There are children who marry although they do not know exactly what they will have to face in the future, the responsibilities, obligations and everything that this union entails. Yes, In India, there are children who marry without knowing it, without explaining it, only by order of their parents. Although Indian law prohibits the union of children, in the most remote areas it is common to attend these festivities already agreed between the families previously. The reasons are varied, ranging from the protection of children so that they do not fall into prostitution, as well as due to economic needs.
Getting married is not a privilege required exclusively for love in IndiaNot even for adults, in a prohibitive society, where kisses in the street are frowned upon as well as displays of affection between couples. Women are the hardest hit, in no case do they have the power to choose their lifelong partners, except for exceptions, since their parents are the ones who choose the best candidate, who are presented through newspaper advertisements and now, thanks to technology, through the internet.
Another reason for The complexity of the choice of couples to join also lies in the social position, that is, the castesAs well as religion, in a country where 80 profess the Hindu religion, it is very difficult for him to unite with someone of another religion. All this has motivated the rebellion of many young people who have not wanted to accept the custom of accepting to marry under the imposition of families, something that in the West seems very logical, but that in India implies a lack of respect for tradition and sometimes death of lovers.
All the weddings in india They are a tradition and those who do not marry are seen very badly. From an early age, families worry about finding a partner for their children. These marriages often generate the unhappiness of one of the parties or perhaps both, the free choice of the couple is gaining strength in the most powerful castes, where young people begin to rebel, while in the poorer castes that is much more difficult, because the benefit of marriage brings improvements in many families, because as already said the bond is based more than anything on the economy.
wonderful work and admirable documentary without exception there is no doubt that Indian weddings are one of the most traditional and ancient, all ritual clothing arrangements and the great wedding are admired a complete explanation and very clear shots and with great details I like everything about India And my desire is to travel the other year and witness a live wedding I would like to talk about bharati and more about the steps of how to guide me to study their religion and I am Mexican, I do not know even if an Indian girl is interested in meeting a Hispanic and as the Indian family accepts the relationship I would like to know more about how to woo an Indian girl without affecting the traditions, everything that is Indian fascinates me and I am slowly learning your language great job congratulations for your effort to make known more
very good documentary this divine ……… well I want to tell you that I am with a Hindu, he belongs to a caste, his ideas are modern, he respects my religion a lot because I am Catholic and I am Peruvian …… ..he is a man who give all the love of the mindo I am the happiest woman in the world although the distance for now prevents us from being together
Well, these customs ... I can't understand them or anything ... and they know why, look, I'm Peruvian, I was with a Hindu boy…. We loved each other but because of those customs that exist, I owe my total unhappiness ... I can't conceive that being in love with him ... his family could marry him to a girl he didn't even know ... I hope that the same thing that happened to me happens to no one .. because it is horrible to live like this.
Hello… very good explanation of the Hindu culture. I'm from mexico. And I have a similar experience as in the previous comments. I fell in love with a Hindu and when his family found out about our girlfriend, they ran to find him a wife. The Hindu that I fell in love with is an honest, fair, sincere, chivalrous, kind, smart man ... the perfect man. I have not met someone like that and I think the education they gave him is impeccable, although the custom of marrying him to a stranger is horrible for both him and me, I think it will change in a few years.
Hello, I am Mexican and I still do not know any Hindu personally, but everything Hindu fascinates and attracts me since I had a dream in which I saw myself as a priestess or something like that from that culture, since that moment I have discovered that Even Hindu music is my favorite and that every time I know or hear something about Hindu culture, every pore on my skin bristles and I would like to meet someone as smart, enigmatic, loving and impressive as the Hindus and if I fell in love never leave it regardless of anything, because what seems important to me is that in this life we came to be happy and you always fight for what we really love, even if it seems impossible.
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I want to know more about the Indian weddings, the belief of the Buddhist school of Nichiren Shu, because I practice Buddhism from that school and I want to marry with that ritual. and Get an authentic sary. Thanks.
Hi SABY, how are you? My recommendation is: DO NOT DO IT please, I do not recommend it, get out of that relationship as soon as possible before you get more and more involved. In your relationship there may be two options: The first is that the family supports him and gives them their consent, but that has a 1% probability. The second is that your family has deeply ingrained customs and they arrange your wedding with a stranger, which is more likely to happen! I tell you all this because I fell into the second option, and I fell madly in love with a boy that I never believed would exist, chivalrous, kind, sincere, charismatic, my soul mate. He warned me from the beginning when we were just dating what was going to happen (about his arranged marriage), but I don't care since he is an angel fallen from heaven and I did not want to miss the opportunity to meet a charming man. in every way. Our relationship lasted for 2 years, we ended for the good of both, we are still the best friends there is. He is getting married at the end of 2010.
Just to finish, I wish you the best of luck in the world and it would make me very, very happy to know that your relationship was successful and that you will be able to live a fabulous story with him.
PS: I'm just telling you that not everything is lost, I know a couple (the Indu and she Mexican) who could have their story, but if they want I'll tell them later. See you and good luck !!!!!! From the heart
Hello everyone, good morning, I am only writing to tell you that you always have to defend love, but the authentic one and not let yourself be trampled by anything or anyone, and in this India-Mexico love affair, etc. It would always be good to take things slowly and act cautiously so as not to lose oneself in the attempt to get to the other and much more if that other is not willing to do their part.
Greetings and be happy.
Jess Thanks for your great answer the truth is something like you say wonderful but sometimes you have to have your feet on the ground, you know Jess, at first I was as doubtful about it, sometimes I feel butterflies in my stomach more fun, but I think that They are simply illusion, and the most of the case that at my 26 years of age he has been the first person who has treated me as a Lady is really treated
Jess but tell me if you've forgotten? I think it's a bit difficult right? What does he tell you if he is getting married? would they continue talking on the cell phone or I don't know? who knows by electronic means? Tell me pls, this of forbidden loves is hard, I believe and I think that they take it as normal or I know… I'm confused…. If he gets married, will he forget you like he never knew you?
Hi Saby. Do not hesitate, you just have to talk to him to find out what would happen with their relationship. On the other hand, the treatment he gave me is totally different from the treatment that my own countrymen would give me, he is quite a gentleman, I felt like a queen when I was with him.
We talk and the friendship relationship will continue until the end, at present we continue talking every day through the chat, to give us advice, encouragement. She is definitely getting married since her family has already talked to the girl's family, and there was already an engagement party. In this party, a ceremony is done with the two families, their best clothes are used and rings are exchanged between the couple, this ritual is like the first step towards the union between them. He is very nervous about the marriage and the truth is that the least he thinks about is that girl, so he tells me that if he returns to Mexico, we could see each other again ... well that he tells me now, but you never know when a person is going to change his mind, although I do not think so, since he promised me that he would never change with me. The truth is that I did not lose a boyfriend, I won such a special person, I do not regret having met him and having experienced that.
Well, look at me I'm going to be sincere and honest, he also told me that he is going to get married next 2011, and the truth is, I don't want to suffer and you know I'm taking it as one more experience in my life, but he maintains Watching me online, if I show up or not, if I talk to other people, he tells me not to talk to anyone online, that is why he takes care of me, that he is there to make me happy, well things like that At first I told him that I did not want to talk about the future, because the future is somewhat uncertain ... and so we remain, but sometimes in my heart, they give me things to ask him about his marriage and those things, and he very sweetly He tells me that we live our present, it is better, than living an uncertain future, and well, you know, sometimes I wonder why this boy came into my life? of knowing that one day I want to be with a person who cares about me as well as him, it is super special as you describe your boy, but it is strange that, I know that it is because of their traditions and all the rrolo, but you prince, how do you see that girl? if it attracts you ?? ... I have read that they are very different from us because of their culture in terms of marriage, we in America know a person, we fall in love and passions and loves come to light and with time this union is weakened, for them it is the opposite, Parents choose the right one for them, they get married, and from there they begin to know each other and live experiences and that is when love begins to blossom over time and love grows… ..
Well but tell me what he does or what he thinks when he sees his future wife?
Look one day I told him that the beauty of this is that we both have a nice memory ... And he seriously told me not to talk about it ... Anyway, dear, tell me a hug ...
Hello Saby, do not suffer anymore, sometimes it is necessary to live day to day as if tomorrow did not exist, live what you have to live with him and with whoever appears in your life without losing yourself, focus a little more on you so that you do not get lost, if the person you are in love with is the right person for you, even if it takes a long time, it will finally be for you, in any case, do not take the candy out of your life ever thinking about things that may not be Or maybe yes, try to be happy and if you really love him, try everything before he falls, believe me that when you see the person you love married sometimes love becomes stronger and if you do not control or sublimate it or channel in other ways and with other people life can turn sour. Do not lose faith and as long as he does not get married, remember that in war and in love anything goes, do not leave him or let him leave you, try everything and show your love with everything, 100% so that later there is no regret On the other hand, for not having done something that you wanted to do, if after this battle you cannot, then close ranks and take it as it says: as a beautiful experience, sometimes you have many things to learn and you do not understand them until you pass the days, months or sometimes even years, everything depends on each one and the plan that the supreme being has for each one of us.
Take care girls, encourage Saby, encourage Jess, fight and be blessed in love.
Hi Saby. You know !!!… Laura is absolutely right, listen to her very well, I also recommend that you live this beautiful relationship 100%, and as my Indian says: «Enjoy life». If this guy is still with you, I think you should learn to the fullest from him, this will help you choose the man who is going to be with you for the rest of your life and not just any kicker out there.
In my case, the way to overcome my great loss is to focus on my career, of course he continues to support me a lot. Now we only see each other on weekends, later, we are going to see each other less, since that is how he wanted our relationship to end (little by little), I don't like this at all, since I would have liked to be with him always until his plane leaves for India and he doesn't see him again. I now feel very lonely, since he is now very dry with me, the relationship froze.
On whether he is attracted to her? Well, he tells me no, only that she is a good girl, and that he does not know if he is going to fall in love with her later. The truth is that he does not know what will happen to him in the future, he is very confused.
I send you my sincere greetings and a hug
!Enjoy life! 🙂
Hello Saby, Jess and other friends, do not worry, do not feel alone, do not suffer, I had an experience in which from the pain I felt I lost weight and felt such a deep loneliness that I thought I had lost my goals, my reason for to live and the sense of myself, so much so that one night I was about to die, 2 doctors examined me and they told me that if I did not do my part I would really die of a heart attack caused by sadness, I got divorced and for myself That was the worst thing that could have happened to me back then, but now after almost three years I have realized that a woman is really worth a lot and the value is not given by a man no matter how much you love him or have loved him, The most important of all and save oneself in all planes of existence, set goals alone, achieve them and fight for the ones that we still lack, that will keep us alive, focus on being a complete orange alone to find the other orange complete that allows us to be happy, believe me, one does not he dies and I have already seen it, it just depends on having courage and being strong. As I always tell you with all my friendship and my open soul towards you, fight for what you long for and do not lose it, if that is not possible, look for or hope for other things or other people that perhaps will make you immensely happy and unimaginably lucky , believe me.
Jess read your comment and the truth is that I noticed you very sad in the letter, I have been documenting a lot about these relationships, I have even seen videos of love of the Hindus and everything and even love between them ends up trite and tragic. Seeing a video on YouTube (Bikhri Bikhri) is a super sad song, and that is another reality for this pair of lovers, even being Hindus, what a horror, I am resentful and well, I even started to cry (what horror) because it is the truth! I can not deny it, hatsa I remembered you too watching this video of you and you are sad because it is hard to live things like that,
Jess but tell me despite the fact that the boy is so strange with you, what does he intend to do with his life and with you, or rather is it all over? : (... - He told you that he is confused? In what sense is he confused ahh ... ah and that makes me feel uncomfortable ... !!! sorry if I don't know how to express myself through this letter if not I'm a little sentimental ... a hug ... ah And tell me, what a pity that I asked you so much but I want to know if he already had that wedding, that they celebrate it I do not know for how many days, because in a previous letter you had told me that they had held a first meeting then when will the officer! and if you already live with such a girl ... .. you take care of me a hug and the truth is I like you super well !!
Hi Laura, I also read your comment along with Jess's and you know I'm going to tell you that I had a love that I fell in love with. I gave my heart my soul my life anyway everything in its entirety All 100% love, I even thought about formalizing a home Everything lasted a long time, when this person failed me emotionally, broke my heart, my soul, my love, my self-esteem was on the ground, I am going to confess that I even almost went crazy, my mother was by my side supporting me a lot and a friendship lent me a book that helped me a lot to heal and see life differently but that was not easy ahh1 !! The book was the awakening of Anthony de Mello, I had no life in those moments for me it was a meaningless life, for me there was nothing, I was almost trying to commit suicide but something beat in my life and I don't know but something stopped me, I don't know What happened, but something happened, I cried a lot and spent it back, I spent some time, and I went to a community of nuns I was there for 6 months of my life, I thought I would stay, but I discovered that my thing was to have a family and for That got me out of there, I started to trust God more and I started to get a little more love for myself and life within 100% of those I was recovering in that convent 25% of joy I left there and I returned to my house again, I was working and doing different things, I began to make new friends, I am not a woman who likes to hang out at parties and things like that, rather I am more from home .. in short, seeing and meeting boys, until now I have met 4 men but none have met my expectations, they are only men. is that they only want something momentary and nothing serious, they are not special or detailed, nothing, only empty inside, what a horror I left a time to pass and now this person has come into my life, that the truth is, I would not give myself completely because we talk on the web almost every day and it fills me with many special things that no man has done that with me, but I don't want my feelings to dominate me, it's hard for me, because I've never experienced something like this, not even with that Ex-boyfriend I had, I think it's hard to control feelings as long as you have something that motivates you, do you mean to be insensitive? or live and feel nothing? or not to fall in love? I do not understand ? We are talking, take care of yourself… a hug…. forgive me if I am as entangled to write ... bye
Hello Saby, hello Jess, look, I consider that it is not about being insensitive, it is about not giving more than what you receive, if you give a call, it is only fair that he does it too, if you kiss just enough is that he too, you give and receive, give and receive, it would be great if one hugged and received two, bad if one hugged and received nothing, don't you think? If you invest your energy in thinking about him, talking to him, talking to other people about him, it would be wonderful if he did the same, if not, I think that if you should channel all that capacity to love and give towards another person and if there is no other person at the moment, let me tell you that we can also think about other things. What I want to tell you is that it is very important to realize that it is not necessarily necessary to have a partner to function individually, although having a partner is a stereotype, a need, a happiness, etc., it does not mean that being alone for a while Whether it is short or long, it means a failure, take the opportunity to know more about everything and everyone, especially yourself and give yourself the opportunity to enjoy yourself like this, become independent emotionally and mentally and you will no longer worry about whether someone loves you or not because love for yourself and trust in the supreme being will suffice. There is a saying that says: It is not good to beg for an incomplete love, better look for the love that is perfect and that will never disappoint you and even that perfect love that is God will reward you for what now hurts, worries you and confuses you.
Take good care of yourself and remember to always smile.
Well, Laura has been the answer that I have never received, and see I found it, hahaha, but you know you have everything, but all reason, I see that you have matured a lot as a human being and I like that, the idea on this planet in which we live together With so many individuals, is that we must learn to the fullest and try to understand life and what we are here for, see how we can overcome the tests of life and continue with life, and try not to fall into the same mistake, you know once I read something that said, life is fine, the world is fine, only that we have a big problem is our mind how it sees things or how we really want to see them ...
Well, Laura has been the answer that I have never received, and see I found it, hahaha, but you know you have everything, but all reason, I see that you have matured a lot as a human being and I like that, the idea on this planet in which we live together With so many individuals, is that we must learn to the fullest and try to understand life and what we are here for, see how we can overcome the tests of life and continue with life, and try not to fall into the same mistake, you know once I read something that said, life is fine, the world is fine, only that we have a big problem is our mind how it sees things or how we really want to see them ...
WHAT DOES LOVE MEAN? It means seeing a person, a situation, a thing as it really is, not as it imagines it to be and responding to it as it deserves. A.M
I wanted to send a message to Jess and Laura ..
Let us put ourselves in the hands of the Great Supreme Being
and not in the hands of men
because God's love equals his GREATNESS
bye
Hello girls, you know their experiences are very similar… I also suffer a lot because the person that I love so much in this life… he got married… we have talked about the problems, he says that he still loves me but that he cannot do anything against his culture… I know that suffers idual that I because it was true love ... those who are not easily found but the only thing I can do is forget ... although I can never do it because he is the person who illuminated my life ... the one who gave colors to my heart of black and white … I don't know if I can forget, he says that he will never forget me…. I had so much sadness in my heart that I had reactions to my health, it gave me stress with depressive anxiety ... it is horrible to go through that ... but little to little I could overcome it.
Hello Isabel, I perfectly understand your situation, because I have been there and from time to time I go through anxiety and depression, it is horrible, sometimes I do not know what to tell you is red when you have loved someone in your life, since I passed by there, now Well, if you have already read, I am talking to a super special Hindu via the internet, and after two years someone very special appeared in my life and I felt alone, now I talk to him, but as I know he is going to to marry (the same story of Jess) so I am as cautious and I have already read enough about that culture, that's like everything, some couples get married and others not because we are foreigners anyway ... but how much for me isabel the Indu boy already married? And does he still call you or do you want to keep getting excited How long was your relationship with him? ……. take care of yourself a hug
Hello girls, this Hindu page has brought us together for some reason, perhaps it is so that we realize that although we do not know each other we are similar I would say that in many things. Take good care of yourselves, I already appreciate you even without knowing you physically. Good weekend and may we be very happy with or without Hindus, ha ha.
Ahh Laura for me it is also a pleasure to meet you and the same for Jess and Isabel, if I think you are absolutely right sometimes, things do not happen by pure coincidence, and the most curious thing is that they are very similar experiences, I hope and I wish each of you that you can find a special being in which you can share your lives with much love and much prosperity in this earthly field in which we are, suddenly I know that each one will now be busy with their obligations at this time or such Once in your free time now, but with all my heart, I sent each one of you a big hug from my heart and I wish you continue to have strength in your spirit to continue in life and even more so in the field of Love… ..Happy weekend for you 😀 and then if as you say… Let's be happy with or without Hindus (divine) !! hehehe bye.
hello ps look at this story also affects me a lot ... and worst of all he says that he still loves me and no matter how married he is, he will always love me since she is just a commitment. I don't know what to do my friends tell me to forget about him, but it is very difficult, I have tried to do it until I have left work so as not to see him again and so that he does not affect me ... but it was impossible, I ended up returning to see him again, to feel it and have it ... but the reality is different .. how many times has he told me that I do not understand his customs .. I have tried to do it, but a woman in love cannot understand that your lover saying that he is going on a trip just because his brother was leaving getting married ... ends the same and so does his sister. I mean, I begged Diosito to forget about him ... but it seems he doesn't want to ... and I'm still clinging to him like a fool ... I swear I don't know what to do to forget him ... thank you Saby for answering me.
Girls, it's nice that you too… Saby Laura and Jess are sharing… but there's no denying that they have something special that Latinas love… Where are you girls from? Well, Jess, you say that your indu is still not married .. but I know that you would give everything for him .. He would risk everything, and if he says he loves you, he will not care what his family says to him .. maybe he can continue Rash's advice .. nothing is said in this life, do everything possible for him to stay by your side. Maybe when he is no longer by your side .. you can repent and say .. why not try? just give everything .. open your eyes you still have time ...
I know your answer ... this happened 3 years ago ... in 2007, we were in love ... several months, and in January 2008 he told me that his brother was getting married, no one else. But he told me to wait for it, it was obvious, I had to do it, he asked me. but I arrived after 2 months already married I swear that my heart broke into a thousand pieces. He came but totally different, he was not the person from before, happy charismatic. I totally change until I lose weight enormously. Months passed and he apologized, he followed me to talk to him and he always told me that I did not understand his customs, and that he did not know that his father was going to marry him. I found a friend of his ... it seems that she was a good friend since I told her everything, she told me that it was true that he did not know anything ... and how the party was going to be great and to make a single expense she decided to get married his sister and him. You don't know how I felt totally terrified ... but hey, the months kept passing ... I realized that he was not entirely to blame, and we continued to see each other secretly ... and not because he was bad ... but I needed to have him ... it's something inexplicable ... well I hope that I give some advice bye girls.
Hello friends, hello dear Isa, you know your story is very beautiful but dark, it even reminds me of the Clone soap opera, where Jade and Lucas have the same problem as you, only here Jade is the Muslim, they are both married and They have a daughter each in their marriage, they have not seen each other but they yearn for each other, they long for each other, they love each other and in the end they will end up together ...
You know Isa, I do not consider you bad, in fact those circumstances did not depend on you, but if your own well-being depends on you, the fact that he has married or they have married him depended in part also to a certain degree on his consent.
The important thing here is to realize what has really done for you, you faced health problems and even stopped going to work, in both cases it seems that you have given up certain things, but what has he given up for you? It seems that he hasn't sacrificed anything, has he? He is with his wife and he is with you and it is a circle that does not close either with her or with you, it would be fair if he was happy with her or with you or I do not know if you are willing to be the second and for how long. He must give you your place, you should try if he is capable of giving it to you even for a while and if not, I think that the bad one is not being you, although cheating on his wife is not the most beautiful, he is the one who is not being very good that we say neither with her nor with you.
Take care: Sometimes justice is not up to us to put it to us in the fact that you think that everything was unfair for you, because it was, but then what would you feel if you were the Hindu wife he cheats on because he did not loves? As women we must watch our backs ... It is complicated, but your heart will guide you.
Well Isa thanks for your answer
In a very difficult situation for you as well as for him, why he went to his India and they married him by force and he did not even know anything and you, well, did not wait for him and who did not ... I would too !!! The truth is I don't blame you at all, because I see that you are a very sensitive woman and believe in love, but as Laura says, what that Man has done for you !! you have sacrificed everything, and he?
Hello girls, Isa, Saby, Jess and other friends, good morning everyone, how are we doing with our earrings? Better now? Little by little right? Well with reference to your question Isabel: I am Mexican, I live in the State of Mexico, in a few days I will turn 28 years old and I have a son of almost 4 years old, I am an administrator, divorced, and the rest I already told you, ha, ha I hope you are very well and you will see that soon we will laugh together at all this that is happening now, we will remember this website as a support to release those things that disturb us.
Take care of a lot, a hug to all and a lot of success in your lives ... Laura.
Hello, well my name is Jessica Torres, I am also Mexican, I live in the State of Mexico. And the boy I fell in love with gets married in November, but he is here in Mexico and he goes to his country in October. I said that he is confused because his family pressures him so much to get married, well I would say too much. The truth is that it worries me because she gets very stressed every time she talks to her family (and she talks to them almost daily). In the situation I am in, I was very, very sad about what is going to happen, but I understood, digested, captured, etc ... and I am taking the position of only making him happy, because it is not his fault and with this that I understood I no longer feel sad, because even though I cried a thousand tears, I am not going to change his destiny, the only thing I can do now on this day and until it is October, is to enjoy every moment to the fullest with him, make him happy and what looks good. The truth is I don't know what I'm going to feel or think when he gets married and returns to Mexico, I think it's not a good idea to see him again, but if I do, what I could do would be ... like when you see a good friend, see him. With eyes of friendship and not of love, I don't really know now.
Isabel, how sad is your story, I could not give you advice because I have not lived it yet, I can only tell you: be a little more like men ... do not affect you, better think that it is better for you, do not feel.
I send a big hug to all of you and enjoy life !!!! 🙂
Hello girls, well I see that situations are complicated and very hard for you since you have had them personally and well that is really very nice and hard at the same time because they have shared many personal experiences, in my case I try to share it with You because my situation is just beginning and it is Via solo Internet but they say out there that even through that means he also falls in love, but I also know that he will marry because he told me in the first talk ... I try to get into each One of his stories and he feels hard because I don't know what will happen when he gets married, he tells me that the most important thing on his mind is his Work, Me, and his Family nothing else. and when he comes home from work he talks to his mother and then he talks to me online every day
I tell you girls that I try not to put it so much in my heart so as not to suffer later but sometimes the heart is stronger than reason.
It sounds funny …… I tell you that I even taught him to say I love you in Spanish
and he already taught me to say I love you in hindi hehe
a hug to all Bye
Hello, I have read this page out of curiosity, because I am Colombian and my great love is Indu, and I wanted to know much more about their customs, culture, rites, although he has taught me a lot, I like to investigate. We are going to get married in Dec. and the truth is that the most difficult thing has been to convince his parents, especially the Pope, but he has ended up accepting our union despite being me of another religion, and being a single mother.
It is true that it is a very traditional culture, but you have to assert your feelings, and when you are a parent, the only thing you want is the happiness of your children, and my in-laws have understood this.
I want to send a greeting to the girls Isabel, Laura, Jess, Saby, they have a history of beautiful and intense love affairs, and I think and believe that the important thing is to live them, enjoy them and learn from these experiences, it is better that tomorrow they say WHY I DID IT, to wonder WHAT WOULD HAVE HAPPENED IF I DONE IT.
Take good care of yourself. Bye
hello girls how are you .. good to your question i know .. i dont know if it is the best answer, but i dont know if this situation is to be or not, but when we have the opportunity to be alone, ps we behave as if we were .. but later when I am working I know that he is aware of me .. although I do not want to admit it I have realized that when someone approaches me (a man) he has a face ... and obviously he cannot say anything to me because apart from that is his pride. but .. it's nice to know and feel that he loves me because he has shown it to me in various ways ... maybe small, no lose. but now he has not risked anything for me so far and I recognize it. how much I want it to do, but I don't know if it's fear or respect. I don't know what to do girls sometimes at night I rewind everything that happened before he got married, it was so cute, but maybe that will never happen again…. Take care girls, ay elisa, I'm really glad that your indu's family has accepted you, really. As I would like my indu's family to do the same… bye girls.
ha ha I know that if they know that if they know that they are going to get married, because they fall in love with others ... well sometimes not even they are to blame ... because the heart is deaf and very stubborn. They must also suffer for being tied to a person that they barely know each other on their wedding day… I tell them something last night that I was in India, aha how crazy. take care girls.
Hello Isabel, well I just read what you wrote and then if you are right, that he shows his interest in you and that he is jealous, hehe, but what else can be done there? You know Isabel, I think you should think about yourself now, give yourself the opportunity with another young man, I know that now it is not the right thing to do because in your mind only lives the Love of the Hindu, and I know that 10 thousand more divine men will pass you by. the world by your side, you will not be interested in any of them, but you must spend some time alone and without seeing it, I know that you must go through that duel, but you must do it because you also deserve an opportunity to be happy with a man ... even if it is not him, I understand that he married because of a simple commitment and habit, even though he did not love that woman, and deep down he still loves you, and then what does he want? keep playing hidden love with you? ………… ..Ahy !! I do not know, I think that those Hindus should send their feelings themselves, not their parents, but for them parents are the Authority and above all God
A hug Isa 😀
hi chiks umm i wrote wrong haha it was last night i dreamed i was in indiajaj how crazy. Well really, sometimes when you think a lot about a person you stay and dream and it's not a joke .. I'm so bad but so bad that without lying I dreamed every day with this indu for a good time ... plop .. and you do too ??
girls .. the hindu's birthday is coming ... what do I do? help me please…………
there are!!! How hard is that answer Isa ... you left me speechless the truth ... and when is the happy date ???
Well, the truth is that I still do not dream so much with him, mine as it is via interent avaces I dream that he sends me messages on skype and mensenger nothing else, sometimes that if I am going to tell you, sometimes I think that he writes to me late in the afternoon night, I even turn on the laptop, Ahhh what life is this ... it seems like a crazy one ... and as for the answer let me think about it and I will help you ....
Hello girls these stories are unique, my boyfriend is also from India and after reading everything I have something scared he is like a Prince I do not want to lose him
Hello Monica, hello everyone, I hope you are all very well Saby, Jess, Isa, a big hug wherever you are. Greetings.
Girls I am another one with this story, I am Latin and I am with a Hindu, but he is Muslim, but anyway, as custom dictates in India, Muslims are considered another caste and they only marry each other, he told me that if he goes to India, his parents will marry him and what he did is not go in 2009 and he does not plan to go this 2010 either, he lives in another country, it is cyber love like Saby's but we are going to turn 2 years old and it is a prince like everyone else, I don't know what to do, prepare for the worst ????
Hello Shaheen, I think you should talk to him about the issue, but not superficially but about the real possibility that you can be together not only mentally and online but also about the real possibility that you can be together physically, it is say speak and accept whether or not yours can evolve into a more solid and close relationship. Take care, do not worry, what I would do is to communicate my feelings, my doubts about us, etc., to know for sure if ours can be done 100%.
ahhhhhhhh and to make matters worse, he is in India now ... then what I have to face ... and that he told me that the family is openmind anyway ... I don't know what the tide brings ... that I will accept ....... maybe the tide will bring better things later. a kiss
Huge greetings to @Jess @Isa @elisa @laura
hugs ... I want to see you all happy ...: D
@Sha it is good that you meet your Hindu in another country .. and it is better that they are far from his parents ... we have to wait to see what solution your Hindu gives you and what future he wants to give you ... super divine of the little details hehej .. my friend I want you to be happy ... I want all of us to be happy with Real men who are worthwhile ..
@Jess @Isa @elisa @laura 😀
Saby thank you very much friend, your words do me a lot of good the truth, I hope that we are all happy tb, I hope we do well, I do not want to make decisions alone, so I ask for advice and your support in certain decisions do me a lot of good because My family does not know anything about the suggestion of the neutral country, what we plan to do is I go for studies and he for work, just say that, let's see what God says, thank you saby.
@Sha it is good that you put yourself in the hands of God, because in the hands of men it is very difficult ... look, ask God and tell him to send his angel first to help you clear your doubts and your ways, I know that God will give you the best ..
look @Sha I write here because sometimes I feel lonely and sad about this situation that I live in my sentimental part, but I feel my heart calm ... it is something so strange, this is the wall where I can express myself and write everything I feel from the bottom of my heart and my feelings ...
a hug
Saby I also express myself here and it helps me a lot, thank you for sharing these things with me, we are going to put ourselves in the hands of God and his little angels so that we do not suffer much and if we suffer that it will serve us as an experience so that we do not commit the same things again. mistakes, kisses.
@Sha sometimes the sentimental part hurts a lot, but keep something in mind, each life experience will help you grow as a person, if something bad happens to us, (that's how we see it as bad), but you know God or life itself gives us many experiences, so that we can learn from them, Remember ... use your failure or your defeat or your mistakes as a platform or a springboard for your next success ... sometimes we cry because something could not be given as we want to, but tell God ... that you are not going to cry for something that he rejects, or for the door that was closed for you .. keep in mind that God has new and beautiful things for you .. sometimes the doors are closed, but if one closes others open ... and you have to move on ... Hugs
You are absolutely right, you know, I love your words, I will follow your advice, it shows that you are a very tender and spiritual girl, but we already talk a lot about my Hindu, what about your current one?
sorry I realized 3 days ago no 33
@Monica ... what do I tell you in some cases religion is important to them in other cases there are more open-minded families ... but the important thing is to know what kind of man you are with, if he is promising you a furuto or if he is spending time With you, I think that if I love a guy, he doesn't care about religion or anything ... I think that's love ... if for example I love a man and he is from another culture, I don't give a damn ... I accept it with culture and everything and if I have to become a vegetarian too…. and if he wants me then he wants me with my culture too ... a hug
Well, if he loves you and really loves you and you've already analyzed everything then…. go ahead
@Monica baby if you feel pressured and as things do not add up to you, it is better that you meditate so that later you are not unhappy all your life, remember that a marriage union is very important, it is the life partner, ... think about it and meditate it. give him a clear and straightforward answer….
@Monica .. how long have you been with him?
Hello Sha, hello Saby, a pleasure to greet you again, I also wish you to be very happy girls, the truth is that I have read your comments and I only see one thing you have an enormous capacity to love, but it is also necessary that men do not misinterpret that capacity of ours as an extreme need for love.
Saby friend it hurts me to know that you are so beautiful and they hurt you, please take care of yourself, the Hindus are charming but they are men and 99% of men whenever they have the opportunity will surprise us with something that we do not like very much, right now We have the great opportunity to look very well with whom we share our time, our experiences, I believe that you are beautiful and I imagine that you must be very beautiful physically, value your youth, these qualities must be chosen well to whom to deliver them, if you believe In the angels, the archangel Jofiel, who is the one of wisdom, asks for their support to obtain good discernment and that Archangel Chamuel helps you feel accompanied in a period of "abstinence" that I consider you should give yourself, they are the ones who have strengthened me in my moments of loneliness, so necessary to be able to value oneself and not only feel but also think.
Sha it sounds beautiful that your Hindu boy wants you to see yourself in a neutral point, but also, and the truth is that he who does not risk does not win, even so I would keep my contacts that is to say I would always keep in communication with someone in my family If everything turns out well, how great and how beautiful, but if not, it is important that there is someone you trust who can support you, that is, no matter how much you want to be with that person, do not abandon all of yourself as that will keep you sure if something goes wrong. Just remember that there are charming men who can be very dangerous, I hope this is not the case but please take your precautions.
Monic, when I was going to get married, I doubted it before entering the church, I got married and the result is that almost three years later I ended up getting divorced, not all the stories are the same but analyze very well what you feel about the boy who proposes marriage to you. If you don't want him, be sincere with him, but if you love him say so, if he loves you as he says, since that is why he is proposing something similar to you, then it is never too late, just remember one thing, and love expects everything, He supports everything and he is your true love, although it is very premature, apparently you will be happy, but look very well since it would not be fair for you or for him if they only did it to cover a social profile and you for not making him feel bad.
In short, as they all say, may God protect us and give us enough mental clarity to be able to choose well the man who will share our lives and if not our lives for at least a considerable time, a hug to all, believe me that I will pray for us because although we are from different countries I realize that our common denominator is the need for a true, lasting and authentic love, which of course we are going to find and I can see us all talking within a year and laughing at what we now It still hurts, but it won't always be like this, I promise you.
Saby already had an experience with a Hindu boy, so I think that this time it will be more bearable, I hope everything turns out beautiful because on the internet one falls in love tb although many do not believe it.
Monic, the boys from India are all the same, after a while they ask for marriage, it is because they do not let them fall in love, apparently it is a way of saying I want you to be my girlfriend, but in a more serious way, it happened to me The same at the beginning when he fell in love and I did not give him the time hehehe, what ironies of life, now I'm so hooked, ufff. I have told my boy many times that true love waits and I keep repeating it to him so that he knows it and if they care a lot in India to get married as early as possible because otherwise people will speak badly of the family, yes you are still with your boy try to talk to him and tell him that true love awaits and it is true that they introduce the girl to their family only when they are sure that this person is the one they are going to marry, I think it is because That is the pressure on his part, is that they are so strange, oh and one question: are you with him online? I believe we are all Latinas here and most of them are Catholic and for us it is incomprehensible that someone asks for marriage from now on but for them it is normal, their way of expressing the love that they may feel towards us.
Laura, thank you very much for your advice, I don't want to completely disconnect from my family, at all, even he offered me that I can take them, but I know that my family will not accept that I leave, even if it is a neutral country, I don't know what to do, I am confused, before my family supported me but on the condition that he came here to my country, but I do not dare to comment on this, I am at a crossroads, but to make that decision, if I take it, I will tell him to someone in my family, you always have to be alert, thank you Laura for your beautiful words and we are going to pray together so that our little angels enlighten us,
I love you all, kisses girls.
@Laura @Sha girls thank you for those beautiful words and how delicious to have you Laura again I love how you express yourself and you know I will take into account what you say ...
@Sha I tell you that in hours later this guy appeared I have a feeling of pain ... I spoke and I said the following ... well first of all I greeted him and he told me that he feels alone without me hahaha but then I do not believe him ... later I told him .. you have been honest with me…. ? Obviously he replied that no ... I told him you have a profile on some website to seek marriage ... he said nooo. Who told you that ???? I told him ... you want me to send you the link ... he told me of course ... I sent it to him and of course he made fun of me ... he told me that a friend put it there to help him find a wife ... that cheap story I did not think between me ,, I told him there I send him the profile and you can clearly see your photos there ... and this guy told me ... do you believe in me or do you believe in the webpages ... ??? and can you believe I left me alone speaking in msn and It was …:(
Well I've been reading all your comments. Let me first introduce myself, I am a girl from Paraguay, and I have an Indian boyfriend, he is Bengali, and let me tell you that stories do not always end badly or at least continue ... I met him through a friend online, every day We chatted, and well, I liked him, a lot to tell the truth, because he was always there to listen to me ... over time I started to like him, by the time I will have seen a photo or something like that of him, but I never really cared as look, since he was an excellent person ... fate made me leave my country for the first time for India, I went to study there and met him personally, and let me tell you that our story seems like one of those movies there would say. , that until now I do not believe it, because I am totally anticursi, from that first meeting we decided to get to know each other more ... and then we started a relationship, after a few months we realized that he would be the love of my life and I his ... to shorten the day that II present his mother, he did not feel nervous or anything because unlike other families, in his family no one imposes anything on anyone, even if they are of Hindu religion ... because the lady liked him so much ... that he already invited me to the house some Once when I returned to my beloved Calcutta, all that happened after more than 1 months, then another meeting came, this time he was going from Delhi to Calcutta with his family, I went to say goodbye to the train station, there he took me together to her mother again who was sitting and when she saw me ... the lady smiled from ear to ear, and she grabbed my arm and hugged me ... I felt like my mother had done it, since I had been without her for so long ... I felt something very nice ... he spoke to me in Bengali while he translated, then I said goodbye, we went outside and introduced myself to his father ... also a smile told me that he heard people talk about me a lot for his son ... and well the truth is that this is the story to great features, now I am in the process of writing a book about it, free or that one day I'll finish and give it to the first ... today more than a year and a half we already have wedding plans, next year most likely ... the only thing I want to say is that races do not matter, cultures when there is love … Neither religion nor color nor language… the language of love is universal and there are no barriers if you love with your heart… here nobody cares if you were from Asia or South America, because in the end we are all the same…
And on this special day I say congratulations to him too for one more year of life 🙂 I love him and I will love him forever ...
Hello María from Paraguay, how nice to know that at least justice and love exist somewhere in the world, thank God that at least for now you are the exception to the rule, with all my heart that it continues to be so and that you never they wound as they have wounded your servants; intense congratulations from me. And for all the other girls Saby, Jess, Moni, Sha, you know that the promise is in place that you will find the right Hindu or non-Hindu person, my sincerest sentiments and blessings to you, all my admiration and respect, God. bless abundantly and hear their prayers and grant them your most intimate and favorable wishes in love, health, work and spirituality, a hug to all.
How nice to have listened to your story María and for the same reason I realize that if there is true love, nothing can stop it, if these boys love us they will have to face their family and I say face them in a good way, as many of us have done. with his family, all for the love of them, because in many of our cases it is difficult for our family to also accept a boy from another culture and even more so if it is online, but love is LOVE, WHEREVER! Whoever, God makes us live these situations for something, doesn't it? It means that religion has nothing to do with it, God wants us to unite even if it is in this way because He considers us all equal.
And Laura, thank you for your good wishes, yes, we continue to be entrusted to God, only HE will give us the answer, things happen because of something, if God put these boys on the path and put us on their path, it will be because of something, he wants us to learn something, if our relationships do not happen we will have learned that one can love despite everything and they will also have learned and I hope they will not do the same with their children in the future, that their marriages will not be fixed, because they will already know what it is to truly love someone and want to marry someone for love and not just to fulfill a commitment. Now if relationships are given to us, Blessed God, He knows what he's doing, blessings to all girls.
This is Sha, a hug.
Thank you all, and the truth is that until today we are doing super well, without problems ... Do not despair because one has a very traditional family, there are many other good guys there, you just have to know how to recognize them ... One thing I want to tell you ... what They have some men, it is India, it is a pressure to marry too, I mean in the sense that they see a beautiful girl, especially a foreigner and they no longer stop bothering you, if you wind up the third date they already ask you to marry ... but let me tell him that this is not love, it is only his advantage not to remain single ... it happens a lot with those who are looking for a partner on the internet ... And the voice of the experience speaks to them because I was living more than a year in India with Indian families, and I put to test my power of observation ...
In my case my boy never told me that he wanted to get married, as I also thought, I told myself that I would never do that and that I would live alone ... Even after we met, he never pressed me or called me every 3 seconds. We took some time to get to know each other and after a lot of that we began to talk about something more serious ... time must pass, to get to know each other better ... He also had a bit of a western mentality for me, that also helped ... But hey what if friends, when God puts things in front of you, they mean that they will be for you, you don't even have to bother looking for them ... I never imagined that I would leave my country, or that I would meet such an excellent person, much less outside of India , and I never imagined getting married ... and look at me ... Someone has done a miracle with my life ...
Sorry for the spelling and syntax mistakes ... I'll improve for the next one hehe 🙂
Hello girls. My name is Patricia and I am Mexican and I am super in love with an Indian boy, his religion is Sikh. Now our problem is how to get together because it is a matter of waiting, sometimes we both despair. We want to marry, without the consent of his parents, my love is divorced and does not love his ex-wife, but his parents want him to return to her, our love goes against the clock. I'm looking at the procedures that are needed to get married civilly in Mexico, and that by the way is a world of things. I understand them all and this thing about the internet is nice but it is nicer that the stories of two different people can be put together in two opposite places.
How beautiful Paty, I wish with all my heart that you are very happy with him, ha ha, well, that both of you are very happy and that the delayed paperwork in Mexico is quick, even this time.
Greetings.
How cute Paty, best of luck to you, are you online? Or in person? Anyway, in my case we go against time too and we despair many times and we both cry but we decide to leave everything in the hands of God, we have been going online for years, but when it is love, wherever it may be , it's love, best of luck.
I am Nicaraguan I would also like to have an Indu boyfriend I have known a little about India and its customs through the internet I know it is difficult but not impossible because as we live in the Indian soap opera a Brazilian or foreign Filangui as they say married a indu and why not me
girls are still here ????
hi saby
you got lost, you no longer commented ... well, but neither did I. I don't know if you've read a comment, but a Puerto Rican went to India to meet her boyfriend and he's still there. sometimes I meet her in erl chat.
Hello Isa, what else? What happened to your life? Please tell me how are you doing with your Hindu?
Hello girls, those who are already with their Hindu in India could leave their emails to be able to chat ... Greetings!
Hello Chiqas, I am glad to have found this page, your stories are very useful to those of us who are barely going through this, the vdd is that I am in a kind of relationship with a chiqo who is obviously also from India and like others he is a love, it is fair that some of you described your children, a prince, and thanks to all your comments you tell me that no, well maybe I'm not doing the right thing, he told me that his parents want it qasar and qe Supposedly he told them that it was not yet time, because I will travel for his next birthday in about six months and he wants to wait for his parents to know me, I told him that they would not accept me, the sewun tells me that they will that they told him that they were not going to force him to qasar, his parents still do not know about me, I do not know what to do because he tells me that he wants to qasar qonmiwo, but I do not know if he wants him because he is not in this momentho to know exactly what is all about his parents, I only know that I love him in vdd, i I feel that it is the same as I do not know what to do because I do not want to have the bad experience of continuing with this and after making my trip I will find myself with the surprise that I am finished, or the simple fact of continuing to dwarf myself and in the end leave losing, hopefully all this helps me think about what I should do, thank you for sharing your experiences with all of us, greetings from Mexico. 🙂
Maggie, you rather than anyone will know how honest your boy is, if you have faith and your heart tells you that he is honest I think you should risk going and meeting him. What I can recommend is that you make the trip to India in a tourist plan as well, not only with the fixed idea with it. Of course that is the reason for your going but obviously do not miss the opportunity to know at least some places and aspects of that beautiful place. Be insightful, look at him and his way of being. And on the internet he tries to find out about his family, but clearly, true love I think will be born when I meet him in person. That will be your decisive moment to decide whether to stay with him or not. Good luck to you. I hope my words serve you 🙂
Hello I am reading each one of you and it is as if all your stories were mine, I also fell in love with a boy from there, he asked me to be his girlfriend, he also hid me, I also found him more pages, more girls, more lies, he also gave me many explanations I also fell in love more with his talk, he says that it is his philosophy in short, girls who have they who know how to handle us well because that is what they do to handle us as they please we close ourselves to everything else and our world is they we do not listen to Nobody else and until we step deep when we realize that they have lied to us now I do not know how to take away so much pain as they forget the promises I love you I miss you tell me how?
Hi Maria, thank you very much for your comment, the truth is that if I am applying thu qonsejo, I have been speaking little by little about his family and poetry he has not given me reasons to distrust him and how he feels about me, i I know that if everything is, that until now it is probably possible to achieve alwo good of this relationship, what I do not like is that he does not want to move away from his country, he proposes that I go to live with him but poetry, I do not know what to do with him. You can go to a Mexican for labor issues, I don't like the customs of that country, as you all know they have too many rules but I don't know what to do because he is planning to partner with a friend to open a showroom for wedding invitations. Event planning too and I see him very excited that I don't want to disappoint him but I don't want to leave my family either. I don't know what to do. I appreciate your comment in vdd greetings 🙂
Hi Maggye, I'm glad everything is fine with him. And well as for the labor issue it is somewhat glassy more or less, you say you do not like their customs, I suppose you mean the issue of clothing, food and others. What I can tell you is that they are not very conservative either, suddenly when more conservative you would be when visiting their family, but not necessarily. Food is somewhat adaptable, but for you who are Mexican, in another aspect if you refer to people's behavior, let me tell you that it depends solely and exclusively on your family circle, or whoever it is. I don't know if your boyfriend is Punjabi, Marathi, Bengali, from South India, and if he professes his religion. You should look at these factors, for example, my boyfriend is Bengali, and his family of Hindu religion of Brahman caste, but he really doesn't give a damn about this. He behaves like another person, out of fanaticism, and the most important thing is that his family supports him.
For the labor issue, depending on your specialization, there are countless places in the administrative, financial, tourism, business fields for Spanish-speaking people, in fact, that is where people who speak Spanish are most needed. The obstacle that has been imposed now is that work visas are only granted if they pay a foreigner more than $ 25000 a year, that is, it is almost impossible. Now if you are married to an Indian, you will probably do it in India, after that, you have to apply for another visa that is x, which does not give you the right to work, after 1 year of marriage you are applicable to a PIO card, with which you have the same rights as an Indian. I think they are data to take into account nothing more, because I too am getting married soon and I was making the pertinent inquiries.
You say that you do not want to leave your family, because you will have to make a decision, because to adapt to a place like Mexico I think it would be a bit complicated, apart from the legal complication. I think you should try living there and study the environment, and then decide what to do with. If he really loves you, he will never oppose your wishes and less in terms of family. Well I hope my words serve you again.
If you travel to India contact me, I would love to meet you, I travel in December. All the best!
Hello, my name is Rosa, I am Spanish and I have a relationship with a Hindu boy for a year and a half, we are doing well but he has not spoken with his family yet, nor does he know what he is going to tell him, I don't know what to do.
Hello Rosa, first you already know him, I say personally or only online? If it is personally, it is an advantage, now he has already proposed to you, I say because of the question that you are worried about your parents, if so, give it a little time, remember that in India it is not very easy to accept people from another country and less of another religion or caste to marry so if he already proposed marriage to you, then talk about all your doubts with him about what I am commenting on and after that see their reactions well be very careful because they can say many things but the reality is another I know many people who are regretting being involved with a boy from there right now and I also regret believe it after 1 year and a half of relationship in the end it was all a game. Greetings and any questions or comments I am at your service
Hello Maria! Well, I have not yet done the research to live there in detail, in fact we were talking and I think he also likes the idea of trying to live here in Mexico, it is another option that at first we thought about living with some relatives of mine who I have in the USA but we do not like the idea that for the Hindus it is not that easy to get good job opportunities and I know that because apart from that my relatives know people from India who live in the USA and they know that for them it is not so easy a good economic stability he has friends who moved to the USA and they did not do so well that let's say so that poetry we are going to try to get our plan to qabo within 6 months I mean that qada who in their respective country gathering the necessary money for what need. Hopefully I will be able to adapt well to Mexico and it is a fact that I will see it in December and of course I would like to ask you if I will travel to New Delhi. I send you many greetings, I hope you find yourself very well 🙂
OLA GIRLS I HAVE BEEN READING YOUR STORIES, WELL I HAVE BEEN LEAVING MORE THAN TEN MONTHS AGO WITH AN INDU HE IS SUPER CUTE HE IS RECONTRAROMANTICO, THE WORST IS HE WAS STUDYING IN CHURCH ALMOST TWO YEARS AND WE WERE MORE THAN TEN MONTHS AGO. HE HAD TO RETURN TO CALCUTTA - INDIA, NOW I'M AFRAID BECAUSE HIS EX IN LOVE IS AYA AND ACCORDING TO THE ONE WHO TOLD ME THE GIRL IS VERY PRETTY AND THAT HER FAMILY LOVES HER A LOT AND THEY ENDED BECAUSE HE GOED TO STUDY IN ENGLAND NOW I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO, AND WORSE NOW WE DON'T TALK MUCH BECAUSE OF THE DIFFERENCE OF HOURS AND EVERYTHING. I KNOW THAT HE LOVES ME BUT I THINK THAT DISTANCE IS SEPARATING US THAT I DO
Hello everyone, because of fate, I fell on this page. I have read many of the published stories. My case is no different, on the contrary it is very similar to all of you. I am Mexican but they transferred me from work to the United States. There I met a charming Hindu boy ... from the beginning he told me that he had not gotten involved with anyone because in the end his parents would marry him. We did not care and we lived an intense, magical love story, always basing everything on the day to day. The conflicts were always because of knowing that we would not have a future together, but still we continued. Besides, I never replied and he always told me that it would be very difficult to deal with cultural differences, language and others, and I always told him that I did not want that for me either. Two months ago he told me that some of his relatives in the US had found him the daughter of a family of acquaintances to marry, that's when I couldn't take it anymore and we had to finish. At first we planned not to see each other, the wine fired us and I thought it would be easier, but my life has lost all meaning. Every week he marks me or sends me a message to know how I am, he behaves indifferent, but I who know him (we lasted a year and a half together) know that he is lying to me. The last thing is that I told him that after vacation I would not return to the United States and he told me that he would come to see me and help me, but the reality is that I lied to him, I plan to return in January, I only did it to get him away from me, or maybe unconsciously so that he would decide to come (He moved to San Francisco 5 months ago). The truth is, I love him and I would be willing to do anything so that we could stay together, but he has always been faithful to his beliefs and to his family, although I confess that they put a lot of pressure on him because the younger brother is getting married and he would have to do it first. The last time I spoke to him he told me that things with the girl were working out so they would have to compromise soon. I know he loves me, but I don't know what to do, I feel that this time I see him will be my last chance to be honest and do something to change his mind or open a little hope. Many times disappointment invades me and I say I am asking for the impossible, but other times I think that hope is the last thing that dies and that I have to make every last effort to obtain what I really want and it makes me happy. Sorry for making such a long comment, but I hope that among all your stories and experiences you can give me some good advice ...
All greetings and the best of this holiday season.
Leticia, I deeply appreciate that you have written to me. I am sure that all of you have experiences that by sharing them help make the misery of some more bearable.
Well, I'm going to meet him, remember that I told him that I was definitely leaving the country, which is a lie. The truth is that in the bottom of my heart I know that it is almost impossible for things to function between us, but there is a small part of my being that does not want to win and wants to fight, there is a little hope ... so I prefer to do it and not say later… .if only there were.
What happens then I will have to face it with strength and the help of God, and of course of girls like you.
Thank you very much and we are in contact
CECILY.
Hello everybody!
Well, I am Mexican and my boyfriend is from India too and he wants us to get married as soon as possible, he wants me to go there and get married in secret, this idea does not beat me much but he says that if his parents are Dan Cuenya will do everything possible so that this does not happen, another problem is that I am divorced, he knows it and it does not bother him only that again the problem with the parents. He says ok no problem after being married they can't do anything more than accept me. Is it that easy? What do you think, please help me, I am very in love with him !!
Hello, I've been seeing your comments and something happened to me, I met a Hindu, we got along very well, we talked, he was sweet, he always looked for me, but about his family I never knew anything. the faceboock hurts but I did not look for it at all but I love what I can do.
UFFFF… I ALMOST WANTED TO CRY… ONE DAY I WAS IN THE BIIOCHEMICAL CLASS AND THE TEACHER RELATED THE LINKS THAT CARBON MAY HAVE WITH THE TIMES THAT HINDUES CAN MARRY… AND HOW I WAS CURIOUS TO KNOW IF IT WAS TRUE… NOW I AM HERE PAGE .. ALMOST WANTING TO CRY… FOR EVERYTHING THAT IS MENTIONED AND THE LOVE STORIES THAT CANNOT BE… SAME AS MINE …… 🙁 AAAA I AM FROM MEXICO… !!!!!!!
I think that all this is based more on their traditions ... they have to marry who their parents impose on them ... not who they really love. !!!
The page was very nice. I liked reading because I like to know everything related to India. I like her dress, her customs and also her music. I have a CD where I listen to relaxation music. It is very beautiful.
I would like to meet a friend from India because they are so cute they do not need to change or take away anything of their physical beauty and I think also spiritual because when you look at them they have such a tender and baronile look at the same time
I met a Hindu man in Peru and I fell in love very quickly, this had never happened to me. It had never been reciprocated before it was beautiful. Now I am pregnant, but two days before I knew this he confessed to me that he was married and had two children. He got sick here and had to return to his country and leave his work project. He told me that he had fallen in love with me and that he felt very guilty about what had happened.
He has promised me that he will take responsibility, until now he has been communicating with me and calling me on the phone. I am afraid that he will not be responsible, although far away but I want him to maintain communication. Since he already lied to me, I am afraid that he will do it again, although he told me that he would contact me and he is doing it. Can someone tell me how sincere Hindus can be, how important a child is to them or if at some point they want to take it away from me and take it away.
In the first place let me tell you that it would have been wise to have found out about it before, since most Indians who live abroad and get entangled in relationships are married in their country, arranged or not, and they take it as airborne one by one. be a foreigner. Second, what has been done is done, now being frank and sincere I do not know to what extent she is responsible, first because she already did the first stupid thing to run away that means more likely that she hides everything from her family, because for them it is an infinite shame that they go through these things outside of marriage AND THAT THE PEOPLE KNOW, they better be mother if he did something ugly, rather they are super afraid of what they will say and be branded as a bad family. As I say, unless I have the balls to face everyone, I don't think I will accomplish anything. I know many cases and I myself am married to an Indian living in India and I know what the men are like here. They have even sometimes committed bigamy by marrying different women in two countries. So for all of them, be careful with them, they will be good adorable but some are well screwed. To be more awake.
Hi! I am Dominican and I also lived a story with a man from India! (this feels like alcoholic anonymous groups hee).
Girls, I have read your stories and it was sooo but sooo good because they are happening or happened. My story is very long and a little more complicated than yours, I don't want to bore you and I don't want to scare those who are related to some Indian. My Indian is Muslim and lives in the United States ... I could say that things were going well in our favor but then he changed, he began to behave differently with me and that way things were not going to work ... Because already with the cultural and religious differences it is a lot!!!! To make a relationship work you have to have a lot of good love and understanding, if not, they don't end well ... To those who are dating a boy from India I wish you good luck !!! and those of us who went through that and that beautiful love left us because we only have to take it as Facundo Cabral said ... «God does not take things away from you; frees you from them »...
A hug for all, we have many things in common and believe me that this experience makes us different. Then we talk, I will continue visiting the site
Bella because we are in the same situation, as I mentioned in previous comments, mine is from India and Muslim too and they already committed it, as someone up there said, we just have to enjoy it until we can, although he told me that go to your country to avoid that wedding, I do not know if that is so easy, for certain reasons I still cannot move from my country, but let's see what God decides, greetings to all.
The truth is, girls, I got pregnant with Indu, since we've been together for 2 years, suddenly he went to India for a month and came back married. I talked to his whole family and I told them that I loved him and that we had a baby, the family practically told me that he did. Forget and forgive him, finally, I destroyed his marriage, although they are still married, but she already knows we have a baby and that will always unite us. potatoes but I'm always going to make him and mine now, see who wins if the love for his daughter or the customs of his culture
Hello girls .. I have read EVERYTHING! Obviously I am super identified .. Please update your stories, how have you been?
Who is there happy?
Kisses
Hello everyone, a pleasure to read your stories. They leave me scared since I also have a Hindu boyfriend; I don't want them to break my heart; I'm sad. But fortitude, all loves are for the good and they are one more opportunity to love and dream and to feel a little bit of paradise in this hell, so love and let go until another opportunity arrives. Oh, I hope I think the same if they break my heart ahahahahaha. Kisses from Colombia
loa
Hello girls good tips and hlistorias
Hello girls An almost similar story I am from Peru I met a Hindu x internet we have time talking x wspp and video calls and he is super cute friendly and everything will come soon To meet us but with everything I have read I am afraid that he will break my? and is he playing with MY sentiments?
Hello rosa