Ngokuvamile, angithandi imibhoshongo ngoba bengilokhu ngiyisivakashi esizimele kepha ngiyabona ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi kulula ukuqasha abanye. Ikakhulukazi uma unesikhathi esincane kakhulu futhi kufanele usisebenzise ngokugcwele.
Ukuvakasha kwedolobha kukuvumela ukuthi usondele emlandweni wezingosi ozivakashelayo ngendlela esheshayo, ejabulisayo necacile, futhi okungakuhle kube ukuhlanganisa lolu hambo nokuvakasha okuzimele. Kepha ake sibone ifayela le- izinzuzo kanye nokubi: Phakathi kwezinto ezisizuzisayo sineqiniso lokuthi singavakashela izindawo eziyinhloko zabavakashi ngaphandle kwesikhathi sokubhoreka futhi ngendlela ehlelekile, yize ishesha. Ngaphezu kwalokho, imininingwane yomlando enikezwe umhlahlandlela ihlale ibalulekile nama-anecdotes futhi. Futhi-ke, kuyindlela enhle yokuhlangana nabantu.
Futhi i- ukungalungi? Ngokuvamile, phakathi kwesiza nesayithi, ukumiswa kwalabo ongazizwa uthanda ukukwenza kuhlala kukhangiswa. Lokhu kuvame ukuthenga futhi amanani entengo awashibhile, ngaphezu kokuzwa ukuthi uchitha isikhathi sakho. Futhi ekugcineni, awukwazi ukubambezeleka noma ukulahleka ngokuzindla ngoba iqembu alilindi futhi uma kwenzeka isidlo sasemini, ingxenye yosuku nengxenye yohambo, imvamisa kuyinhlanganisela exakile yesisu saseChina nesaseNtshonalanga ngakho-ke kufanele ulethe ukudla okulula okwe-akhawunti yakho.