Inyani yile yokuba bambalwa abantu abakhulelweyo kunye namandla omzimba wesini esinyanzelisiweyo ukutyhubela iinkulungwane. Kwaye iGrisi yakudala yayingenanto ngaphandle kuba apho abafazi babengenayo indima ebaluleke kakhulu kwaye amalungelo abo ayencitshisiwe. Babunjani ubomi bomfazi waseAthene, umzekelo?
Ukuba umfazi wayengoweklasi etyebileyo Ulawulwa kuqala ngutata kunye nabantakwabo abangamadoda emva koko, ukuba utshatile, ngumyeni wakhe. Umyeni wakhe weza kulawula iipropathi zakhe, ukuba wayenelifa, kwaye waphulukana namandla alo ngokuzenzekelayo. Khange ndikwazi ukuphuma ndedwa ndihambe ndisiya esixekweni ngaphandle kwesizathu esifanelekileyo kuba wonke umntu obhinqileyo ohloniphekileyo akazenzi ukuba abonwe esidlangalaleni. Ubomi babafazi babungaphakathi.
Abafazi baseGrisi yakudala babengenawo kwaphela amalungelo ezopolitiko kodwa into ababengenayo ngaphandle kweminyango babenayo ngaphakathi. Njengamadoda ayichitha kude, emasimini okanye kumadabi okanye kubomi bezopolitiko, abafazi babengabanikazi kunye namanenekazi asekhaya kwaye babelawula ubomi bemihla ngemihla. Ukuba ebengenakukwazi ukuyifumana, ebezakwenza iimpahla kwaye akhulise abantwana. Kodwa ubomi bakhe babukhululeke ngakumbi kwaye umsebenzi wawusenziwa ngamakhoboka.
Nangona kunjalo abafazi bafunda ukufunda nokubhala ekhaya, bahlala bethetha ngeentsapho ezinemali, kunye nemisebenzi yasekhaya efana pheka, ucoce, ujikeleze, njl Batshata beselula kakhulu, phakathi kweshumi elinambini kunye neshumi elinesithandathu, ngokungafaniyo namadoda aneminyaka yobudala bomtshato phakathi kweminyaka engama-16 ukuya kwengama-25. Y Imitshato yayiqhutywa ebusikangakumbi ngoJanuwari, inyanga uHera awongwa ngayo.
Ngaba wayekho umtshato? Ukuba kufunyenwe ukukrexeza kwabasetyhini, umyeni wayenokumdelela aze amgxothe, kodwa ukuba uyavuma ukuqhubeka nokuhlala naye, wayejongwa njengomtshato oqhawukelwe umtshato. Kwaye ukulungele.