Iingcebiso ezili-9 zokunxibelelana nabantu bendawo xa useluhambeni

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Ukuhamba kuthetha ukunqamla, ukwazi iindawo ezintsha kodwa nokuzintywila kwezinye iinkcubeko namasiko. Nxibelelana nabahlali xa useluhambeni Yinto enye eyongezelelekileyo kolu lonwabo lutsha kwaye ngenxa yeso sizathu kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ungahamba kanjani kwaye unxibelelane nabo, uziqhelanise nale ndawo intsha, kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke, ube nembeko.

Iintsuku ezimbalwa zokuziqhelanisa

Nangona kwindawo nganye entsha otyelele kuyo uya kudibana nabantu abathandekayo bendawo, ukuya kwixesha lokuqala lokuziqhelanisa kuya kuba yeyona nto icetyiswayo xa kusiziwa ekuthini sihanjiswe kwaye sidibane nendalo. Kungenxa yokuba ewe, nangona singathandi ukuyamkela, usuku lwakho lokuqala kwindawo entsha ufuna ukuphumla, ukuzola kunye nobubi xa kusiziwa kukukhohlisa amaqhinga abanye abaqhubi beeteksi okanye abahlali abakwaziyo ngokugqibeleleyo "indlela yokukhohlisa" abakhenkethi .

Ukuqwalaselwa kunye neefoto

Thatha imifanekiso yabantu bendawo xa sihamba Sele ingumkhwa wethu ukungasoloko siwenza ngendlela echanekileyo. Kuba, khawufane ucinge okomzuzwana ukuba nguwe umntu othatha umfanekiso ngelixa unekofu kumhlaba wokuhamba okanye uhamba elunxwemeni, ungathanda? Ukuthatha iifoto zabantu abohlukeneyo kuvunyelwe kwaye kunokuba sisizathu esifanelekileyo sokuzibophelela, kodwa kuqala zama ukusondela kwaye ucele imvume emntwini xa uthatha umfanekiso.

Ziqhelanise namasiko abo

E-India, umzekelo, ukuxhawulana kubonwa njengesiko lasentshona, ke abemi bayo bahlala bejoyina iintende zezandla zabo kwaye bazibeke kwinqanaba lesifuba bade bathi "Namaste." Ziqhelanise nenkcubeko yendawo entsha njengoko ixesha lihamba, nokuba wenze imibuliso, ubungqongqo, umthetho olandelwayo okanye amasiko ukuze uzive ungomnye kwaye uhloniphe okusingqongileyo.

Nxibelelana

Ukunxibelelana nabantu basekuhlaleni kwindawo entsha kuhlala kuyindlela elungileyo yokwazi inkcubeko yabo bhetele, ukungena kwihlabathi elitsha elingaphaya kwemiba engaphaya yalo naluphi na uhambo. Ukuba uhamba kwilizwe labakhenkethi, gcinani engqondweni ukuba abemi balo baya kusetyenziselwa ukubona abantu bamanye amazwe, ke sele unesizathu esivakalayo sokuthatha inyathelo. Kwimeko yam, kumazwe ahlukile kweli lethu njengeCuba okanye i-India, abantu bahlala benobubele, bandivulele iingcango kwaye abanangxaki ukuqala incoko.

Ubosoloko uncuma

Xa sisiya kwindawo entsha, siya kufikelwa ziindidi ezimbini zeendawo: abo bafuna ukunxibelelana nathi kunye nabanye abafuna ukubonelelwa. Kwimeko yesibini, kungcono ukunqwala kwaye uphendule ngokuthobekileyo "Andinamdla, enkosi," nditsho noncumo. Umntu uya kukuqonda kwaye akushiye wedwa ukuba uyenza ngesimilo esihle.

Umbuzo

Ukuba ubukwisixeko esitsha iintsuku ezimbalwa kwaye ungazi ukuba ungaya njani kwindawo ye-X okanye apho ungatya khona, buza abahlali, baya kuhlala besazi ukuba zeziphi iindawo ezilungileyo kwaye ikwimeko elungileyo yokumisela ubudlelwane kunye nabo. Mhlawumbi umntu uza kukuxelela into engalunganga, abanye abayi kukuhoya kwaye abambalwa bazakuzama ukwenza inzuzo kodwa ngokubanzi abahlali bavulelekile kubakhenkethi kwaye baya kuphendula ngendlela ethobekileyo nefudumeleyo.

Qesha umqhubi wendawo

Ngexesha le hamba ujikeleza amazwe aseAfrika, eCaribbean okanye eAsiaEnye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokwazi inkcubeko yendawo entsha evela kwingcali ilele kukhetho lokuqesha umqhubi wetekisi imini yonke. Ngoba? Kuba ukongeza ekwazini iindawo ezingabonakali kwizikhokelo zohambo, uya kuba nakho ukwenza uqhakamshelwano nomntu oqheleke ngakumbi kwilizwe lezokhenketho kwaye ngubani oza kukuthatha naphina anokukuchukumisa. Ewe, angakusa kwakhona kwindawo yokuthenga isaris okanye izinto zodongwe ukuze ufumane ikhomishini, kodwa ngesiqhelo oku sele kukuxelela xa ungena eteksini.

Thatha inxaxheba kwivolontiya

Ukuba uhambela ilizwe elitsha ngenjongo zokuntywila kwiingxaki zalo kwaye uzama ukwenza isuntswana lakho, ivolontiya lelona khetho lilungileyo. Ngapha koko, kunokuba kungafuneki ukuba ubhukishe okanye ucele ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiprojekthi ngaphambi kokuba uhambe, kuba kuya kuhlala kukho imibutho onokufikelela kuyo ukucela ulwazi wakube ufikile kwindawo ekuyiwa kuyo. Amavolontiya kwelinye ilizwe Kuthetha ukuba uyazi into eyinyani kude neelwandle kunye neendawo ekuchithelwa kuzo iiholide, ukusebenzisana kwaye, ngakumbi, ukudibana nabantu basekhaya nabangaphandle ngeenjongo ezintle.

Ukudityaniswa kwendalo

Ukuba uza kutyelela ilizwe elahlukileyo, umzekelo u-Bali, kwaye uthathe isigqibo sokuhambahamba kuzo zonke iindawo ezinxibe i-iPad yakho, iCartier yakho kunye neempahla ezibizayo, awuzukutsala umdla wabakhethi, kodwa uya kuba uphawula into engabonakaliyo isithintelo phakathi kwakho nabantu basekuhlaleni bendawo entsha. Ayizukunyanzeleka ukuba unxibe i-dhoti yase-Indiya ukuziqhelanisa nokusingqongileyo kodwa zama ukunxiba ngendlela elula, ukhuphela kancinci iimpahla zalapho njengendlela yokungaqapheleki kwaye unganyusi ikhethe phakathi kwabantu basekuhlaleni.

Ezi Iingcebiso ezili-9 zokunxibelelana nabantu bendawo Xa uhamba, ziya kuba luncedo olukhulu kuwe xa kufikwa ekuziqhelaniseni nendawo entsha, ukwazi abantu bayo kodwa, ngakumbi, ukuhamba macala onke.

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