Hlela iholide yosapho, ayisoloko ilula. Ngenxa yokuba bathanda izinto ezahlukeneyo kwaye kufuneka sizame ukwenza wonke umntu aneliseke. Le yimihla yokuphumla kwaye asifuni ukuba kubekho iingxaki. Ngenxa yoko, kungcono ukulandela uthotho lwamanyathelo okanye iingcebiso kwaye uphumelele.
Ukuba uhlala uneentloko ezininzi xa uzama ukuhlela iholide yosapho, ukusukela ngoku ngekhe uphinde ube nazingxaki. Kuba zihlala zikhona izisombululo ezisebenzayo Yintoni ekufuneka siyithathele ingqalelo. Iintsuku zokuzonwabisa ziyeza kwaye sonke sifuna ukuzonwabela. Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ukuba kanjani?
Isigqibo sendawo ekuyiwa kuyo sithathwa kunye xa kusenziwa amalungiselelo eeholide zosapho
Kuyinyani ukuba ngabazali abagqiba ukuba yeyiphi indawo esihlala kuyo nyaka ngamnye. Kodwa ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, kuya kuhlala kulunge ngakumbi ukulungiselela iholide yosapho, ukuba siyenza ngendlela yedemokhrasi. Kulula kakhulu kwaye usebenzisa imidlalo ethile. Elinye ixesha ngaphambi kokuba siye ekucwangciseni, kungcono thetha ngokuphandle. Ngokukodwa xa sele sinabantwana abakwishumi elivisayo. Babuze ukuba loluphi ukhetho abanokuthanda uninzi lwezinto ocinga ngazo. Ngale ndlela, siza kube sibabandakanya ukusuka kumzuzu wokuqala kwaye isihloko sokuhamba asisayi kuba 'nzima' kubo.
Ngabantwana abancinci, uhlala unakho yenza umdlalo ngendlela yokuvota okanye ngokubabonisa imifanekiso yendawo ekuyiwa kuyo nokukhetha eyona bayithandayo. Ke, wonke umntu uya kuba nombono wokuqala apho baya kuchitha khona iintsuku ezimbalwa zokucinywa. Nangona ekuqaleni sicinga ukuba ayisetyenzisi kakhulu, kuyinyani ukuba olu hlobo lwemidlalo okanye imibuzo inokusisindisa kumathandabuzo amaninzi. Kuya kufuneka ubhale phantsi izimvo zomntu ngamnye kubo, kuba zinokuthathelwa ingqalelo kwaye zenze uhambo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo ezithandwa ngumntu wonke.
Soloko useta uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali
Nje ukuba sicace gca malunga nezinto ezithandwa lilungu ngalinye, kufuneka setha uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali. Ke, siya kususa iindawo ezininzi ezinokuba zijikeleze. Kuhlala kukulungele ukucwangcisa kwangaphambili. Ke, sinokujongana nohlobo oluthile lokunyusa okanye izaphulelo. Khumbula ukuba kuhlala kukhetha ukushiya ixesha eliphezulu ngasemva kwaye ukuba sinako, yiya kwezinye iinyanga apho amaxabiso afikelelekayo. Xa sihamba silusapho luphela, ngokuqinisekileyo isitudiyo okanye indlu enekhitshi iya kubiza ixabiso eliphantsi kunamagumbi ehotele. Ke ngoko, kungekudala xa siqala ukukhangela, ngokuqinisekileyo siya kufumana ezinye iindlela.
Misela uhambo lwayo yonke intsapho
Sinqwenela ukutyelela iimyuziyam okanye izikhumbuzo kwaye sifunde onke amabali abo, kodwa eyona incinci yendlu, hayi. Ngenxa yoko, kufuneka setha uhambo oluyahambelana nawo onke amalungu osapho. Elinye lamanqaku aphambili xa uququzelela iholide yosapho. Ingasibiza ngaphezulu ekuqaleni, kodwa ukuba sigcina yonke into icwangciswe kakuhle, iya kuhamba kakuhle. Ke ngoko, kuya kufuneka usete uhlobo lweshedyuli. Kuyinyani, sikwiholide kwaye akufuneki ukuba siyithobele ileta. Kodwa kufuneka libekhona ixesha lokwenza olo tyelelo ebesikade simakisha, kodwa kunye nokuzonwabisa, imidlalo okanye ukukhululeka ngakumbi. Imva kwemini yasimahla epakini yamanzi okanye ezivenkileni kwaye ungcamla ukutya okuluncuthu kwendawo ekuyiwa kuyo, inokuhlala ikhetho oluthandayo. Nje ukuba uyazi indawo okanye iindawo oza kundwendwela kuzo, kuya kuba lula ukuseka uhambo oluhlengahlengisiweyo losapho.
Jonga amaxwebhu owadingayo
Kuyinyani ukuba indawo ekuyiwa kuyo kunye nemisebenzi ekuyo ibalulekile kwikhefu elifanelekileyo. Kodwa ukongeza, kufuneka sithwale konke amaphepha ngokulandelelana, ipaspoti okanye i-ID kwilungu ngalinye losapho. Ukongeza amakhadi ezempilo, kuba ngekhe sazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni. Nangona lelinye lamanyathelo esinawo engqondweni, ayikhathazi ukuyikhumbula ukuthintela ezo mpazamo zomzuzu wokugqibela.
Zeziphi iindawo onokukhetha kuzo?
Kucacile ukuba eyona incinci kule ndlu iza kukhetha iipaki zamanzi okanye iihotele ezinamachibi okudada. Kuba ngale ndlela, baya kuchitha imini yonke bedlala. Unokukhetha zombini ulwandle kunye neendawo zeentaba, kuba kuzo zombini iindlela kuhlala kukho izinto ekufuneka zenziwe, kokubini kubantu abadala nakubantwana. Khumbula ukuba ngelixa abantwana bekwindawo yokudlala yehotele okanye echibini lehotele, abazali banokuhlala bephumla ngecocktail ebharini. Ukongeza, kwiindawo ezininzi banabantu abavela ehotele uqobo abo bajongana nemisebenzi nabo, ke akusayi kubakho mfuneko yokuba sihlale silindile. Yindlela yabantu abadala ukuba bazole kwaye baphumle! Ngenxa yoko, iindawo ezinje ngezi zibonelela ngokonwaba ngakumbi kunasehotele kumbindi wesixeko ekunokuthi kungabikho ndlela zininzi unokukhetha kuzo.
Soloko ucinga ngokhuseleko lwakho
Xa sisiya kwindawo esingaziyo kwaye ikwisinye isiqingatha sehlabathi, kufuneka senze uphando oluncinci. Ngokukodwa kwiikliniki okanye apho siza kufumana khona oogqirha abagqwesileyo. Awunokwazi!. Kufuneka uhambe kunye nemigqaliselo yonyango kwaye ufumane indawo apho ungathenga khona ezintsha, ukuba kuyimfuneko. Ukongeza, xa sele ulapho, unokuseka amanqaku athile xa umntu enokuphazamiseka. Nangona siza kubazi abantwana bethu, ayikhathazi into yokuba bephethe amagama abo kunye neenombolo zomnxeba.