I don't know I love talking to him, but I don't want to get my hopes up. If one day, as he says, he comes to Peru. Wow, I wouldn't know what to do. It scares me, but I love it. Please recommend me, I forget it and delete it from my contacts, or I take it cold and that's it, but without anything serious happening?
thanks for your answer.
Elizabeth
BECAUSE I BECAME HIS BRIDE AGAIN ...
He does not talk to me about suicide or that, but today more than ever it is clear that ours is not going to work ... and he wants me to go to India ... and when I think about all that that implies, how to leave my family .. it is very difficult .. he cannot come to Mexico forever because he must take care of his mother, and I cannot go there because I know that if I go, I will not see my family again, at least he tells me that I would see like every 4 years, and that is a long time, he is all cute, I really love him, but this distance is a problem, if you want advice do not fall in love, because if you are not willing to go there, will have no case ..
The boy I knew also told me that his mother will not have problems because I am a Christian too, according to him he can choose who to marry.
I trust him, he has shown me that he truly loves me, but the problem for us and I think that for all those who have long-distance relationships, is that if you want it to last forever someone has to leave their country ...
And that's not easy at all, especially when you don't have the money to visit your family often ... at least that's my case ...
that if I love him, I love him with all my heart and you don't know how much he suffers ...
If you haven't fallen in love with him yet, then you better not do it.
well, I don't know what your case is. but I know that mine: / only makes us both suffer ... we love each other but we can't be together .. it's very sad you know 🙁
Now we remain as friends ... but I know that when he commits himself (because he will do it, it has to be like that in his country) my soul will break ... I don't know what I'll do
I think I'm not the best one to give you advice now
but I hope that my story does not confuse you more, and that it helps you in something
kisses
Hello Monse26:
wow, wow, wow. They really are bipolars. I removed this nonsense from the ICQ chat, the truth is, it tells me sweet heart, i miss u, and everything you say. Now he has been given to put names saying that we are very friends, a real stoner. Pucha, but I want to play this recontra imb's game ... I can't say bad words out of politeness. It really amuses me to say a lot of things to him just to make fun of him. Above he wants me to pass him photos of me by file. this leg is a real stoner ... ha ha ha ha. Where does this kind of vermin come from ah ?????? they really make you laugh. Oh and the funniest is of Tamil origin, from the south and he sends me movies that say everything he usually says ha ha. It really is sooooooooooooooo funny. Now I realize the boggers who enter the chat. One question, if they really are from India (ha ha ha) do they have more imagination to say such nonsense ????????????????????? well, greetings and a hug to all and all. byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Does anyone know anything about the GOA Indians? what are the customs of a boy from Goa? Thanks in advance
Hello girls ... I'm from Peru, really reading all your posts, some very charming and others that really give me pause. Well my story is: I met a boy from India over the internet 6 months ago and I met him by chance, who resides in Canada, but is currently in India visiting his relatives. The detail is that I will soon meet him through the immigration process that exists there, I will go to Canada in January, with residence. In fact, since when I met him, he fascinated me, we treat each other like special friends, with certain words of affection and / or love, but we never tell each other that we love each other, for the truth I think we have certain fears to face that, and because of who we are mature (we are over 30), we wait for our meeting to see what happens, at least I, of course at the beginning of meeting through the chat everything was very good then we became friends, due to certain problems, but since the end of October he began to be more What a friend, well after a complaint for not being very affectionate, not very expressive and I really wanted to finish it even though I like it a lot, but for reasons of his work, which in the end he lost it, but from there he began to change being more expressive, saying that he waits for the moment to express everything he feels the day he meets me. But until November before he left for India, he told me that he wanted to marry me, to live with me, good to have someone who loves him, I told him time to time, that we have to meet, I said, he surprised me that he told me That really, I did not expect, he told me that I had to decide several things because it would change my life there, because I want to develop professionally but at the same time I want to start a family with someone special with him I do not know, but he wants to get married and form a family, with the goals that I set for myself to study and form a family at the same time it will be a bit difficult, but I only know that I will decide the day I meet him, talk long and hard with him.
Well, I met his sister through voice chat, and according to what he said, he has told his whole family about me, how well they are worried that until now, after 30, he is not married yet, well that is how it is culture, it is what that he commented to me.
I have my fears and I let him know but I love this boy, according to he is responsible for his actions and is not playing with me, we will meet soon and I am really very anxious, with the fear if he will like me or vice versa, for the difference of cultures, well of religion is a subject that we talk very little about, but we respect it
Well girls I await your comments
PS: Sylvia I would like to be in contact with you, you are my compatriot to be able to share our experiences
After two years of dating with him ... we decided to go live together. Everything was fine until I discovered that I had a double life. The boy of my dreams turned out to have a strong addiction to the internet and to contact chats and spent (secretly of course) hours chatting, creating profiles and looking for Russian girls. Imagine how I stay ... dead 🙁 he is incapable of accept it but he was cheating on me during the two years of relationship with other girls on the internet, he fell in love with them, he told them lies ... and he never told them that he already had a girlfriend pena a pity that I am still dragging ... 🙁 in short, just don't trust too much of what they tell you by interent since sometimes things are not as they seem ... greetings
sweet moon
you should put the boy's name ..!
regards..!
I love Indians. I had a boyfriend who loved him or his name is Muslim momin, acdu, he lives or lives in autin, tx. He has a store in San Marcos, kisses, heart ……… .I love it when he takes me to eat Indian food.
Hello, I mentioned before that I had a Hindu boyfriend, because after a year of relationship we broke up, he put his family as a pretext but the truth is I don't know what to think because we had been a little bad for several days because he discovered many lies on the part of the.
recently a cousin of his, who hates me, told me that he had a girlfriend that he had left me for another, I don't know what to think, I didn't meet him through any chat, I met him in person, and it was a very nice story I felt protected by his side, even he cried the day we finished, so I wonder, is a person capable of dissimulating so well? or was he really sincere? ...
I just know that he left me a big wound and I do not hold a grudge because he always made me feel very good even though he always put his work first, he tried to make time for me, but I still think that I would not be able to see him again although he did. I love very much I never ever looked for him again, now I try to be happy without him ...
The Indians and Nepalese are gods, they seem like a dream I wouldn't want to wake up from… ohhhhh, but when something seems too good to be true, it usually is.
What I can advise you is that for no reason you fall in love with him ... all his lies will seem true .. I do just like you, I started playing with fire and then I ended up in love with him .. he was so super cute .. until little by little I discovered how it really was ... and you know that I discovered ... at the same time that he had a relationship with me he had it with another girl and when I confronted him he told me that with her it was pure interest that she had friends in the national institute of immigration and that she would help him with his visa to be able to come and see me ... I don't buy that story ... now we talk according to friends ... I did so many things and I was always there, forgiving him ... and you know it's not worth that you fall in love with one from so far away .. there are boys in our countries and it is not that they are better or worse .. I do not say anything against culture ... but at least someone close to you will find it more difficult to lie to you or hide things from you ...
I only say treat him as a friend if you want to talk to him ... but do not confide in his things .. they tell you that they love you in the first week of meeting you, then he will do everything to make you fall in love with him .. from messages to your cell phone , calls .. messages on fb, he will dedicate songs to you .. wow .. it will be the cutest until he finds someone else then he will start to change with you and leave you .. or even worse he will maintain the relationship with you while he is with others too ... just I tell you to be careful ..
regards
Thank you girls for your tips really! By any chance the boy we are talking about doesn't have a last name Chauhan? Well, I am very struck by the pattern of Hindi boys who make Latinas fall in love with a lie! why that pathology?
Girls yesterday I finished my relationship with Bel, if that's what I could call her hehe, well the case was that I begged not to leave him, that he had no arranged marriage, and that he wants to fulfill me, well those are the words that he told me , that he wanted a marriage for love, that his family was not going to organize any marriage, well anyway! I do not know what to think of all these, because I wonder what he does wanting to fall in love and then disappoint me so ugly, it hurts me a lot with them in general and with him, well I offered him my friendship, we'll see, but I have the firm conviction not to have an unhealthy relationship with him through the internet .. Thanks for this magnificent post, because it helped me to dispel many doubts, hopefully one day religious and cultural impositions for human beings will be definitively abolished from the world! it is my wish! Thanks again
lucky… !
Mexican girl, what do you recommend I do? I eliminate it? because according to him he was crying because I told him to be friends…. The one who wrote to you had a last name, chauhan?
Let's see girl ... we can't tell you what you should or shouldn't do ... but really reading all the stories do you think yours is going to be different? do you think you will be together in the future? open your eyes please .. how many are we? 20, 30 or more girls who have been through the same thing ... guys you know on the internet, a week they tell you that they love you, they ask for photos, they send you photos, blah blah ... and then it turns out that they have done the same with 10 more .. I was naive but no more!
The truth is, as loli says, you have to decide that. The one I knew is not named like that, he is a chubby man who works as a translator. Do not confess the name, they change it to him. I only say that you do not fall in love. .. The one I knew also cried, then when he wants to leave you he will say that his family arranged a marriage for him and that he cannot refuse .. Among so many other excuses .. Actually they just want to pass the time, be very careful, I advise you not to you fall in love or let yourself be fooled by him
I do not know why at first I was curious to inquire about this culture but I have disappointed a chi * @ <…, bitch I say zorry I did not want to offend but it was wrong to me about kasar to minors and not even chi ... / * @ g
Hello! I have read some comments to all of you, I have a Hindu boyfriend online, he is very cute, very affectionate, very expressive, but the reality is that who knows if he really loves me and I don't know what to think about it, he studies there And he is very intelligent, I love him, he is an excellent student, but I regret not being able to meet him even on webcam. any advice
Hi Angi! I still have if you can call a relationship with a Hindu boy, in reality they are some dream boys, princes when it comes to treating very gentle and sweet girls, but all the comments up here leave a lot to say! Why can't you see it on web cam?
because whenever I tell him he tells me that he doesn't have one, and he says he's going to buy one, the truth is that we are both very far away on different continents, I don't know whether to think if this has a future, we already have 9 months of dating but hey Illusion, although in reality I don't like his culture, but the country itself I love and he is very handsome,
Mmmmmm ok…. Has he sent you photos at least? I'm from Venezuela and you? The boy I write to is also super handsome, in fact he is a model, I hope he is not the same hehe, it would be sad ... from which city is he who writes to you? I've only been with him for 1 month ... his name begins with A and his last name with C ..
Hello Angy, well I don't know if I have a future, the truth is that I am very realistic and I think not, I just hope I do not believe the things that he tells me completely, because there if the situation would be serious, you have to be realistic and know that a ticket from India to any country in Latin America is very expensive, and you have to see what possibilities and intentions the boy has to see if he will make that sacrifice, because it is a fortune…. What has he told you to come to your country? or you to go to yours? what are the chances of that happening?
I advise you not to write to him no matter how hard it is, wait to see if he needs you like he does, give him 3 more days, if not he does ... I advise you to say goodbye to him, because you are going to suffer a lot When I want to be doing this with you all the time, it is not just that they play with your feelings, how old are you and how old is he? What did he tell you about the arranged marriage?
Well, notice that I am 24 years old and 23, at the beginning of the relationship he twice told me to go there, but I said no because it is obvious one that it is very long and another that I am not really going to risk Apart from the fact that we have talked about marriage and he told me once that he is going to get married at 28, I mean the same as me, but he told me that he was going to see how our relationship would go, but the reality is that this is all a story of fairies, and well you have to wake up and see that it will never happen, even if I tell you something I feel that I love it quite enough, there is but I have to wake up from this story, and if one day I would like to travel to India, but only to walk nothing else, because living there is never….
but hey ,,, ale that we are going to do just ask GOD FOR them so that their eyes are open and then they are happy and end those marriages arranged
it's true Angy ... you're right ... it's sad but it's reality, not everything in this world is perfect, or how it should be .. life is like this .. we must look for a more possible love, even if it is not a fairy tale like that that these Hindu boys make us dream ... we must look for something more possible, closer, a boy from our environment ... then I will continue posting what happens with me, so that we all share experiences, I am 23 and he is 26, I suppose this year to He will get him a wife from his relatives there…. It is the sad reality of them ... and yes, there is nothing stronger than prayer to God, let us pray for them, because this world changes these strong cultures sometimes impossible to accept
yes ale !!!!! It is better to find one nearby, because what is the use of someone so long, and well if not all are like the boy who shared that the best left his country, but in reality not all are like that and What a shame about that ,,, buneo ale I liked hearing from you !!! we are in contact then ... have to see what your boyfriend keeps telling you ...
Hello everyone ... I have seen these comments and it has caught my attention because I am in the same situation as you ... I have a Hindu boyfriend and he is very cute with me, he is 19 and I 22 although he says that age does not matter, Well, he tells me that he loves me and that he wants to marry me and I told him that it cannot be because his religion and customs are not like mine and he told me that he does not care that he would leave his country for me, that he would come to look for me but to take me to India to get married… but that makes me sad because I love him very much and I don't want to get excited, what can you advise me ???
so are they all .. then later they tell you that they want to marry and have a family and everything .. well it is not so true, it seems true and they make us excited, but in the end you discover reality little by little .. this boy with whom I I speak, he still tells me that he loves me .. and you know that, lie ... I have seen how he flirts with other girls .. he tells him just the same as he tells me ..
It is sad, but you better find someone you can meet in person, and do not dream a lot of a love that you cannot assure is true .. what do you know if he is not lying to you, on the internet it is very easy to lie .. you say and say things even if they are not true ..
Anyway, I'm just saying be careful
Hello Little one, look, I think that nobody can tell you that that boy who writes to you has bad feelings, maybe if he is in love with you, what happens is that his culture, as you have said yourself, and his society prevent him from having a life sentimental as he would like, you also have to see what social class he comes from and so you know if he is going to be able to raise the money and move to your country, or evaluate if you would like to risk your life for his love, I tell you from experience they without No doubt they are very sweet boys but there they do not let them choose their partner that is why they try to choose their own partners even if it is abroad, you just have to be sure that it is love ... tell me something, where are you from? And how long have you been in relationship with him? has he called you? have you seen it on web cam?
Amigaaaaas !!!! I'm so sad 🙁 🙁 🙁 I discovered that my boyfriend was texting with another on fb. and even on the wall the very cheeky wrote to him !!!!! what do i do ??? Obviously I kick it like the dog it is! : I
hi nanu! What was your Indian boyfriend's name? Why my Indian boyfriend wrote me yesterday on the wall, hahaha and if it is the same? or:
Girls, what I advise you, is that you do not trust guys you don't know who only know virtually, it is no longer because it is Hindu, only that on the internet we can be anyone ...
And as for the Hindus, I realize that almost all of us who have had boyfriends from India ended badly ... I lasted a year with mine and I repeat I did not meet him on the internet and yet I feel that I did not know everything, it was a lie ... Maybe they are not all the same but it is better that they are not so trusting, they are sweet, loving, attentive but very liars.
ALEPIANIST !!!!! do not tell me that you are my horn jaaaaaaa
I give you his characteristics: he is skinny, dark, tall and he told me that he is a computer engineer jeee his name begins with "G" and his last name with "S" !!! 😉
How nice what RASH did. And I am Argentine and my boyfriend is Hindu, a beautiful Sikh and from what I read I think I was lucky, since his father gave him permission to choose his wife, and he always tells me that I am the only woman for his heart. I am totally in love and every time I look at it my soul lights up.
I did not know anything about this culture or Indu people personally but I discovered that they are people with a very good heart
Sharing experiences, the most enriching… .. I will tell you I met an indu on the internet, who lives in Mexico, and we started to get acquainted, the relationship seems good…. but on the second date he tells me that he has been separated for 5 years, a divorce is very difficult in india, also because he has two children, ... he does not promise me anything since we are getting to know each other ...
I was reading the comments and it coincides with that that suddenly he is super loving and then he loses about 15 days and he looks for me again, I clarify that I am not looking for him, although I like him, the truth is that I have little fear because it is separated, well We have only seen each other 4 times and I do not want to fall in love, although it attracts me a lot. Also I do not know how the customs or laws are there. thank you for your advices
Hello everyone,
My name is Tapan, man from India, I also live in India. First time I am reading commentary about Hindus. I just want to say they are not all the same, there is bad and good in all parts of the world. There is marriage that lasts a lifetime but in European countries there are more incidences of divorce. India is a very large country, it has many regions and religion, each Region is different from another, each region has its own culture. Mentality depends on education and environment. Here women only know how to sacrifice. A regular marriage is not always correct, today women make marriage for love. I want to say one thing, arranged marriage does not mean bad, there is love, there is peace, there is serenity. Sometimes better than marriage for love. I saw many people, there is good and bad ... you have to always open your eyes.
Forgive me, my Spanish is not good.
Hello nanuu jaahaha well it matches the characteristics that you placed but the guy who writes me is a model and his name begins ppr A and his surname by C hehehe we hope it is not the same jeeee
hello !!!! They cover the truth is that good if you know what to believe maybe you are right because you live there is and you know more about these things, because you are originally from there, but hey I think that love must be clean pure and not fixed but good You have your customs, and I think not all people are happy with an arranged marriage, and with respect to religions, ufff, there are many, and a very small percentage are Christians. Well God bless India.
HAHAHAHA Uuuufffff luckily it is not the same alepianist23 hahahaaaa
It is good that someone from India connects with us by this means jeee, so we can ask the many questions we have about the INDUS jeeee
Hello Tapan, I would like to ask you some questions jeeee
1. Are Indian males cold?
2. let women work?
3. share the responsibilities of raising children with their wives?
4. Is it true that the bride and groom cannot kiss on the street or in front of their parents?
jeee I hope you answer me right away jijiji THANK YOU !!!!! 😀 tqmm even I don't know you !!!!!
Hi @Angy !!
If it seems to me that I understand the things of India, I agree with you Love would be pure clean.
In the case of arranged marriage, it begins before marriage when two families agree on this purpose… if it is true it is an old custom.
The two families have the consent of the girl and boy.
I just want to say for you it is very rare but there is no lack of love in an arranged marriage. Today there are many cases of divorce in love marriage .... in this case what are you going to say? On the contrary, arranged marriage is lived a lifetime.
Arranged marriage - not always bad.
Marriage of love-not always good.
Greetings.
Hi @Nanu !!
With your permission I am here. So many questions….?? I also do not know all the things and customs of India ... because there are many regions, customs and religion ... it is not so easy to know. All mods I want to help you about the INDUS.
1. Are Indian males cold? - I'm not sure what you mean? You mean males are physically cold? It is not true.
2. let women work? - Again it is not true, today there are many women working but there is a very good financial family, women of these families do not work in the office, they have their own business. The women work at the Call center / BPO at night as well.
3. share the responsibilities of raising children with their wives? - If the responsibilities are compared.
4. Is it true that the bride and groom cannot kiss on the street or in front of their parents? -Indian rule, it is not allowed to kiss in the street. As a sign of respect, they do not kiss in front of their parents.
Do you have an INDU boyfriend?
Hope these answers serve you.
Hello @ Nanuu… it is very difficult to believe the people of FB. Are you from which country? The young people always romantic on the internet but not enriality. For marriage you have to know the people personally. So this boy goes to your country or you come to India hehehe ??
He was looking at me too much, but generally, although conservatives, nobody tells you anything to be nice, smile, etc., to his friends and family.
I hope my answer has helped you, if you need to know something do not hesitate to tell me
Oh, I missed adding that I have been wondering about the perception that you can have a smile there, because I read that they do not smile at each other. That they do this more with foreigners, because when they do it with each other, it is something that immediately brings their suspicion about the intentions of their interlocutor. I found two very interesting blogs about that and a lot of Indians like that confirming that. Although I do not know to what extent it is true, because here I see the Indians smiling softly to address others.
And I was also surprised that there, generally, they see very badly going out with people, dating, breaking up, repeating the cycle, getting married, getting divorced. They see that as very immoral, as I read, because for them, relationships that are based on love are unstable, and that the arranged marriage is something that is built, which is like the union, not of a man and a woman, but of two families, so parents are supposedly responsible for finding the prospect that best meets their expectations.
It is true that in India, the fact that a couple is separated is as if they were divorced ????…. For the reason that divorces are very very difficult there?
that I consider a separate indu.
Thank you
I forgot… .. he wants to come to Mexico because he wants to marry me… he always talks to me about marriage .. he dedicates songs and beautiful poems to me…. oh really I don't know what to believe anymore: (… .. that's all have a good day girls
Hi jaan nguyen ... I'm from Mexico too .. and that's what my ex told me he wanted to come to marry me ... we broke up recently because I discovered a lot of lies .. now he has another girlfriend on the internet, but he keeps telling me that loves, and that I help him with the visa to come to Mexico and that he will marry me and that we will forget everything that happened on the internet that in real life it will be different with me, that it will be faithful .. anyway .. I don't know how help him come .. and the truth is if I believe in his love, we are 2 years old now .. if you know of any way to help him with the visa, I will appreciate if you let me know ..
and regarding your boy, I don't know .. maybe if he loves you .. maybe not ... everything involves a risk, just be very careful .. try not to fall in love so much, at least until you meet him in person .. believe me that they cheat on you it hurts , but if it's online, .. hmm, it hurts a little more ..
We cannot judge the boys, mine even introduced me to his mother on the web cam .. he argued with her to be able to be with me .. and now .. I cheat on another also on the internet ... relationships from afar are not so easy .. less being from so far ..
I'm just saying take care of yourself 🙂
regards
hahahaha hello cover. The truth is that it will be very difficult for me to go to your country hahaha because it is far away and also it would be difficult for me to gather the necessary money to travel hahaha and I am from Paraguay !!!
The truth is now I'm getting disenchanted with him hahaha I met a boy from my country that I am starting to like hahaha and that by the way seems a lot to my Platonic Indu ajajajajjaajaa
Thanks Tapan !!!!!
Hello Nanu ... if you need money to travel ... well now you're lucky, you found a boy from your country. This boy is not indu right?
hello !!!!!!! I think all these stories are very super interesting, although they are very real, my boyfriend is from India too, and we are going to celebrate a year of dating but now he is very distant from me, he says that it is because of his work and because of the university, the truth is I do not know whether to believe him But what I know is that I will never be able to know it so far that it is India, although I will never lose hope of being able to travel there.
Hi Angy that's right… .. I really do believe it since they are somewhat dedicated…. work and university if it keeps them busy… but I feel that if he really loves you he should take time with you… maybe they don't see each other for long but I think at least you communicate with him…. Send messages or have him call you from time to time or your call so that this relationship is not lost .. or clarify well if the relationship still works or if he will not take you into account, it is better to end it sounds crude but I think it would be the best ... to avoid hurting herself more ... yesterday I did speak well with my boyfriend and I told him because I was already determined to finish it because I hurt myself and it would be much worse ... I recommend that you talk to him and put the cards on the table I hope you do very well ... these Hindu guys !! they bring us headlong!
I would like to know a lot about the Indian culture, but above all I would like to talk with an Indian man of my age, more or less 58 years old, I am a decent hardworking lady and I would like to be friends with people like you.
I have a Hindu boyfriend! And he enact me, he is the most beautiful boy I had ever met…. I am super in love <3 and I like all this and soon we will get married 😀
Hello everyone
I am excited to know that I am not the only one who loves India. I too would like to marry a man from India. They are sensitive, romantic, they really love their spirituality, fidelity, etc. If anyone knows? Well we talk, hee hee hee God bless you.
Hi, Diana,
I am here from India.
Hello Tapan:
Thanks for being available. And I confirm my wish: I would like to have a husband from India, I ask GOD. Also I would like to travel there one day. I love Bollywood movies, their stories, their songs (voices and lyrics), their dances, everything is beautiful. Their culture, I admit that everything they have said, as in everything there are good things and others not so much; but through the movies I have learned to love this country. GOD want to meet my prince charming of India. A hug Tapan. And say hello from Colombia to all the beautiful people of India.
Greetings to all / as!
After all these comments I am very confused …… I have had a Hindu «friend» through Skype chat for several months and we met coincidentally in the same way… .. the boy claims to be super in love and even says that he loves me and then for See what happens I go along with my doubts and I cannot deny that I like it…. Well, not to make a long story, he spent several days at his parents' house to visit and since he returned home he has not stopped asking me to marry him, he says
that I must go to India as soon as possible to meet them and to start the wedding preparations .. that then he comes with me to my country to meet my parents
I am currently in India, I am from Peru, I live in Spain, and I have come to do a course in cataract surgery with phacoemulsification. Well I thought that the level of doctors in general was excellent, but where it comes, they are only regular, there is a lot of dirt, a lot of ignorance, there is crime and everything is just like any other poor country with the aggravating factor that it smells bad, there are more diseases of which one can imagine and a lot of social inequality. Much ignorance, and strange beliefs. That is my impression, ha and those who have money like Europe and the United States a lot and want to look like them.
Well, this first paragraph is for Bernardo, I am also from Peru and I met an intelligent and mature Hindu boy. And it is better not to highlight bad things about any country, because all over the world there are bad things, that is why countries try to get ahead by trying to maintain good things.
Regarding the subject they deal with, on arranged marriages or for love, I will always be in favor of marriage for love and I believe that it is what every being yearns for, because it is the only way to safely reach happiness, because if there is love there is Will and everything will be possible (solve all kinds of problems) and if there is divorce in a marriage it is because the couple liked each other and did not love each other (love was lacking).
hello girls ..
Ravi Arora is a fat man, from India he is 24 years old, he is a translator .. he likes to have several girlfriends on the internet at the same time, he deceives them saying that he loves them and that he will travel to their country to marry them, first he will be your friend and Little by little he will make you fall in love with him, he is very good at lying .. be careful .. !!!
Hello Malu and what is Ravi's last name ??? I am interested in knowing it, see, if you can provide it to me it would be interesting and I would appreciate it very much.
Ravi Arora is his internet name… Chitkara is his real last name
If you have any other questions, I will gladly answer you.
In which city does this boy live?
he is from new delhi.
I'm just saying be careful with internet guys, some just want to hang out, they don't mind breaking hearts ... and this is one of them ... please ... !! do not fall in love on the internet, love is beautiful, but in real life, online is a lot of risk and most of the time it is false, and you will get hurt girls, I say it from experience ..
Take care and love each other a lot
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hola …la verdad estuve leyendo muchas de las historias anteriores y me quedo tan asombrada , hay tantas cosas que se parecen a mi historia…yo soy de colombia y conocí un hombre de la india por Internet hace mas de un año , empezamos como amigos y cada día nuestros encuentros eran mas repetitivos , me llenaba de amor ternura confianza me contaba su vida , de su familia de su ex esposa sus dos hijos , al igual que yo le contaba sobre mi vida ,,como era mi dia a dia , poco a poco nos fuimos enamorando , el era demasiado especial , pendiente de mi todo el tiempo las horas eran tan cortas cuando nos encontrábamos por Internet,me decía que me amaba que yo era la mujer mas hermosa que jamas el había visto, que mi color de piel lo tenia fascinado etc,que nos comprometeríamos para matrimonio que ya el habia hablado con su familia en mumbai ,que lo único que faltaba era que nos viéramos para arreglar las fechas de la boda, yo tome la decisión de viajar a la ciudad donde el se encontraba , el no vivía en la india , vive en otro pais cercano a la india , bueno lo cierto fue que organice todo y viaje me encontré con el en ese lejano pais , para mi fue un sueño hecho realidad en ese momento yo estaba dispuesta a dejarlo todo por su amor , por encontrar una estabilidad emocional ,,,en fin lo que una mujer sueña para su futuro sentimental , un hogar hijos etc…cuando nos vimos fue hermoso, me llevo a su casa y me repetia que su Dios era muy generoso por tenerme en sus brazos , me miraba y me decía que me amaba muchas veces , pero ese viaje dias después se convirtió en mi peor pesadilla , el me mintió , aun sostenía una relación con su ex esposa y mas cositas , era bipolar …un dia me decía que me amaba y otro dia salia como si nada , yo dormía en otra habitación y le preguntaba por que su actitud , el me decía que no estaba seguro que temía que yo lo fuera a dejar por que esa cultura donde el vivía era muy diferente a la mía y el trabajaba mucho , que otra desilucion no la soportaria , pero que aun asi me amaba, solo dormía 4 horas diarias la mayor parte del tiempo lo pasaba trabajando y cuando llegaba a a casa se encerraba en el estudio hasta altas horas de la madrugada,asi fue como me di cuenta de que hablaba con su supuesta ex , ella es del salvador y hablaban en español mas aun entendía que se decían el pensando que yo dormía profunda,aunque confieso que solo lo escuche una vez , no por que no tuviera la oportunidad si no por que se partía mi corazón en mil pedazos, adelante mi regreso a mi pais , de la fecha programada , no toleraba mas engaño y mentiras todos los días era una tortura , ver como me decía que me amaba pero me engañaba al mismo tiempo , al regresar no le dije nada solo me notaba rara y me lo preguntaba , pero el dia de mi partida , sabia que no lo volvería a ver jamas en mi vida y eso me destrozaba el corazón pero al mismo tiempo me daba cierta paz y tranquilidad por que saldría de ese infierno en el cual se convirtió mi vida al ver que jugaba con mis sentimientos , el ahora me escribe , me dice que me extraña que me recuerda mucho , pero la verdad me como de dolor por contestarle de forma cortante y pensando nunaca mas volverlo a ver , aunque mi corazón me repite y me pregunta por el todos los dias….
Hello Yuli I understand what you are going through believe me that every pain you are going through I have gone through and I am going through it if as they say I ran into the same stone again I fell in love 2 times but this time it was a very real love, very strong for Perhaps it will be the most beautiful because despite everything that I am going through I am sincere and I do not deny that I spend the best moments with him, we also met in Mexico my country in Mexico City and from the first day we did not separate until He had to return to his country but once he was there he never made me feel the distance he was always by my side online the talks were endless the plans were wonderful the dreams the best the idea was to get back together but this time to He always could not return to Mexico because nobody wanted to give him the interview via online so he found work in Peru and I was always there to support him and to make plans, but once the Peru floor was changed, the change was a change that I thinkHe had already thought about it but he made me believe in his words now he has a good job and that makes me happy but he no longer wanted to be by my side, he did not want me to go to Peru = (he just told me I don't know what I want my mind has stopped and now I don't think about anything, only those phrases were the only thing he could say after so many plans and promises now I had to understand that he never loved me and that his life wants her without me, many If it is not that most of them are like that and they only play with one while they need a company when they find something else to do or a new girl then with their hand on their waist they leave you and they do not care about anything I have heard many stories where already Even living together they go and marry another if it can be culture and religion but I do not think that is a pretext to hurt us rather they are not people who know how to love, they only love themselves, it is ugly to say so because one gave them their love trust their life and they just leave without caring nothing. I just tell them let's get up and move on with our lives it's not easy that I know but let's think it's not worth one more tear because at the end of the day they are happy making their lives then why are we crying for someone who never loved us
Hello Luna, well before your comment is one of mine that I wrote, I hope you have read it, I have had two relationships with guys from there and I know others with whom I simply talk through the chat, believe me that most eye I say most but not all if they are used to lie, they know how to involve people if you realize the boy you know just every month looking for you may be a coincidence perhaps, but think why he does not look for you before now in this time of communications, excuse me but the one who does not have any type of phone I do not think so, if there are people who obviously are not very given to talking on the phone but we leave that to older people you say that he is 38 he is a young man now he just like you live in a country that is not theirs and if those from India have something, it is that the family is first of all their world much more than in other countries even than in Latin America, so they are always in contact with their family there, it is logical that if they have a telephone, even internal et to communicate that perhaps he does not work it is logical that they are very respectful of his work but at least he would have given you his work now I could tell you I am not married or with children and then you do not know if it is true or does not remember that one You believe what or hear what we want the mentality of many is to marry young have young wives to give good children if there are some who are that age and are not married but believe me that I know many on the internet who at 24 are already thinking about get married thing that Latinos be very careful do not focus on the boy that your mind does not worry about when you will see him again, look at the end his tactic is working and you are waiting for the next meeting so when he contacts you ask him again From his work more or less what places he knows in Canada or the direction where he invites you to go out, do not ask direct questions, many do not answer them, rather turn the question around and they usually answer that way, it is my opinion, hope or help you bye
A boy from India made me so excited that I feel lost so empty It turns out that we were living for almost three years and I have two children from my previous partner and I cannot have more children because I had surgery so my husband from India already he knew everything and so did his parents. And now after three years we lived until the last happy day until at night he told me that he could not marry me and that his mother said that he cannot marry me he lied to me so much I gave everything for him to leave my job to my former husband and now when he told me that I am so depressed so I do not believe in that type of person it will ever break my heart
Karla I am very sorry for your situation, you say that her family knew but what did she know? that you had children and that you couldn't have more? also you talked to his family or he told you that they knew your situation. from what I see they already lived together in now where is it?
Hi! I am very interested in this culture and I want to know a lot about it, since I met a Hindu boy about 4 months ago, they will say that it is absurd but I met him through an online game, one day he asked me for my FB and I agreed, then he told me that he liked me a lot, I just laughed, well after all he won my heart he is a very cute boy, and I am falling in love with him, the distance is very ugly, I really hate that, and he has told me that he is very difficult for him, that we are separated, but one day he will come to my country, I am from Mexico, but he promises to come for me, he even calls me on a cell phone often, sometimes I doubt his words, and how about if you are playing with me? How can I be sure that he will keep his words? He's even learning Spanish so he can talk to me, those details and a few more make me fall in love with him. And he has told me that he wants to marry me and take me with him. He's even told me that he's really in love with me. I'm 19 and 17 and maybe I'm being very immature giving my heart to someone I don't even know personally.
I would like to know what you think, and what advice you give me, I don't know what to do = /
Thank you!
Well if anyone knew Ravi Arora (Ravi Chitkara) from New Delhi, just stay away from him, he is a liar, like most Hindus ..
Lucky chikas fall in love with someone real and someone who shares the same culture, the only thing I can tell you is that the Indians are liars, I have nothing good to say about them.
Dear girls, the Hindu culture is beautiful and as everyone would like to know more about their traditions and the hidden meaning expressed through their hands in each dance, I love it, I would like to tell you that liars exist in all cultures of the world and even more in web pages and FB, remember caution is a good counselor, friends, and for those who have his love, congratulations and do not let go, fight for him, but if in the end it is not materialized, remember God knows why he does things, it is always for our good Even though we don't understand it at first, then everything clears up, kisses
Hello, this culture is so beautiful, I am only 16 years old and a Hindu proposed marriage is determined to travel to Argentina where I live to be with me, it is so sweet nunk I know someone so I do not know so different. The Hindus are so tender that I am afraid of hurting him, I know they will say that because of my age it is silly but I love their culture and it is Eskisita and I would not like that because of my age they judge saviduria
INDIA IS A COUNTRY SO BEAUTIFUL AS ITS CUSTOMS, ITS PEOPLE THEIR NATURE. I LIVE FAR AWAY BUT I WILL NEVER STOP ADMIRING IT. I AM CALLED MY ATTENTION. THE GIRLFRIENDS SO PRETTY, CONGRATULATIONS FOR HAVING A COUNTRY SO BEAUTIFUL CHAO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF
A few days ago I broke up with my boyfriend who is from India since he must return to his country to marry someone he does not love. It hurts me a lot to know that I will never see him again… but I am sure of something that face and that way of being I will never forget…. Hopefully in some future that ideology will be a little more flexible ...
Regards,
Lizz, I hope and wish with all my heart that your loved one comes to Mexico. I really hope that you are lucky and do not end up breaking your heart like the rest of us. A hug and good luck.
To the Spanish girl .. tell you that I was the same as you for 3 years. I Spanish and blonde haha, he Hindu pr living here for more than 10 years he considered himself half European. We loved each other very much, it was super nice, intense and we lived together for 6 months until one day he couldn't take it anymore and of course, he chose his family over me. Don't be fooled ... if the day comes when you have to choose EVERYONE or the vast majority will choose the family and will marry who their daddies choose. Most of them want to live and experiment with European or non-Indian girls and then end up with an Indian girl as their culture, tradition and family say. Lucky
Hello girls, who like Indian boys and are learning about the obstacles and advantages of being in a relationship with an Indian, I invite you to "I like a Hindu", which is a recently created support group for women Latinas who share a taste for Indian boys and their charms. We can share stories, raise concerns, and try to support each other and learn as a community. You are invited! Interested parties, please write to me love.indio@yahoo.com and tell me a little about his ties with his Hindu love; so that I can send an invitation. Have a good day!
Hello I have read almost all your comments, I married a Hindu in India, I lived there for several months and we came to Mexico, since I am Mexican, my parents attended the wedding and their parents accepted me very well…. Now after 7 years I think about getting a divorce, he became very rude to me, my reprimand wanted me to always be very covered, not to kiss my family, not to wear skirts, if I did not cook on time I would throw the food etc, and in The bed was good, it even forced me, we have a beautiful son, I have supported him to the utmost, however my love is over, I have tried a lot to continue but no matter how much I want, I can no longer love him…. I have been to psychological therapies and the best thing is that we separate…. I have met someone else and I fell in love…. Cultural differences do affect a lot, it requires a lot of interest so that it does not affect…. With respect to what Jordi says, it is true, I could not get used to living there, there is a lot of dirt, noise and paperwork, not even pure bribery. You have to give them money to even do their job…. Well at first everything was going well with him but it was the day to day and his attitude that ended my love for him ……. Now I will have the best of a wonderful experience and a beautiful son !!!!
Hello, thank you for your experience, I have a question ... he was cute, loving, chivalrous at first, or how was he? Thank you for sharing your life.
It is beautiful this culture I have a Hindu boyfriend it is wonderful I love you forever and I just have to love them and be very faithful but beautiful people is magical
India does not make me a country so different from mine, I know that they have their own celebrations and traditions, of course, but in the end we are human beings and we are all part of the same society and even if you do not believe it In Mexico there have been cases of girls who are forced to marry at an early age, even today many women in India do not wear the sari except in special events and that if they want, it is not mandatory,
I also have a relationship with an inndu, and it is very different from what one is used to, very tender affectionate and pending of mii, it comes in November !!
Hello, Suri, how nice, how do they take out or do the paperwork? I also like someone, but from Pskistan, that this border with India, tell me how he is doing the paperwork and how much is needed for him to come to Peru, so I hope to dream it costs nothing
How did you go?
Hello, I'm Claudia from Mexico, I met a boy from India online and he is the sweetest thing I have ever met in my life, he is honestly transparent and wants us to get married in Mexico, someone knows if the wedding procedures are difficult here in Mexico,
Hello Didier I know an Indhui and he has a relationship he is being unfaithful to his partner with another k do you think about that. Thanks .
Hello Alba I read your comment, I was very excited about an indu, it is as you describe it cute, tender, loving, sweet, kind, we only wrote to each other by whatsapp, it says that I am her best friend, that she likes me, that she dreams of me, who thinks of me, he asked me at first if I was married and I said no, well I am not, and I asked him the same thing, and he told me that he was single that he had no children, but suddenly I saw him distant that almost did not connect, and I asked him again if he was married and this time he said yes, I asked him why he had lied to me, he told me that he was sorry that he had a child, but he says that it does not matter that we continue being great friends, that he liked me a lot, and the truth is I was very excited about him and it hurt me to know that he was not honest with me at first, tell me what to do? why did he behave like this?
Hi, I'm Teresa and the whole culture of India fascinates me, her dance I loved it so much that I'm learning it and all this interest of mine was born by my Hindu friends who are super sweet and kind, I hope one day to know their beautiful country
Hello, you need to know why the Hindus say so easily I love you, I miss you a person they have just met and hereby, I am very ignorant in this sense can you please help me, I have made friends with a Hindu boy and he tells me k loves me, those words are not very usual for someone who just met a thousand thanks for your help
because they are dogs, they only do it to convince you, it seems they have a book, where they know what words to say to make you fall into their networks, you do not believe them .. who can fall in love in such a short time? ask yourself that question and you will find the answers
THIS HAPPENED TO ME A MAN FROM INDIA WHO FALLS IN LOVE HIS NAME RAJ SRIVASTAV DOES NOT BELIEVE THIS IN ALL THE APP. ABOUT LOVE HE SAYS TO HAVE BUSINESS AND FALLS IN LOVE EVERYONE SAYS I MISS U IM LOVE UI NEED YOU SWEET HEART LOVELY PRINCESS ETC… DON'T BELIEVE IT IS A LIAR GREETINGS…
Hello I am in love with a boy from India! He has promised to marry me in 4 years. I love him I don't want to wait so long ..! 🙁 his parents approved but my parents did not! 🙁
Saying that India is all peace and happiness seems to me to be just referring to someone who goes to a yoga center or isolates himself from reality in a temple. India is beautiful interesting of course; but it lasts socially. It lasts for women; it lasts for the majority of the population for being a country so punished throughout history
India is peace and happiness in tales for tourists or the wealthy. It is beautiful, interesting, but also cruel, tough, and a country that has always been crushed.
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Hello everybody,
I want to tell you my story.
I am Colombian and I study in the USA, here I met a man from India who began to woo me and as I felt very attracted to him, I began to go out with him, He always insisted on keeping our relationship a secret and that's how it has been. In fact I agreed initially because I did not want my partners to get into our relationship. We have been in a love relationship for several months and really the time we spend together is wonderful, we have a beautiful connection, both emotional and physical, He has told me that he loves me but to tell the truth I think he has no intention of going further. I know that at some point he will go and marry the woman that his family has. He has a lot to lose because he belongs to a high class family and deep down I know that he is not willing to sacrifice his family and comforts to be with me. a principle that I was not a woman to have something serious. I feel quite sad, I was quite confident because I thought they were more sincere than western men, but I was wrong. Now I must draw strength and cut this relationship to prevent it from continuing to hurt me.
hello well I would like to know everything about India because it is an interesting country
I would like to know everything.
I talked to an Indu boy but I don't understand him much haha he's cute and very kind. He told me to put a stone in my heart. What did he mean by that?? I do not understand. Maybe we just talk and he tells me that I am his distant love. I just want to know what that phrase means. Affanrehman is called.
Hello, the same thing is happening to me, I met a boy from India and if they are beautiful ... as I could read, he asks me the same thing if he has eaten, if I am fine, he always says good morning and good night ... he is always attentive, I have been almost a month with him and he asks me to tell us Jaanu: my life .... he tells me love darling and all the sweetest words that a man can say to you .... for the moment we never promised each other we just talked that he wants to get married at 30 no Before and if he does not find tomorrow for him there is no problem because he is happy talking to me ... and blah blah blah now I'm scared to think that he is just one more
Girls, do not be silly, I fell in love with a boy from India, a trip to that country is horrible and they are used to marrying without love and women are interested in finding a man with a car, home and a good job, I left him as a macho, I wanted to manage my life and He cried telling me that he loved me and after 5 months he married another please ignore them they do not feel love and if they like foreign women because beauty attracts them and especially if you are white and blonde because in this country you will never see a woman white and blonde and the truth for me are the ugliest women in the world take care and break up with them
Could it be that all men are the same? Like many of you, I met a Hindu boy and he expresses himself with great affection but there is something that does not convince me.
Put a stone in your heart that means that you can be with him, but do not fall in love. He told me something similar when we started that he had a heart of stone, I know that he went through a first long relationship and ended but he is alone and he says that he is happy but that a long time ago he had not seen a prettier smile, we met through things of destiny Many of the comments are things that he does with me and I doubt but it is that now he is showing more than a good deal, I know that ours is not possible so I tried to get away and he was also distant because I do not want to suffer but I only spend a few weeks and he told me that he did not want to lose myself and I did not really feel something so beautiful for a long time and I have nothing to lose and then life is one and I do know because at 23 I am a widowed girl and if my Hindu makes me happy I'm not going to think about so many things I only live now but that is, never give more than what they give you and if they put a stone in your heart because at least I think how much love you have to go to meet your family are still reli gions must be respected the same, it is so much what he has done for me that I do not think it is a game now what it is to break that stone of his heart and make him fall in love with each other every day.
Good morning, could someone tell me how you spell "We are lucky" in the culture of India? Greetings
I just met an Indian but he doesn't want to tell me why he wears a turban. The question always evades me. He says he wants to come to Mexico to meet me. What do you think?
Hello everyone, it has been so long after a message from one of you for my part I am Peruvian and I met a boy from India who is here for work, he was very excited with me, the first time I saw him he treated me like a queen (like no one else has treated me before) but now I feel like she's a bit domineering, she wants to know what I'm doing, why I'm not responding, where I am, etc. I do not know, I have been reading a lot about the men of this culture and I think they are very enamored and also macho.
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