Umahluko umahluko, ukufana okanye iziphene Kuyinto eyothusayo kodwa inobuntu kangangokuba akunakwenzeka ukuba ubaleke. Nawuphi na umhambi ohamba eMelika uya kugqiba ukuthetha malunga nabantu baseChile, baseArgentina, baseCuba okanye baseMelika.
Kwenzeka into efanayo xa umntu ehamba eYurophu naxa etyelele iAsia. IJografi kunye nembali yomhlaba ngamnye zimisela ubuqhetseba babantu bayo, ke xa ucinga ngamandla anje I-China ne Japan Siyazibuza Yintoni umahluko phakathi kwamantombazana amaTshayina namaJapan?
I-China ne Japan
I-China ayililo ilizwe elandisayo. Khange ibe yintsimbi ngokukodwa. Ngaba ucinga ngeTibet? Ewe, kodwa yayiyinxalenye yommandla wabo kwakude kudala ngaphambi kokungena kweYurophu ke kukho ingxoxo ende apho.
Into endiyithethayo kukuba abantu baseTshayina ngabantu abajonga inkaba, oko kukuthi. Khange ubenomdla kwilizwe langaphandle kwaye unxibelelwano lwabo belungena manqaphanqapha, linomdla, kwaye bahlala benyanzeliswa ngamagunya angenakuphumla e-Old Europe.
Ndihlala ndicinga ukuba uMarco Polo kunye nabahambi baseYurophu balandelayo kufanele ukuba baziva okanye bacinga xa bekhubeka kubuhle kunye nesimbo senkundla yasebukhosini yase-China. Enjani yona ukumangalisa! Phantse njengokuya kwenye iplanethi.
IJapan, ngokuchaseneyo, Njengomntu okhukhumeleyo, uhlala ebeka amehlo akhe kwiilwandle zakhe kwaye wayefuna ukuya ngaphaya kwazo. Ngabantu abangamagorha, nangona namhlanje ezolile, kwaye ukutyhubela imbali uhleli kwaye woyisile ngaphezulu kwesihlandlo esinye iKorea kwaye yathimba ubukumkani obathi ekugqibeleni baba yiOkinawa yaseJapan.
Inkcubeko yamaTshayina indala kwaye ityebile kangangokuba iphele inefuthe kwaye ibumbe iinkcubeko zabamelwane bayo. Bonke bakope kuye kwaye yiyo loo nto Los kanji AmaJapan ziingcinga zamaTshayina, ukunika nje umzekelo.
Abafazi baseTshayina
Njengoko benditshilo ngaphambili, ijografi kunye nembali zibumba abantu. Abafazi baseTshayina babubonile ubomi babo buguquka ukutyhubela iinkulungwane kodwa ngokusisiseko bafumana olona tshintsho lukhulu nolona luhle Kwiminyaka yokugqibela yoBukhosi I-Qing, Imfazwe yamakhaya kwaye xa amaKomanisi ephumelele kwaye kwasekwa iRiphabhlikhi Yabantu base China.
Ngaphandle kwako konke oku, umtshato kunye nokuzala kuhlala kuyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi babafazi. Ukucwangciswa kwemitshato yayingumgaqo ngaphambi kwenguquko kwaye bekunjalo ukusuka kumthetho wowe-1950 urhulumente azama ukuguqula ukuthotyelwa kwabasetyhini ukuthintela amashweshwe, isithembu kunye nesithembu, umzekelo.
Emva koko kwafika Kuphela nguMthetho waBantwana, kwiminyaka engama-70. Ewe bekukho, bekukho kwaye kuyakubakho iyantlukwano phakathi kweelali kunye nezixeko.
Namhlanje, isandla kunye nombono «Ilizwe elinye, iinkqubo ezimbini«, Abafazi baseTshayina abahlala ezixekweni bafana kakhulu nabafazi baseNtshona Yima nzu khange bakwazi ukubaleka kwigunya losapho labantwana kunye nosapho Kwaye bajongane nale misebenzi mibini njengabanye abafazi beplanethi kwilizwe loosolusapho.
Imeko yabafazi eJapan khange yahluke kakhulu. Abafazi baseJapan bathotyelwe kulawulo lwabazali ubomi babo bonke. Kwaye ukuba wayengekho utata, lo mzalwana. Imitshato ehleliweyo yayiqhelekile kwaye imeko, njengase China, itshintshe nje kwinkulungwane yama-XNUMX ngakumbi ngakumbi ekuthinjweni kweMelika emva kweMfazwe yesibini.
Kodwa nangona iJapan ililizwe eliphuhlileyo, apha abafazi bayaqhubeka nokubiza imali encinci kunamadoda kwimisebenzi efanayo. Nangona umthetho womntwana omnye ungabasindi, iindleko zokuxhasa abantwana ziphezulu kakhulu kangangokuba banomntwana omnye okanye ababini kwaye iintsuku zomsebenzi zeeyure ezisibhozo zandiswa ngokulula ukuya kwishumi okanye kwishumi elinambini.
Indoda yaseJapan ikulindele ukuthozama kubafazi bayo, ukuba neentloni, imbeko kwaye ikhathalele iindima zasekhaya. Izizukulwana ezincinci azikulandeli ngokungqongqo kodwa yinto esabonwayo nangoku.
Andingekhe nditsho ukuba amantombazana aseJapan ziigeishas zizonke, ngumfanekiso waseNtshona, kodwa ngaphakathi kweengcango kunye nohlalutyo lwentlalo apha kwenzeka into efanayo njengakwilizwe liphela. Sivela kude, mantombazana, kodwa kusekho ...
Umahluko phakathi kwamantombazana amaTshayina namaJapan
Okokuqala, kufuneka icaciswe ukuba olu luhlu alujoliswanga ukukhubekisa nabani na. Zizinto eziqhelekileyo kuba kunzima ukuthetha ngoluntu ngaphandle kokuba ulilungu lalo. Le mibuzo esiza kuthetha ngayo ngoku Zisekwe kuqwalaselo lobuqu, amagqabantshintshi, iinkolelo, izimvo zamaTshayina, amaJapan nabaphambukeli. Ke nceda ungacaphuki.
Indawo elungileyo yokuqalisa okanye ilitye lokuchukumisa lokwenza uluhlu lomahluko kunye nokufana yimbali yezopolitiko: Inguquko yaseTshayina inefuthe elikhulu kwindima yabafazi baseTshayina ekuhlaleni. Ngokomthetho, bahlala kumzuzu omnye ukuya kwinqanaba elinye njengamadoda kwaye oko kwakubaluleke kakhulu.
Kwelinye icala, iJapan ikhawuleze yatshintsha yangamandla emizi-mveliso ngokunjalo ukuba abafazi baseJapan bazi amashumi eminyaka ukuba bahlala kwelinye lawona magunya makhulu aseAsia. Ngaphandle banobubele, bathule kwaye baba neentloni ngandlela ithile, kodwa kwanele ukuba baphile nje kancinci kweli lizwe ukuze bafumane oonondaba, abezopolitiko, amagcisa kunye nabasetyhini abasebenza ezitalatweni, abangathethiyo kwaphela.
Amantombazana aseJapan ahlala etshata amakhwenkwe akwiminyaka yaboUkuphela kweyunivesithi, kwaye bekunye baqala ubomi bomsebenzi, benabantwana abambalwa kunye nomzamo omkhulu. Iqabane libalulekile kwaye kunjalo nangomsebenzi. Nangona kukho imitshato exubileyo, ayisiyonto ixhaphakileyo. Abaphambukeli banokuba nomdla kodwa kunqabile ukuba bakhethe umntu oza kutshata naye.
E-China, okwahlukileyo kuyinyani. Baninzi abathi Ukuba umfazi waseTshayina unakho ukutshata nomntu wasemzini, yinto anokuyisebenzisa. Banobudlelwane obusondeleyo nabazala babo kunye Oomamazala bayaqhubeka nokuthwala ubunzima obungafunekiyo emtshatweni.
Kule mihla, kuninzi ukuthenga abathengi, akukho zimbalwa iindaba eziveza oko ngakumbi nangakumbi amantombazana amaTshayina akhetha ukutshata amadoda amadala nezityebi, kunokuba ngokulinganayo nabantu abakwiminyaka yakhe. Ukunyanzelwa kwabazali bakhe emalini nakukhuseleko lwezezimali lomelele.
Apha ndenza umbono ngokobuqu kuba ndinomhlobo waseTshayina: udade watshata ingcali ye-elektroniki kwaye babengamthandi konke konke kuba wayengenayo kwaye engenamali ngokwaneleyo. Omnye udade watshata umphathi wenkampani waseMelika kwaye khange babeke kodwa. Nantoni na abayithethayo, imali yoku amaTshayina banomdla kakhulu.
Umahluko esinokuwufumana emva koko phakathi kwamantombazana amaTshayina namaJapan? Ndiyakumema ukuba uhleke kwaye ucinge kunye:
- Abasetyhini baseTshayina babathiya oomazala wabo ngelixa amantombazana aseJapan ebajonga njengoomama babo besibini
- Abafazi baseTshayina baqhelekile ebhedini ngelixa abaseJapan besasebenza.
- Abasetyhini baseTshayina bakhonkotha abayeni babo xa befika ekhaya emva kwexesha ngelixa amantombazana aseJapan eqonda ngakumbi, nangona ngamanye amaxesha angaveli emsebenzini kodwa evela kwindawo yokuphelisa uxinzelelo lomsebenzi.
- Abasetyhini baseTshayina bayamkela kwaye bafune ukutshata nabantu bamanye amazwe ngelixa amantombazana aseJapan eza kuyithatha njengehlazo.
- Abafazi abancinci baseTshayina bakhetha amadoda amadala, asele emile kwaye esisityebi, ukuba atshate. Amantombazana aseJapan ahlala edibana nomntu olingana nabo.
- Oomama baseJapan bafundisa iintombi zabo ukuba zifumane umyeni kwaye banxibelelane kakuhle nabazala.
- Abafazi baseJapan banokuyinyamezela indoda ngaphandle kwemali kodwa abajongani kakuhle namagwala okanye ababuthathaka. AmaTshayina abuyela umva.
- Abafazi baseJapan bathambekele ekubeni babe nemfesane kukungathembeki kwamaqabane abo ngelixa abamaTshayina bethantamisa kakhulu nakwezabo. Ngapha koko, e-China imicimbi yokutshata kwabasetyhini yinto nje yosuku.
Ukugqiba kufuneka kuthiwe bobabini abasetyhini bangabalwi, Bayayazi indlela yokunceda iintsapho zabo kwaye ngokwembali bahlala ixesha elinzima, lemfazwe nendlala. Bawabonile amadoda abo ephuma eyokulwa kwaye engabuyi okanye ebuya elahlekile, baye baphuma ngokwabo ukuya kusebenza iiyure ezinde kwaye nanamhlanje, njengoko kusenzeka kubo bonke abantu basetyhini emhlabeni, abawuqondi umsebenzi ophindwe kabini obandakanya ukuba nosapho kunye nomsebenzi.
Esi sithuba sibuxoki obupheleleyo, impudence kunye nokusilela okukhulu kwembeko.
Ukuba uneminwe emibini ngaphambili, uya kuyisusa kwangoko.
Kuphela ngabo bangayazi iChina kunye namaTshayina abanokuphikisana nobubhanxa.
Ngokukodwa, abo sinabo
Ukonwaba ekwabelaneni ngobomi bethu nomfazi waseTshayina okanye waseTaiwan esibaziyo ngobuxoki obupheleleyo bezi zihloko zingenabulungisa.
Awenzi ntando incinci kwibhlog yakho ngokuyivumela ukuba ipapashwe.
Molo, ithowuni yesithuba ayicaphukisi. Uluhlu belujikeleza kwiwebhusayithi yaseTshayina ixesha elide kwaye luyahlekisa, akukho nto imbi. Izinto ezinje ngoku zikhona kwihlabathi liphela kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo zihlala zibubuxoki kunokuba ziyinyani, kodwa ayisiyiyo le nto umntu eyeka ukuhlekisa ngayo. Ndiyakuvuyela iqabane lakho elonwabileyo.
Ndiyavumelana neBlog, bendihlala e-China iminyaka eyi-3 kwaye uninzi lwazo lunjalo !!! Ukuba utshatele kumfazi waseTaiwan, musa ukumthenga kunye nabafazi baseTshayina kwiRiphabliki yaBantu, uya kuziva ekhubekile kwaye enesizathu esihle!
Kuyinyani njengoko ibubuxoki, bendinabafazi ababini baseTshayina ke ndiyazi, yonke into ayithethileyo iyinyani, kuphela ukuba ayingabo bonke abanjalo, kwimeko yam bobabini babetshatile kwaye babenokuthetha nomyeni ngelixa Babenobudlelwane kunye nam, ke into yokungathembeki iyinyani ngokupheleleyo, kodwa nangona kunjalo andikholwa ukuba bonke banjalo kwaye uninzi lwabo lukhona.
Molo, ndise China kwaye ndingakuxelela ukuba kum uninzi lwazo, ukuba zinjalo, ziyikhathalele kuphela imali ndinabahlobo abakhe batya isidlo sangokuhlwa kunye namaqabane abo kwaye balahlekile ngenxa yabo Iphehlelelwe kwaye ukuba amadoda angabaphambukeli uffff afana nomculo weendlebe zakho, ekuphela kwento esinokuyenza kukukhathalela ubudlelwane bethu.
Ukuba iJapan ibinkulu kakhulu, isiqingatha sabantu siya kuhlala apho, akunjalo? kubonakala kum
hahaha loo nto ihlekisayo ngenxa yokuqhula nabantu ilungile. Ukuba yingxelo enzulu ngokuqinisekileyo yokuba yonke into ibubuxoki.
AmaTshayina kunye namaKorea acalucalucalulo ngakumbi kunamaJapan, kulula kakhulu ukubona umJapan etshate nomntu wasemzini kunoTshayina okanye umKorea, inkcubeko yaseJapan ivuleke ngakumbi, ndiyazi kuba bendinentombi yaseKorea Ndifunda isiJapan, yiyo loo nto ndinxibelelana nabo kakhulu kwaye kunyaka ophelileyo bendiseTokyo inyanga.
Kwaye i-turkey ebhale le ngxelo yobudenge, ngaba yiSpanish, okanye yinto ebilayo? Inye kuphela into endiyaziyo kukuba, kwilizwe lam, abacimi mlilo baseSpain banomona kakhulu ngabafazi baseAsia, babonakala ngathi bayafa ngenxa wayehamba nomnye, kwaye xa ndikunye nentombi yam yakwiiPhilippines, abanye abafazi baseSpain babonakala ngathi batyhafa.
ELI NQAKU LIZIQHAMO ZOMONA, IBlog YAM ILUNGELE KAKHULU KUNOKUBA, KANGENZEKA NDIYAZI ENDIKUBHALAYO.
Ndivuma ngokupheleleyo kule bhlog, ndinabahlobo baseTshayina, baseJapan nabaseKorea. Ngokubanzi, abafazi baseJapan nabaseKorea babaluleke kakhulu kwaye bathembekile, kodwa abafazi baseTshayina zezinye izinto, banomdla kumadoda aphesheya kodwa ngaphezulu kwayo yonke imali yabo.
Kum abona baphumeleleyo ngamaKorea zezona zibalaseleyo, ukuhlonipha amaTshayina namaJapan, nditshatele komnye wabo mhle kwaye uyandixhasa.
Kubonakala ngathi omnye umfazi waseTshayina wenze into kuye, njengokuthatha isoka, okanye into embi ... kuba ibonisa ityhefu kubantu baseTshayina. Ukuthathela ingqalelo ukuba abafazi baseJapan nabo baneziphene ezininzi (ohh isimanga !!… phantse wonke umntu) ,. Ukunyaniseka, abantu baseAsia ngokubanzi babonakala bengenamsebenzi kwiimilo zabo ezintle, kubonakala ngathi yonke into yenzelwe amantombazana amancinci aphakathi kweminyaka eli-15 nengama-25 ubudala. Kungenxa yoko, ukuba abafazi baphela njani ... ndicinga ukuba yiyo loo nto bethatha inkathazo enkulu ekujongeni nasekuziphatheni njengamantombazana, nangona bengekho ixesha elide. Ngapha koko, kukho abantu basetyhini abaneminyaka kwi-tow abazama ukubonakala njengamantombazana amancinci angama-20.
Baninzi ubulumko kwezi dolophu, kodwa ubuninzi bobugwenxa nabo…. njengakubo bonke.
Khange ndiyikholelwe xa ndibona ukuba le ibhalwe ngumfazi ... Ngokwesiqhelo oqhubela phambili kwaye ukhupha inyongo emlonyeni wakhe kwindawo yokuqala. Ukuba ekugqibeleni uyakuba nesakhiwo esentshona nayo yonke into, hahaha. Ukuphendula uluvo lokuqala olonileyo (ngesizathu esivakalayo) esithi ayisiyiqhulo esinyanyekayo ... Kuyanyanyeka, yeyiphi into embi abayenzayo abanye abafazi kuni. Emva koko ukulwa ukuze bangakuphathi njengeziqwenga zenyama. La magqabantshintshi ngekhe apapashwe, ukuba nje akhonza umbhali ngembonakalo encinci akwanele kum. Atte: Imachirulo.
?? Ewe, kubonisa ukuba ukwicala lamaJapan. Uqeqesho? Imfuza elungileyo? ??. Ewe iphila ixesha elide eJapan !!! Liphila ixesha elide ilizwe elibhengeza imfazwe kwamanye amazwe !!! Liphila ilizwe apho kungafezekiswa amalungelo amaninzi oluntu! Phila elona lizwe libalaseleyo elinoluntu olulungileyo, apho ukunceda abanye kunqabile (anditsho ukuba ayenzeki, kodwa mayenziwe…) !!! Phila ixesha elide iinkcazo zakho kunye neengxoxo malunga namaJapan!
Umbuzo omnye, uza kuyityelela nini iJapan, okanye sele uyenzile? Kungenxa yokuba baya kukuamkela okokuqala ngqa ngamazwi amakhulu owabanikezela kubo. Imfuza elungileyo, ngoqeqesho olukhulu kunye nemvakalelo yokunceda abanye ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo… HA! Awukholwanga nakuwe. Mfana, andazi ukuba kwi-intanethi ulufumene phi olo hlobo lwedatha okanye ukuba uzifunde kweziphi iincwadi. Ukuba unako, ndiphendule ukuba ndizifundile (kwaye ayisiyiqhulo le, kuba ndiza kuzifunda ukuba undixelele, ewe, ngaphandle kokuqhula) kwaye siza kubona ukuba uluvo lwamaJapan lutshintshile na.
Uyazi? Ndifikile kwisigqibo sokuba emhlabeni baninzi abantu abakhusela amaJapan kodwa phantse bangaze babe ngamaTshayina. Bathetha kakubi ngabafazi baseTshayina, kodwa ngamaKorea, amaTaiwan, njl.njl, abanangxaki (abaphantse bathethwe kakubi). Abafazi baseJapan ngoomama abalungileyo, oomama abalungileyo… kodwa abafazi baseTshayina ababi. Wonke umntu ngumntu, kwaye wonke umntu unokuba ulungile okanye ungalunganga, kodwa phakathi kweTshayina neJapan kukho umahluko kodwa kwinqanaba losapho, umahluko awukho kangako.
Hayi! Khange uthethe nto ngeempendulo okanye uphendule, kodwa hayi kuba usitsho njalo ndiza kwenza njalo. Ukuba izimvo zakho azinasihlahla, akufuneki ndithule kwaye ndingakhuseli oko ndikucingayo. Kukho umthetho okhusela inkululeko yokuthetha kunye nomnye umthetho okhusela unyamezelo kubantu abohlukeneyo.
Molo Miguel, iqabane lam liJapanese… kwaye ewe, yeyona nto intle yenzekileyo kum ebomini bam ………. Inkcazo iyavumelana nembono yam ngentombazana yam …… ewe… zilunge kakhulu!
Uphambene. Yayiyiposi yolawulo ngokubanzi ngaphandle kokubaluleka. Sala kakuhle.
UJose Juan Majete, iminyaka esi-7 idlulile emva kweposti yakho, ndicinga ukuba uyakube uyiqondile indlela umfazi wakho wase-China azibeke ngayo kunye ne-butanero kwaye wayibeka ngasemva nangaphambili nayo yonke indawo ohlala kuyo kwaye nomhlobo wakho osenyongweni ubeke yena ejonge eMecca.
Ke ukuba ufumene ubukrelekrele kancinci ndicinga ukuba sele uqhawule umtshato.
Kwaye kwiposti yakho elandelayo uyazi kancinci malunga nale nto sithetha ngayo.
Ukubulisa
Andivumelani nendima yesini, yinto eyadlulayo, ndingumntu waseJapan kwaye ndonwabile kwaye umyeni wam uyandithanda.
Kubo bonke ubomi bam bendikhangela intombi evela kwilizwe laseAsia, ukuza kuthi ga ngoku andiphumelelanga. Kanye xa ndibabona ndothuswa, ndibathanda kakhulu andazi kutheni. Ndiyathanda kakhulu ukuva ilizwi lomfazi waseTshayina, nokuba andimqondi, ndiyayithanda yonke into ngabo. Ndiyabathanda.